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"the best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others" - Mahatma Gandhi

Ladies and Gentlemen: i seek a?real?time long term relationship with a confident and compassionate
family oriented lover....a conscience soul with an adventurous spirit. I need a triad that would include myself; a Alpha Male Master and female sub/slave for Emotional/mental Intimacy, and Tantric laced M/s D/s - Bondage and Discipline.

i'm a sensualist with masochist tendencies. A Friendly Alpha female, sweet yet fierce, rubenesequs earthy mountain momma that thrives off discipline and structure. i have a slave heart.

my needs include a sub/slave for myself to meet my tenacious appetite for the female form.?ideally she would serve me and a Dom, although currently i am single. So serving me tell a Daddy/Master came along to serve over U/us will be the situation at hand.

I'm happy to talk to those who are compasionate, genuine....and creates the life they need and want. I am considering relocating out of the small town I currently live in and am actively seeking teaching positions outside of my area.

"if you bow at all, bow low" - Chinese Proverb

11/6/2010 2:20:26 PM

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6/30/2008 2:26:48 PM
A Cunt by any other name….. is still a cunt!

We as women should set the boundaries of our language and the best way we can do that is by talking. Using words in new ways and taking them as our own. Cunt is our word whether we like it or not, we should use it. It is my right as a women to define my cunt, to enjoy my cunt to think of my sisters as lovely cunts when they make me happy and bloody cunts when they make me mad but not to tolerate being named a cunt by a man who wants to hurt me by twisting the meaning of my cunt and makes me feel I am nothing but my cunt.

the cunt poem


wherever there's earth, dirt and the moon, someone
is going to write a "woman" poem
all spirals and delicate shells blood and the bloody moon. Someone
is gonna talk about their cunt.

I don't think my cunt wants to hang out in poems
dripping with beautiful analogy, trying to blend into the ground
its sick of playing nature to my culture. My cunt wants to go to the opera,
it wants to stride through atriums looking at paintings,
it wants to resemble
quantum mechanics and theories as dry
and bloodless as the bones of dead seabirds. It wants
sartorial elegance and a high standard of living; subtlety beyond the lowly
biblical reference and heavy fisted metaphor

It'd like to take this opportunity to point out
the absence of chaos in its structure, it wants to take an opportunity to see if
opportunity knocks, it'd like to remember its no pussy cat
it'd like to take out a hit on the moon Yeah,
it wants to be a know it all a charlatan a diva.

it wont be caught dead in a couple of dead end lines
in the core of an elegy to a lover
it's gotta have the title track it's got to have the starring role:

it wants
the first choice and it wants the last word

©Olivia Macassey

Cunt Count

The Definition of Cunt

The root part of the word "cu" is a millenium-old referrence to all things female. In Indo-European languages 'cu' or 'koo' was a word base expressing "feminine", "fertile". It's the base for words like the Arabic 'cush', 'kush', and 'khunt'; the Nostratic 'kuni' ('woman'); the Irish 'cuint' ('cunt'). *

It's also the base for words of knowledge. The terms "can" and "ken" (both 'to know') evolved from the 'cu'/'ku' prefix. Example: "cunning".

There is a HUGE connection between the divine feminine and and knowledge, extending from the root word "cu"! The two terms were synonymus: Think of "conceiving" both an idea and a baby, and "ken" means both "know" and "give birth"*. Mythologist Barbara Walker traces the word back to a derivative of the Oriental Great Goddess … Cunti, … the Yoni of the Universe.” (Walker 1983).

Language is power:
So why is it that words for our private parts get labeled as obscene – IF they get mentioned at all?

 




6/30/2008 10:34:29 AM
TAMING OF THE TONGUE
Some Words On A Lost Art

By Katie B.

QUOTES I FIND INTERESTING FROM THE ABOVE ARTICLE

Though much effort is often made by both Master and girl to untangle the matted mess of the culturally influenced female mind—even while living a reality that most women of our day would mock and term (negatively) as "degrading" or abusive—somehow the speech of many submissive females still seems to slip through the cracks, unaltered. Often considered a small detail, speech is a subject many times overlooked for its simplicity, and in this a girl's tongue is often left to roam as freely as it pleases.
The decorum used while speaking is very much a reflection of the condition of a female's heart, soul, and mind, and it is my opinion that many are living, breathing contradictions in this regard. While claiming to be tamed, many spit venom like a wild animal. But in any given circle, polite and meek-mannered females stand out because such behavior is most flattering to our sex. We must put this conflict between our minds and our mouths to an end and seek to tame our tongues, even if it means being muzzled.

There are many things on the road to true humility that disguise themselves as being completely harmless, but often are of extreme significance and a detriment to female submission. Speech is certainly no exception.
6/26/2008 2:32:25 PM


Rekindling Ideals Of Male Dominance

By Amayos


What is a Master, truly?
I ask this with the intent to dismiss the play parties, props, fairs, fads and stage play of what so often ultimately equates to sensual escapism.

A Master does not base his actions from a state of need.


he cannot be manipulated with his own desire

A Master is noble, self-actualized and grounded in his strength of character.

he must be complete within before he can master another without.

A Master truly disciplines and shapes.

When a Master punishes, it is to correct—not reward. Some may find this idea flies in the face of pop bedroom bondage, but our focus is to clarify the reality of the Master, not its kinky facade. If a Master truly wishes to shape his girl correctly, he must not offer discipline as the impetus of an elaborate bedroom game or sensation-based thrill ride. A Master is clear in what pleases him, and does not enable disobedient behavior through his guidance. He rewards obedience with positive reinforcement and corrects with pain of the physical or emotional. Mixing what is punishment and what is reward corrupts and confuses a slave, just as it would a child or pet.

A Master knows dominance is not synonymous with mannerlessness.

If the male divine is to be attained as much as possible, a man should have in his character all the qualities his role as ruler inspires him to have. By exuding an inherent regality and confidence, he inspirits worship. Ignorance, childishness and vulgarity are surely paths to be avoided.

A Master is open, understanding, wise and intuitive.

Without understanding, one setting out to do a thing will likely fail. On the matter of ruling, the powers of sound judgment, influence, and intuition must be sought and clearly honed. These skills are not effortlessly obtained. As ruler, a Master shouldn't be brash or assuming, or allow his sensual pleasures to override his self-sovereignty. He must be comfortable in his own skin, balanced with knowledge of forethought and understanding always that though he is essentially a teacher, never does he cease to learn.

A Master does not resent what he chooses to keep.

A Master may be displeased with the behavior of his girl, or thoroughly disappointed with her performance of a given task, but never must he secretly harbor contempt for her in any form. A Master is to be strong, comfortable and open in his authority, knowing that resentment is the anger of the coward unable to directly address his displeasure toward what is his.

A Master must not forget his kindness.

If a Master is to be loved, respected and fully obeyed, he must have in him a penchant for harshness and discipline. But as surely as he is cruel, he must know mercy, for nothing can take root on the barren face of rock; there is no soil, no food, or anything upon which to cling. Such is a girl's horror when suffering under relentless cruelty. Without light there is only a blinding darkness. In this, a Master must never forget the power of a gentle touch, of kindness and positive reinforcement.




4/9/2008 2:43:49 PM

I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.

Anais Nin
12/12/2007 8:09:26 PM
'The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.'
MistressJudy21
 
 Age: 20
  Ohio