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I entered the scene a month before my twenty-first birthday and haven't looked back. I'm still learning, and continuing to understand what S&M means to me. My introduction, into BDSM was great, as I learned a lot about my interests and kinks.


The varieties of scenes I've seen were quite diverse, so I have a good knowledge base. Of course, I'm always open to trying new things, and I only listed the activities I have with the most experience.

Unfortunately, I had to pull back in recent years. The last few years, I've only been able to watch from a far.I've never stopped loving the lifestyle and interested in going to events as time permits.


Getting to know someone I don't mind taking it slow, as I enjoy a good conversation. The traits that I value are honesty, intelligence, sensitivity, imagination, and a dark sense of humor.


I don't have many preferences when it concerns someone's outwardly appearance. My deepest friendships have been with all types of people. That doesn't mean I'm easy or desperate just not willing to miss out on a great opportunity.


The types of scenes I gravitate towards involve sensuality, with a good amount of sensation play. A D/s relationship, in my opinion, shouldn't be one sided. Therefore, I expect ours to be equally fulfilling. I enjoy getting to know you outside of the scene and need a close bond to go beyond being friends.

Being a switch I enjoy both sides, but I don't have to switch with every person, or all the time. My goal is to find someone that is willing to play in real life. I'm also looking to expand my network of scene friends. So if you wanted to stay friends, I'd still like to hear from you.

In my free time, what I enjoy depends on my mood. It also depends on how busy I am. A Kurosawa film on IFC, or laughing my ass off at the Adult Swim comedy lineup, is a nice night to me. Throw in some Sci-Fi in any and I'm a happy camper.


Going out on the town I prefer small gatherings. Also, I have an interest in exploring the artistic, and activist scenes in the area. I enjoy reading but don't usually have much time recently. Writers I love to read, are Ralph Ellison, Ann Petry, George Orwell, Julia Alvarez, Octavia E. Butler and Anne Rice. I also keep up with everything from world events to scientific discoveries.


Interested in meeting other in the DC, Maryland, Virginia area.


== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Switch
90% Rigger
90% Rope bunny
75% Submissive
74% Dominant
64% Masochist
64% Non-monogamist
51% Sadist
50% Master/Mistress
49% Brat tamer
49% Primal (Hunter)
44% Experimentalist
43% Brat
38% Daddy/Mommy
36% Primal (Prey)
31% Vanilla
17% Slave
17% Voyeur
14% Girl/Boy
13% Ageplayer
13% Owner
11% Exhibitionist
7% Pet
4% Degrader
3% Degradee

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12/29/2016 9:03:15 PM
I've had to clarify this recently, I'm not into any form of race play. Your Kink Is Not My Kink. Not trying to shame or judge anyone. Unfortunately, collarspace doesn't allow you to show your level of interest or lack thereof.

9/27/2007 9:35:42 PM
 . . .  the Geneva Conviction would make a good safe word.
       -S. Colbert

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aerynstark
 
 Age: 23
 Seattle, Washington