After having been here for a long time and haven't been able to really enjoy the challenges of this site, I decided to take my search seriously once again and find what I am seeking and what I need.

My idea of the relationship I seek on here is when we exchange emeials for the first time, I do expect  there not to be an immediate indulgence in the depths of bdsm style. I need to see the personality, the intellect of the person, to be sure we can converse, that we could have same common ideas and understandings, common interests of life and after that we may discuss further details of a bdsm relationship.

If you have a nude pic, please don't bother, as I shall not reply. If your first line would be - " Hi, care to chat"...also don't bother. And if you present yourself as "Sir" or "Master" - just forget.

If you send me a long too long to read "copy paste" message - also don't bother.

I need to be approached as a person who you speak to cos you found my profile interesting, or at least you agree and understand what I try to say on it.

 About the BDSM aspect:

I do not need a man who belongs to "Kneel Bitch brigade", but one who will treat me with respect for the personality I am, who will make efforts to know me and like my strengths and my weaknesses. He will use all his knowledge so that together we make a whole to complete each other to understand and who will make the world look a nice place no matter the troubles one may encounter in life. One who will know how to encourage me, to inspire me to be myself, to become a self-confident person, and not a doormat to him and all the others. I need such a Master who cares for me who will keep me safe, someone I can trust beyond all else.

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 One more thing - please do not send me chat requests as my PC does not allow it.Thanks.