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I think manners are important so please remember to say hello,or hi if you write to me, or I just will not bother to reply to your message. Its not too much to ask, you would do it if meeting a person face to face in a bar etc so why not remember basic manners on line ?!


I long to find a man to keep me naked or in just a corset when at home
Surely not too much to ask ?
That said please see fully read my profile before contacting me.

I am told this profile is negative - not in the least - I am just fed up of game players and those with bad manners.

I am genuine and the only way I can convey this is to have a blunt profile. So if you too are genuine and you can see that its not a rant, then please say hi if you wish after reading it.



I am singleI am subI seek a Dom, who isnt a pillock and has humour and patience.Hope to lead to LTR. so to those of you who dont get that,it means that you need to be unattached too, what isnt clear about that ?



For the avoidance of doubt - that means no wife, no GF, no other sub, no BF. How many other ways can I say you must be SINGLE ?????? GRRRRR why are people so thick ?


Although I am not bisexual I am happy to be used and touched by both a man and a woman as they he wishes, but I do not wish to touch the other woman below the waist. Hence the inclusion of my being able to consider a poly household ( just to clarify that, for those helpful folks who have pointed out that if I seek a single guy, how can I include a poly household)
Cyber is pointless in my view.Not looking to relocate so has to be someone in or near to London.(ie not Wales, Cornwall, Scotland - amazing what some people consider to be near - in my book its about thirty mins travel - I CBA with planning to travel, it makes things too contrived and a relationshp isnt meant to be hard work)Nor do I meet randomly or blokes on overseas trips.GRRR whats not to understand about long distance ?
As I seek a LTR anyone under 35 or over 58 should not waste their time contacting me, as in time the persons would need to meet friends and family etc. I do not send pics EVER, but happy to call you if we get to that stage and prove I am a girl and not some hairy assed bloke.
Okay lets try this - happy to chat to people generally who arent twats, but will only consider meeting someone who lives in the London areaI am NOT nor do I wish to be a slave.Anything else - chat to me and we can see if we are on the same page. Although it seems folk here are so used to being fed BS that they cant cope with someone who is honest and down to earth. See if someone can surprise me by being real and honest.

