I'm a versatile submissive. i'm polyamorous and quite bisexual - i enjoy having a diverse "family." it's all about quality for me, not quantity. i love to bottom out given the opportunity. i find men easier as most women are not into the level of intensity i need when i bottom out

Things i enjoy and want more of:
*Fisting
*Rimming
*Enema play
*Bondage
*Sensory dep
*Sub/Dom action
*Oral
*Forced repeated milking
*Paddles/spanking/flogging
*Electro

*Prisoner/captive scenarios - pre negotiated

my HARD limits:

*Blood

*Damage

*CBT

*Shit

HIV POZ (+), healthy, non-detectable and honest about it. sex for me is about connecting with somebody i can trust & go deep into headspace with. sometimes i need to shut off & be meat, other times i need it more humane. it depends on our connection and your skills

there's a special place in my heart for Daddies, Dominants (male & female) & Bears: they are most welcome in my camp. that being said, i don't have an ideal type, you miss too many amazing people if you have a stringent & enforced "type." we're not doing an organ transplant  ;)

i am looking for a Dom or Sir to be with again. it's been a long time, but i miss the sense of fulfillment that being collared and knowing i am "claimed" provides. not afraid to devote myself to a DOM who is genuine, there are so few out there. a collar isn't necessary, would like to find a Daddy or two i connect with and can see regularly for both friendship and ideally much more. my sexual appetite is a bit invasive and i like an intense scene and have been in the lifestyle for more years than not. I was previously collared. it was good and i miss it in a way that "dating" doesn't fill

all are welcome & equal at my table until you prove yourself otherwise. i am never opposed to making new friends, sex is not mandatory for us to be friends

I value brotherhood & camaraderie; those who are essentially decent human beings. i'm careful who & what i let in my life. i NEED to like & respect the people i'm sharing myself with, i'm not a vending machine

i also enjoy vanilla sex (it can't be whips & chains all the time), i'm just a sex-perv and over the years have delved so deeply into sexuality that i have few hangups or reservations

i am much more than the sum of my parts: by nature a very sexual & expressive person, but i have an education, interests, skills, hobbies and a quirky personality. i try to do what's "right" in daily life and pride myself on being a loyal friend

i'm a bit of an idealist, but what you see is what you get with me. please be likewise, i don't much care for games or for being led on

somebody asked me what my idea of paradise would be. i thought about it... a Dominant i am attracted to, connect with who feels the same and wants more than just a sweaty fumble. mind you, i like sex... i LOVE sex... but i'd like to find something deeper. i want to find somebody i can believe in, trust and give myself to unconditionally

I feel like i've been waiting for something incredible to happen, but i've been on my own in the cold a little too long: the boy who got left out on the rainy playground by himself. the more i look around me, the more i realize i'm maybe not so great at happily ever afters. i am beginning to feel despondent...

if you've gotten this far & like what you see, feel free to chat me up at yahoo im chat: fallenseraph525