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After some consideration, we have come to the conclusion that there is a misconception amongst the community here that Dominants must be rude or demanding. We want to get to know you, for who you are. If you expect us to be rude, demanding, or calloused to be considered Dominant, then you have obviously missed the point all together. To be clear. We are seeking a beautiful woman to share our adventures with, real time, full time, forever. You should be smart and self respecting, with a high inclination towards personal improvement. While we do enjoy having a sub in our home, it is not a requirement. Yes, we know it is cliche' to want a single woman to join us, but we don't care. We know she is out there looking for us. From this point forward we will not discuss our desires or limits regarding M/s or D.s until we have had time to get to know you.
leigh and I have spent a lot of time on CM in the past few days, and have met some wonderful people. Yes, there are a lot of fakes, and time wasters, but is that any different from real life in Dallas? If you live here you know what I mean...

Yesterday I was asked what our experience was in the BDSM world. I offered our experiences, and then said the following to better explain our views. I post this here, because this has become a common question for us to receive. We believe that a Master / Dom should not be entitled to this status just because he/she says they are. They should never use this status as an ego boost or to adjunct a God complex. A true Master is in some ways a servant to His sub. Maybe servant is not the correct word, but He should lead by inspiration, and not only by force. His diligence to Mastering His craft should be without fault. He has the responsibility of gaining the trust of His sub, and holding that trust as His highest priority. We have learned that not all self proclaimed Doms are really that. A dominant personality does not necessarily mean that person is capable of being a Master / Dom. In most cases, the over the top dominant personalities are just scared people with insecurities about themselves, and this can be a disaster to a sub. For Us, the dynamic of TPE is not about controlling someone for the novelty of feeling in control. It is however dependent on the experience and needs of the submissive. We believe that a true Master is exactly that, a Master. A Master of self control, humility, and pride. He should be fluid and dynamic in His approach to each partner, based upon their personality, and experience.