Actually, a friend of mine mentioned Collarme and thought I would enjoy some of the room discussions. I have been a lifestyler about 12 years and enjoy submission although I do find both sides of the coin interesting. I am not looking for anything right now but decent conversation. I am quite happy doing what I do best...namely, being myself. I did belong to a few BDSM groups in Vegas but found the dramatics tiresome. Interests include bdsm, shibari, winetasting (of course) and Real Estate. I believe life is to be enjoyed to the fullest and that includes talking to everyone and trying to find the good in all people. The one exception to that of course is *whiners*. I dont' tolerate *whiners* in any way, shape or form. They are a *hard limit* of mine both in real life and online. Instead of whining about what could of been or might of been, make the changes to simply make it so. Only you determine your future. We make choices and live with them or learn from them.
