When I punish my sub there are rules involved. Some for her, some for me, although of course she doesn't know the ones for me. 90% of punishments involve a simple paddling, usually up against a wall, not over a knee. Before we start she has to tell me why she is being punished.   For me: No fondling or playing with her bottom before the first strike   For her: She must count out each paddle Punishments never lead to sex   At the end she stands in front of me, hands by her sides. I ask if she's sorry for what she has done and if she is going to do it again, then I tell her she is forgiven and we embrace.   She is moved by this every time.. emotionally and usually sexually

Whenever a see a sub with a note saying their Dom doesn't allow them to talk to other Doms it always strikes me as incredibly insecure.   And don't read into that. I've no Domly interest into talking to attached subs.

Another old entry preserved here:   The other week after an evening together I took my girlfriend to the bedroom and told her to stand by the window, looking out of the corner of it. She was further told that when I came back in she was to ignore me until I put my hands on her at which point she was to try and remove them. Then further when she was on the bed she was to try her best to get out of the bedroom and touch the stairway railing outside the room. I then left her looking out that window for just over five minutes before creeping up behind her. She knew I was there of course but I waited another few minutes before wrapping my right hand around her face and clamping it over mouth while my left hand circled her waist holding her close to me in an agressive manner. It took her a just a moment to connect what was happening with her instructions and she tried to get first my left and then my right hand off her. She couldn't move either. When she moved to my right hand (over her mouth) I started mauling her breasts with my left. After maybe 30 seconds of this I lifted her off the floor and threw her on the bed.   She tried to turn over but I was already on top of her and pushed her face down into the bed. I reached over to the drawer where I had stashed a short length of rope and dropped it onto the bed, divided into two. I forced her arms together and then sat my knees around them to hold them in place. She didnd't understand the danger of this as I looped the rope under her arms, connected it through the larks head and cinched it at her elbows, drawing it tight as I pulled it down to her wrists. Quickly wrapping it around and then through the middle I cinched and tied it off.   Next I climbed off her and pulled her into a sitting position, retrieving another item from the drawer. I clamped my hand over her mouth and nose, counting to 30 seconds as I knew at this point (from experience) she'd be dying for a breath. As I removed my hand and she breathed in she was again unaware of the danger as I shoved a penis gag into her mouth and buckled it into place.   Then I flipped her over one more time, dragged her legs off the bed so she was standing with her body resting on the bed, flipped up her skirt to reveal her panties and suspenders.. and well, a gentlemen doesn't tell. Does he?

A journal entry copied from my profile on a now dead site..   So she's having her 2nd dose of corner time right now. I try not to overdo things initially, particularly if I think they've gone down particularly well. Varied it a little by making her think at first she was getting her customary spanking before stripping and pushing her down to the bed in her panties and bra. Only then pulling out the onesie, tugging her into it (an act I make her let me do, without her assistance, like a child). And like last time I put leather cuffs on her wrists, padlocked and chained behind her back, before leading her upstairs to kneel in the naughty corner. On a big cusion I might add. The main difference this time though is at the end I told her to open wide.. and she did of course, expecting a gag.. but instead getting an adult dummy. She has been there 9 minutes so far and has 12 to go. When she's done I'll pull her onto my lap on the couch and tell her she is forgiven, I predict she'll be out of her mind horny and clinging on to me.. we'll see..

Removed all my normal search filters tonight so I'm seeing all the members instead of a slice. The amount of financial dommes makes me sick. You either go for a partner's (be it life or play) heart and mind, if it's for life, or their crotch if it's for the night. Going for the wallet is pathetic.   And to be honest, I'm not talking the about the dommes who have setup a location with a dungeon, website, rates and take appointments etc. but the little girlies who think subs should give them free things for how wonderful they are. Fuck off and get a job.