Transition complete. Have rediscovered love, and it is truly amazing. My Sir is a true delight, my strength, my light, and a Man who genuinely appreciates me for ME. Life is good!

However, I am completely open to friends and contacts, as I'm a rather social little lady.

I am a Classicist, a photographer, a writer, and a singer. I love movies, quiet evenings, savage passion, Absinthe folklore (I am MESMERISED by the preparation rituals, both Czech and French), and dressing up to go dancing at goth/industrial/neovictorian clubs.

I am brutally honest and upfront with people, as I find lying to be a waste of time. I am not stupid, and I really don't like being treated as such. I am confident in my abilities and talents.

I am a SERIOUS fitness buff who can bench twice my body weight and run 10Ks with a smile. My profile pic is me BEFORE the weight loss/muscle build, so new pics are forthcoming. I am a vegetarian (for health reasons - it keeps my fibromyalgia in check), I endorse homeopathic methods for keeping this body in perfect working order, I don't smoke, and I very, VERY rarely drink. I ask those in my life to respect my dedication to my health, as I wish to live a long, healthy life. A sluggish, unhealthy slave is a VERY useless one.

As far as BDSM...I love bondage, psychological play, humiliation, rope, wax, corporal punishment, role play, serving, collars, corsets, electrical play, needles, knives, and breath play. More than anything, I enjoy being overcome by a person's dominant energy, and knowing I can let myself fall into them with all my trust. I cannot express how amazing it is to have that. 

I wish you all the best in finding your amazing connections.