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| I have a FL account under the same name. Look me up!
UPDATED (9/16/12):
Time for another reset; I guess that’s all part of the process, self-discovery and all that. But I am listing myself as a switch again. The dominant side of me likes to come out and play sometimes too, and I can’t just shut it down permanently.
I am not interested in anything 24/7 or live in. Nor am I interested in black mail or financial domination (neither giving nor receiving). I do have a vanilla life and have no desire to leave that. What I ultimately seek are vanilla friends who are also play partners behind closed doors.
Mostly what I expect to find here are friends to chat with and discuss activities and things as relate (or don’t) to this lifestyle. And if some of them happen to live nearby and want to explore in person, then bonus!
Even when I was a little kid, I used to play make believe. It was the usual fantasies; I was the hero, fighting the good fight. Only, my fantasies sometimes were a little different. Sometimes the bad guys would capture me and tie me up. I remember restraining myself to chairs or my bed using plastic handcuffs, plastic link chains or ropes. Even before I knew what bondage was, being restrained excited me.
As I’ve said before, I am new to all this. I’ve been interested and excited by it for many years, but have never tried it in person. I have had a few online relationships where I did as instructed on cam and fulfilled specific picture and video requests, but that’s it.
I’m looking for a female or couple who is ok with my being a novice, to help introduce me to the lifestyle and help me explore and learn. There are so many things I would love to try with the right person. I’m very open-minded and will consider almost anything. (Again, in person and in private).
I’d be happy to talk to anyone about anything, and I’d love to make some friends here. So feel free to contact me regardless of gender, orientation or role.
Now, a bit more about my vanilla life:
I’m a senior in college, majoring in Electrical Engineering. I’m in Oklahoma for college, but was born and raised in Wisconsin. I’ve played soccer since I was 4 and practiced Tae Kwon Do since I was 6. I was active in theater and high school (acting and tech) and still enjoy doing lighting and sound work when I get the chance. I love watching live art, be it drama, musicals, concerts etc. I am a HUGE football fan, college or pro, doesn’t matter; if it’s on, I’ll watch it. I enjoy intelligent conversation and philosophical discussions. I have a low tolerance for stupidity and tend to be dry and sarcastic.
If there is anything else you’d like to know, do not hesitate to ask. I will try to be as open and honest as I can. I can be shy about sending the first message because I don’t want to annoy anyone and I often have no idea what to say in that first message. So please, feel free to message me first.
My pictures on this site do not show my face out of privacy concerns. If you’d like a face pic, just ask :)
One final thought (for now), just because I’m inexperienced, does not mean I am completely naïve, or stupid. I have a pretty good bullshit meter, so please, don’t waste my time with scams or unrealistic demands.
Other than that, I look forward to exploring, learning and talking to you all. |
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I seem to have a bit of a fetish/obsession with handcuffs. I recently bought a set of cuffs and leg irons and I love them. Seriously, I get so turned on by playing with them. Anyone want to come try them out? On me or on you? Anyone else just want to talk about handcuffs? Know a good place to buy them? Let me know ;) |
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