Some things that I am compelled to share........   Seriously, are there no attractive submissives on this site within my preferred age range (40-55) and geographical restrictions....I am real-life only.......no bullshit cyber or phone games.   I am most attracted to a woman who is height/weight proportionate.......That isn't to say that I don't want a voluptuous woman.......in fact I do.....   One considerable pet peeve.....if a Dom sends a sub/slave a friendly and respectful introductory message at least have the class to respond in kind, even if it's merely to say thanks but no thanks. It's been pointed out to me by a knowledgeable member that too often a polite decline is met with an unfriendly response from the Dom. I will accept rejection gracefully......{if reluctantly...:-) }   I am a smoker.....a considerate one, I believe, but a smoker nonetheless   Who I am: six foot, dark brown hair, blue eyes.........physically fit.......lovingly sadistic, adventurous.....   Who I am looking for: best described as a combination pain slut and princess.....feminine to a fault....a lover of lingerie and lace, thigh highs and heels,  perfume and deep red lip gloss.......she will want a complete relationship, blending the vanilla and bdsm worlds seamlessly.   I know you're out there.....