Poly Household Currently Looking for submissive or switch

I am into Service and Sensation play While I can be sadistic I am far more into sensation then pain.  I am a Massage Therapist and touch is a big part of my life it is one of my must haves the ability to touch and be touched. I do not have many set as many are flexible requirements however you must be child friendly as My  daughters live with me full time and you must be able to function in the vanilla world as I  do have a life outside of the lifestyle My daughters being one of those things.  That being said I am not looking for a door matte or an object I am  looking for someone to fit into my home and my life.  If you are Looking to be The only sub in a household Mine is not for you.  For those of you who need the explanation I am Poly not a Swinger I am into more then one Committed Relationships I am not into sleeping with anyone and everyone I will decided if and when we are more then friends. 

I am looking for a someone who fits in with me and my family.  I am looking for friends first who may become more we must have a connection beyond D/s In the end I am looking for a soul mate someone who is my compliment.  I am not looking for a slave to put in a cage I am looking for someone who I can talk to and play with.  Someone who will worship me for the Goddess that I am.  Any submissive in my household must be able to function in the vanilla world as well,  I am not looking for someone to mimic my opinions and thoughts I am looking for a partner who has opinions and thoughts of there own.