First and most importent, I don't belive it is not understood from my profile, but here it is....Looking for a slave, not a sub....and if you don't understand the diference, then you are not the one I am looking for!
Now, Some things other then BDSM ab0ut me...I love the outdoors, extreme sports, motor bikes, jeeps and the ocean is a huge part of my life and soul. I work in the hi-tech industry and in my free time, for fun, as a scuba diver instructor and love to do technical dives, surfing, sailing and many other things.
I think that dom or sub and born this way, they don't have a choice about it, i'v been living the BDSM lifestyle most of my adult life (about 18 years now) and before that, I didn't just becouse i was too young and unexpitianced to live the lifestyle. I need my slave to feel the inner desire to be in a BDMS relationship and a willing to be with all her hart and saul, and then body with a very domminent person as her master and partner both.
From my experience, the one that I'm looking for has to be very intelligent, outgoing, She can't be shy because for me BDSM is not just a game for the bedroom, it is a lifestyle.
I'm very sadistic toward my slave and only toward her and the more i will love her, I will be more and more strict, dominant and sadistic (session sadistic, will never harm my slave in any way from anger or loose my temper - I don't get angry, I get even!!!), but also very romantic and like to have fun and laugh a lot, so if you're looking for the "all the time serious and only seriouse" type of master, that is not me…
The slave for me is just a cool and cute woman that just never say no to the one she wants and love, In any aspect of he life, No matter how hard mentaly it is, or how painful it is. when she love someone she just want to give him every thing without thinking too much about it.
you should really have the needs and desires to love with all your hart and soul.
Poeple ask my why all my interests are not related to BDSM, The answer is simple, I AM LOOKING FOR A SLAVE, not a sub, and a slave is one that want to be belonged to a another person, So It is not her choise to choose me for the BDSM side of me, what I will want will her command and desire, but for who I am as a person, and when she will be mine, she will be mine with all her mind, soul and body, so BDSM lifestyle is all she need to know!!!