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For me a big part of D/s for the male dominant is about masculinity. For a male doms it's about taking pride in that. It's about rediscovering or embodying those values. It's about upholding traditional primal instincts and urges in relation to women. These urges are two fold. To conquer to command to take to own and use, but also to protect to guide to defend to nurture. Far too many so called doms are angry with women. And with womenkind. They hold women in low regard. This is not what a real man thinks or does. A man that can't control himself isn't fit to control others. A man that has no respect for women isn't qualifed to call one his own. With the power of dominance comes the responsiablity. It doesn't mean a dom doesn't ravish or rape or claim his sub. But only that a true dom does so in all the ways she needs and craves, because he has the ability, patience and understanding to explore her mind and therefore not only claims but also DESERVES every inch of her shaking body. Some so called doms need to man the fuck up. Or atleast reserve the title for men more worthy of it than they are. |
