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About me,
(0) I just moved here from NJ, after cleaning up the house I was living in until Hurricane Sandy Domme'd it and did not give it aftercare.
(1) I have only a little real-life experience. I am willing to learn more :)
(2) BDSM to me is an extension or an evolution of a vanilla relationship. If I do not feel mutual vanilla chemistry, I will not pursue a BDSM relationship. If your mindset is for an LTR over wanting to enjoy the day-to-day, I will be very cautious.
(3) My desires for BDSM are bedroom-oriented.
(4) I am between jobs. It is quite possible I may be somewhere else far away from here in a few months or a year.
(5) I am physically active, playing volleyball, gardening, and cooking.
(6) Whether I am dominant or submissive depends on whom I am talking to, and how our relationship evolves.
(7) I am strong-willed, a bit more direct that most people would prefer, and loyal to those who clearly deserve loyalty.
(8) my gut feelings are quite perceptive.
Some prerequisites:
No professional BDSMers (ever).
No financial dommes or golddiggers (ever).
No smokers (around me).
No drug users (ever).
No STDs.
I converse first through IM; if we do well IMing, I will be more than willing to offer my phone number and meet in real life
A few warnings:
My work and my career come first.
If your profile is empty, I will not write back.
If your messages to me are unintelligible, I will not write back.
If you avoid answering simple questions without a explanation, I will not write back.
If you made it this far, I think we'll get along just fine :) |
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Isn't it interesting that entire groups of new profiles with the same writing styles appear at once? Isn't it interesting that many people on here call many others on here fake? Isn't it interesting that most people with problems in their BDSM life have problems in their vanilla life as well?
Channeling Mike Myers' Dita from SNL's Sprockets "This site has begun to bore me. If it were a gas, it would be inert" |
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Due to recent experiences I am adding the following: if you cannot write in complete sentences and cannot address each question I ask (even if it is to dodge the question), then please do not frustrate me by writing to me, as I cannot stand lazy or shifty people. |
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in response to a few women I have spoken with recently, I have reduced my "bullshit fence" in that I simplified my profile greatly. |
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I have to agree with a student in a class I teach: so many women down here are lesbians....there *are* straight women from florida on CM, right? What did men do to many of you? haha
The management needs to make a subsection of this site for women who want nothing to do with men to separate them from men like us who never read profiles... or give them an option to hide their profile from all men or whatever... |
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I have relocated at least temporarily to Florida from New Jersey. Trying to reestablish my life after I get settled in and caught up with work. |
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I had an interesting second "date" with a dominant woman today. We met at Costco, and we proceeded to "torture" me by crashing a bridal show with me...granted, she was in that business for 20 years before, and I did agree to go with very little coaxing...she joked that it was bridal show torture...B S T. |
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Spring has sprung...let's see what grows this year
wow...there are a LOT of "dating site bot" profiles on here these days...
hmmm...a lot of women on here are looking for only women (whether they admit it publicly or not)...CM needs to make a "women for women" site on here. Why are these the only women who actually seem fun, sensual, and look sexy? time like these when it sucks to be a guy sometimes... *laughs*
come to think of it, they need a "professionals looking for clients for business" section also...many of the women on here who are not looking for women are looking for "generous men"...lol my money is best gambled on the stock market or AC than in some woman who says she is a pro.
Carlos Mencia-inspired rant and rave done...thanks for listening!
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