Submissive female looking for a Male Dom. Interested in bondage, discipline, spanking, and other pursuits. I have found the need to change this profile a bit. Shit happens, needs change. I am not looking for a fly-by-night, a hook-up, a fling. I want someone who is going to be around for a while, to share the intimacy that not only comes from a good relationship, but also from the trust and connections formed in a dominant/submissive relationship. I am a very dominant and aggressive woman in my vanilla life, but I have no wish or desire to carry that into my private and sexual life.

I honestly have no belief that I will actually find someone thru here but you never know. I am not interested in 24/7 slave play. I can appreciate the female form but I am not into women. If you are a couple, or are married, look elsewhere. I will not be a party to ruining someone else's relationships.

Would need to get to know you a bit first with both phone conversations and meeting to see if an agreement would be mutually beneficial. I am looking for a playmate, a partner, someone I am genuinely attracted to physically as well as intellectually, and I am quite exacting in what I am looking for. This may be harsh, but unfortunately I have found that these next five items need to be stated....

If you at all remind me of my father, (ie. AGE) forget it. That brings a whole new level of creepy into the equation, and I do NOT have daddy issues.

The 1970's handlebar thick moustache looked like crap in the 70's. It has NOT improved with age.

If you have as much or more hair on your back than your head...eww. If I want to hold something with fur I will hug my cat.

If you are married, or separated and EVER intend on going back to your spouse, don't even bother.

I am not attracted to men my age or older as a general rule.

Yes, I am demanding. Yes, I expect you to see me regularly. Yes, I know this does not sound like the profile for a Sub you don't have to message me to tell me that. Sub does not mean 'doormat'. I am not into humiliation or degradation, so messages of "Hey Slut hows it going..." are generally going to be deleted. Unless you end up as my Dom, that sort of message just tells me you have more personal issues than I want to deal with. The man I agree is my Dom, is the only man I will call "Sir". Prior to that, you are just someone I talk to as you have yet to show me you have earned that respect. Feel free to expound on any other subject....I'm not shy.