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I'm looking for a sub.
2 things upfront: 1-- I'm looking for an online D/s relationship. Not roleplay/cybersex (dirty talking would happen of course, but I want to give orders that you actually follow, nothing pretend), but I do want it to stay online for now. 2-- I'm not really hardcore. This is a bedroom game to me, not a lifestyle. 3-- I take things slow.
That being said, I'd like it to be a relationship, in some sense. Not like dating, but we should be able to talk to each other and enjoy it without being in D/s mode all the time (again, this is not a lifestyle to me, and I want a sub, not a slave). I'd rather you not have another Master either. I don't want to feel like I'm competing all the time, and it would just cause too many conflicts of interest.
What I have the most fun with is making you feel controlled and dishing out verbal abuse. I'm not especially experienced with pain, but I had one pet who enjoyed it and I enjoyed dishing it out, but I wouldn't go as far as needles or anything. More along the lines of spanking, slapping, clothespins. Lots of orders would be masturbation based-- how, when, where, if, etc.
My overall philosophy to how I do the D/s thing is this: the pet has the real control in an online D/s relationship. Realistically you can say no at any time and I can't do anything about it. The Master has only the illusion of control. In order to maintain that illusion I mostly stay with what turns you on. However, I will expect that you, being the sub, are turned on by what turns me on. So you'll be turned on by me turning you on by turning you on by having you turn me on... etc. Beautiful circle. I very much enjoy the balancing act of fulfilling my desires and pushing your boundaries but staying in the areas that won't make you say "no."
As for pics/vids-- I am willing to wait a long time and develop trust before any of that is exchanged (notice I'm not putting my pic up here. I have a pretty public job). But I'd like to think it would be possible to do pic/vid orders once that trust is established.
Let's see... I'm 29, but I look and feel younger, and am attracted to younger (most women wanting to do this online instead of in person are college-age anyway, so that works out for me). I've had two long-term pets (lasting about 2 years each), both online. I tried D/s with a few others too, and some lasted a long time-- up to a year-- but I wouldn't consider them pets because the relationship was never really there. If you're into any geeky stuff like Star Wars, reading, or the work of Joss Whedon, we'll probably get along great. If this sounds like your thing you can message me and we can start talking and see if it looks like this may go someplace.
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