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| After having been tied up in an eight year vanilla relationship which started out in SM but turned purely vanilla, my heart and soul are free to find the right partner for life. My previous relationship was built on respect, trust and love – unfortunately I found out that trust and love seem to have been one sided only from my side. My love was not returned over the past years and I cannot live without love…if it is supposed to be for long term… or even… forever.
Another thing I found out is that I need vanilla and SM aspects in my life, in my relationship, in my marriage… only then I can be truly happy. I think I share this point with my former partner but we could not have it both together in our relationship. I wish her all the best in this regard and hope to find the right mix of vanilla and SM in a long term relationship with the partner for life I am looking for now.
I am Swiss but live and work in China. I have my own company in China and would need my life partner to be either already in China or be willing to move to China to live with me under one roof. Long-distance relationship did not work for me and will not work out in future, as well. I am sure about this now.
In SM, I have been trained in all aspects as total slave over the past 20 years by very strict and caring owners – not in sessions but in SM relationships. I was taught to respect my female partner and do all for her without limits. The happiness and satisfaction of my female partner is my first goal always – be it in public, in private, in SM and in vanilla sex. I am the perfect gentleman and caring boyfriend/husband outside and the limitless and total pain slave at home. I am a true pain slut, sex slave, total toilet, etc. you can form me in any way you want. We can discuss this part more in details separately – as SM should be part of our lives, but not the only part.
Should you chose me as your slave – I promise to never top from the bottom. My heart and mind are totally submissive and I do not have the intention whatsoever to change that.
SM is not about having a session for me… it is not about hurting people or get hurt… it is about a mind set and lifestyle. If you share this view, please let me know and we can get started on our journey…
I hope you really consider a long-term relationship based on respect, trust and love with SM as part of it. I further hope you are in China already or consider to move here with me to build up our relationship in real. I am not interested in a purely virtual relationship. Chat and emails can be a start but it should develop into real life in short-term.
Please send me a reply if you are interested, it would make my day!
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