Communication and patience are the first tool.
I respect and love women. The way I think things should work is that an individual should have a safe environment with a person that is intelligent enough to realistically get to know them and create the erotic head space that helps them fulfill their desires. Figuring that out and making it happen is what gets me off.
What do you find sexy? What do you like? How is your sense of humor? Ideally, what are you looking for?
I always enjoy wit.
"Wit is educated insolence." -Aristotle
and i love the feeling of intelligent mutal deviancy.
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