It seems as though nearly everyone thinks D/s is just another way of saying "kinky sex." Yes, sex can and often is used as a means of taking control. But if that is all you see submission as being, I honestly do not want anything to do with you.

Live-in may be possible if you interest me sufficiently.

I find it absolutely fascinating the different ways people have of defining submission. I just read one profile of a woman who wants to have a "traditional marriage" and saw that as being a submissive. Of course she also expected to run the home and control the finances...

So how do you view submission?