My adoration and complete respect for the Dominant who has more responsibility than any. To own your Dominance and truly live it is an example of your strength,  power, leadership and superiority over the everyday common "man." Being born male throws you huge responsibility I don't envy you but I do look up to you, desire you, thirst for you and respect you. I truly believe you have a gift. Thank You.   That being said...
What I desire is a Dominant a Highly Respected Male who knows who He is, makes sane decisions, is responsible, secure, respects others, is respected, does not take anything personal, is impeccable with his word, never assumes, loves
Himself and is therefore able to love, which sometimes means tough love. To master the art of tough love, in my mind, shows self confidence, a higher awareness, and the gift of teaching without judgement. He has a life separate from the woman/women He
chooses to be with. A freedom, a self and expects that of his partner. He has no room for drama, excuses, laziness, gossip, self hatred, dishonesty, ugliness, stupidity, excuses, and lack of appreciation for life itself. There is no such thing as boredom life is abundant. He supports, He Loves, He is Creative, He is all that I need in the bedroom, in the kitchen, bathroom, hallway, dining room, kids room, front and back yard, car, park, pool, hotel, motel AND IN PLACES where we might not be able to tell. In my mind you are either Dominant or you are not. You may want to be or are taking the steps to be or you believe a male should be but all the above have no relevance because either you feel it or you don't. Not a problem either way but don't claim it unless you are. The Dominant deserves respect and appreciation. He knows the mind, the body, stimulates, awakens all the senses, is able to take one to levels that one could never imagine, ecstasy. A place where in my 45 years of life no thing, no place, no drug or any mind altering substance has ever taken me. He knows me. He studies me. He cares about me. I am the woman he will own. You are the Man I search for, the man I respect, the man I give myself to. You Are The Person That Completes My Life...I have strong opinions, I know what I want and I will not settle for anything less. I have had "boyfriends" many...I am looking for more. At 45 I believe I deserve exactly what I am looking for and I believe I will find it. I am in no big hurry...Happy New Year...Peace, Love and Joy to all of you in the new year.