P.S. If you have a blank profile, dont bother contacting me. And what is one meant to say in reply to a one word email if Hi Hello ?..
General question, why do so many profiles lack the capital letter I ? Is it so hard to type ? It seems we are being invaded by lower case I when the writer is talking about themselves.
General question two, how come I have so many blokes who have added me to their favourites listing, but have never conversed with me ? Pointless !
4/21/2018 3:21:26 AM
Hi Does anyone know how to update or change your own profile on here. It used to be possible but I haven't logged on here for several months and it seems that the edit profile option has disappeared. If anyone knows, please email me, Many thanks
9/9/2017 2:24:08 AM
ckthecat on 9/9/17 at 10:13AM: Another educated well balanced response. Bye. Blocked now. m4toi on 9/9/17 at 10:13 AM: groan. Such a rant. Nothing quite as pathetic as a righteous fake. ckthecat on 9/9/17 at 10:10AM: In reply to your second message..... Bedford over a hundred miles from me. I do not make excuses, I state facts and I have common sense and if I feel I trust someone I am happy to meet in London. A profile is there to state each other's likes and dislikes and wants. The emails are a place to get to know and discuss. That is all I did. So why are you flying off the handle like a child who has had their ass smacked for no reason ? You are hardly going to make friends or possible subs if you react like that to someone stating their preferences. If I am what you say I am, why bother wasting your time in responding ? Now who is pathetic ? Grow up, chill out. Get real and understand that people have minds and there are nice and decent honest people on this site who do not play games and understand that we all have things we like and dislike and are free to say so in a calm and educated way. Now given the behaviour you have exhibited all the things I have said will be twisted by you into your warped head. So now I am going to block you and hope that you will go and actually think about if it's the way you respond to others that is inhibiting your possible friendships and relationships from this site. My friends on Fetlife and those I see at LAM and various other events I attend know I am no fake. Good bye and farewell you silly little man. ckthecat on 9/9/17 at 9:56 AM: Why are you so rude and aggressive ? I was perfectly polite to you. Just cos someone doesn't agree with your views you fly off the handle. That certainly doenst bow well for a relationship does it. I do not have the money to travel. A relationship is meant to be spontaneous and if one has to pack and schlap,on trains etc then it's not for me. We all have things we like and things we don't in life generally and are free to state. You may not like custard creams or tomato soup for instance, would it be right for someone to throw the soup at the wall and be insulting just cos they placed it in front of you? Your behaviour is childish and clealry not one of a Dom. I do not need to prove I am who and what I say I am to the friends I have on this site and the Doms I have met and had a relationship with. You on the other hand need to,learn manners and how to react when someone politely refuses something and perhaps go to anger management. Again I wish you luck. You certainly need it. m4toi on 9/8/17 at 5:02 PM: "I seek a relationship and that means the man must reside in London." - just pathetic !!! you are a waste of time. If you can not travel a few miles then you are pathetic. I travel the world. Bedford is hardly far away and I even used to work in London. See what a prat you are - but it is just an excuse I know. If not that you will find some other excuse as you are a fake. m4toi on 9/8/17 at 4:58 PM: very weak excuse. Seems another fake for the list. Endless wasters and dreamers here. ckthecat on 9/8/17 at 4:39 PM: Thanks but no. You failed to notice in my profile that I seek a relationship and that means the man must reside in London. I don't have the time or money to travel and I cannot accommodate Good luck. Bye m4toi on 9/8/17 at 4:29 PM: Hi there ! I am a single, mature, professional get with a GSOH. Like all the usual things - travel, dining, film etc and seek a sub lady to be my personal treasure. Interested?
8/2/2017 3:10:30 AM
To leather rubber 2 who strangely blocked me before I could send this reply It's not in the least angry. It's blunt. Too many people on websites just send random messages and a simple hi or hello would make all the difference. You stated that I wouldn't be interested in you and so I wished you well and politely signed off. So hardly weird. I again say good luck. Byebye leatherrubber2 on 8/2/17 at 10:49 AM: I paid you a compliment, that is a weird angry response. ckthecat on 8/2/17 at 10:47 AM: Erm, why no hello or hi ? Good luck in what ever you seek. Bye leatherrubber2 on 8/2/17 at 10:45 AM: Well you won't be interested in me, but it is a nice profile and not negative just decisive, which is good.
7/11/2017 4:17:59 AM
To Mtr4u2 Erm, there is , nor was there any argument. You asked for proof and I merely cut and pasted your prior messages. There was no effort, valiant or otherwise. I don't understand why you continue this nonsense and you have failed to heed my request not to contact me further. Why not just accept that some people don't get along and refrain from tedious pathetic childish insults. I say again a good bye and farewell. Mtr4u2 on 7/11/17 at 10:59 AM: How lame and incorrect your argument is but, a valiant effort never the less ckthecat on 7/11/17 at 9:45 See below the cut and paste from last exchange. I have never mislead you or anyone on here. I remain, as you can see from the below, polite and true to what I seek. Cheerio Mtr4u2 on 4/2/17 at 5:13 PM: Your good luck means nothing to me so, go off and multiply ckthecat on 4/2/17 at 3:45 PM: If you say so Not everyone thinks the same Good luck Mtr4u2 on 4/2/17 at 3:05 PM: The more attention a man gives to a woman, the more she will think of him ad cheap lol Mtr4u2 on 7/10/17 at 10:40 PM: Can you please substantiate the allegation which you just made? indeed, you insulted me by leading me via the garden path! That is a fact but, I have forgiven you ckthecat on 7/10/17 at 10:15 PM: Erm, hello Back to insult me again ? We have conversed previously and in short, we think differently So I will say thanks for your message, but au revior. Mtr4u2 on 7/10/17 at 10:06 PM: Hello
6/6/2017 2:39:24 AM
My reply today. 06.06.17 to yet another sad fool with no idea of manners or good behaviour. Why would a sub want to be with men without basic common courtesy is beyond me. Not nice is it ? In fact did use manners for using the word "Bye" despite your failure to use any at all. And indeed sinking to insults and swearing, very grown up of you. You have illustrated my point exactly. Good luck and good bye KinkyDomLatex on 6/1/17 at 11:44 PM: What? Just like your manners? Fucking hypocrite. ckthecat on 6/1/17 at 8:47 AM: Erm, no hello ! Ffs why do blokes forget basic manners on this site ?!!!! Bye KinkyDomLatex on 6/1/17 at 8:40 AM: Do you have a clear photo of yourself?
12/29/2016 9:11:42 AM
To FutureIsNow FOR GOODNESS SAKE GO AWAY I have not insult you yet you have done so to me several times. Just shows we have different levels of intelligence As you seem to,treat this as a game or a joke and don't follow simple requests I will report you and hope that will send a clear message that when someone politely says good bye, not once,but several times you take heed and move along. For the final time GOOD BYE
6/20/2015 7:36:09 AM
To Hairy Armpits Perhaps you need to look up what chatting means in the dictionary I was always of the understanding that it was a two way conversation So in reply to my simple question of " So why do you think you are Dom ?" I expected a bit of history, a bit of your background to what brought you to where we are now. Your response of where are my manners and they are important was a weird reply and your subsequent statement of I need help was totally random and disjointed from the simple and basic question I had asked. Here is the message I sent you here which, given your statement that "manners are important" to you, was comedic in your deleting it unread .. ...... Perhaps you need to look in the mirror re manners. " Good lord A simple question asked and you flip. Why is it ok for me to be asked questions and not you ? It's called chatting and getting to know each other. I said nothing wrong Get real. Good luck And good bye" There, as you haven't the manners to read it I shall share it with everyone. And perhaps they can see who's right and wrong here. My profile is blunt for a reason I do not play stupid games and I have no time for time wasters and pretenders. That doesn't mean I am not sub to the right man.
5/9/2015 1:13:10 AM
Why oh why do some sad blokes pretend to be lesbian then chat to me. I allow it as I am friendly and happy to make friends. However, I am no fool and spot you're a bloke fairly soon. Which is why I will ask to chat on the phone. The refusal simply signals you are what I accuse you of being......a bloke. I can prove I am a 100% girl and if you are a girl too then you will have no reason not to to converse verbally. Take note Laurenmac2. You have been named and shamed. You accuse me of being a bloke and stating my so called aggressiveness as your reasoning behind that. Yet three times you have not taken up the opportunity to see who is spouting falsehoods here....and it's not me. I will not suffer fools gladly. This doesn't not mean I am a bloke as I can prove I am not. It proves I am genuine. So be prepared to prove you are who and what you say you are. Others beware the above named laurenmac2 is a man. He also uses the names moranneedsmore showing as living in New Jersey And also Janekiwi based in NZ So clearly a misleading lying individual If you are genuine then you have nothing to worry about, if you're a lying tosser, then please step away as I will not play your pathetic games.
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