I love the uncertainty in BDSM. "Anything may happen" I love it. Certain is boring. If you already know what your partner is going to do, how boring would that be? So you need to be creative, more creative you are, more will be the enjoyment. Also a variation is required from what you normally do, that is the reason everyone here wants to push the limits. But sometimes it is not about pushing limits but being creative and bring in something new in the play! |