Honestly... after many years and many diff profiles... i'll take my chances elsewhere.  Literally it's down to a science now.  80% or more of female submissives are fakes.  Unfortunately the echo-system does not promote any real ability to connect as well as other eco-systems.  EX- Real life, or even other forums.  This forum is simply now inefficient, as the balance is off.  It's as shame too, because i have met at least 10 people off of here in the good ol days of collarme.  For some reason when it changed over the quality of people got even less.  Perhaps its the 50 shades movie or the excessive dick pics... POF plenty of fish to the layperson, was similarly ruined by the same type of thing, fake scammers and Trannies lol.  At the end of the day i'm thankful for some of the good people i have met off of here, but at this point its literally a waste.Best of luck to all.  See you someday.  In person.-Dominant J

The psychology of BDSM is the most appealing part.Physical always follows mental.  It's the mind that is the most critical part of someone.Many people don't understand this fact.Own someone's mind.... their body follows.For me it's always been about mental connection.  Always.

General 4 Foundation Rules ( this is the beginning of training, once accepted)PUBLIC BULLETIN***1.  No touching your private parts without permission2.  No Orgasm's of any kind without permission3.  When given a task with a timeframe, complete it within that timeframe, or face punishment pursuant and appropriate (to be determined) to the offense and or negligence completing the task.4.  Open and overcommunication with loyalty and trust always (no exceptions here)

A small snipped from my Syllabus.Section 5-  Public ProtocolSaid property will address any males in public who have hit puberty as 'Sir' or Mr XXXX.No exceptions.Said Property will address Master/Daddy/Sir in Public as 'Sir' onlySaid Property will never look males in the eye as she is inferior to them.  Said Property will never speak louder than said Male who is beyond pubertySaid Property will always enter a room first because her owner believes it is proper, her owner will open the door for her.If another male engages in conversation with her beyond a courteous hello, digging for any details.  Said Property will defer said male to her owner  'Thank you Sir for your kind conversation, But i am Engaged to him, so if you would like to speak with me, speak with him first', and then break off conversation and come over to me.  If he follows let him.  Said Property will never address women in public as 'Ma'm'  she will just speak to them as little as possible, unless otherwise briefed.Said Property will look women of any age in their eye as they speak to them, as they all are inferior.Said Property will not order or make any commands in public unless already cleared, she will always defer to her Sir for choices, unless of course already briefed, as it isn't Said Properties place to make decisions.End Snippet.

Just a thought from a while back...Many many many subs on here state quite specific needs.  Yet i would statistically say about 50% are actually not comfortable actually following through at some point in time.It takes a truly committed person to a certain path to actually put action behind it... to be blunt.  Most people nowadays aren't prepared to back up their 'well written' profile with actual action... it tends to be conversation that could span month's sometimes year's, yet... nothing realtime ever occurs.  It's quite interesting.  Just a thought .