I have many interest outside of BDSM: perfumes, motorcycles (choppers & Harleys: esp. softails and fatboys), art, travel, dancing, theater, nature, music, movies, anthropology and mythology/folk tales are a few. I have 2 Bach degrees and a Masters, and am working on my Ph.D

I do not have any children. I am a professional with a career and future aspirations. I try to usually date those who are in the lifestyle, but I do currently date a vanilla male (that is aware of "this". I am not bi-curious, I am polysexual.
Race, sex or ages are NOT important. I only care about sincerity and seriousness. I am drawn to intelligent people. My ultimate goal is a long-term arrangement with a submissive and making other Dom-friends. I have very little interests in visiting subs. I don't care for long distance interaction, nor cyber/phone play. I am very real and I expect you to be also. I do have a special interest in sub CD/TS & femme-men. I respect the gender queer, but don't confuse my respect with acceptance of all gender play. I do not tolerate males that see being feminine as a weakness.
I HAVE ALL SORTS OF INTERESTS THAT MIGHT NOT BE LISTED. I have NO definite requirements other than you are available for my needs, healthy , local, sane and not a burden to me. I am the sort of person you can take to meet your friends and family and balance the lifestyle on our own time. If this appeals to you or you care to know more...do write me with details of who you are (pics are a plus). RIGHT NOW MY INTEREST IS NETWORKING!
PS I am also interested in hearing from other REAL Dom(mes)...I like to network and the way others think intrigue me. Although I no longer really travel to meet people, I make an effort to get to know them so that a meeting can be quickly arranged. A MEETING IS JUST A MEETING AND NOT a solicitation for sexual fling. I DO answer ALL of my mail.
I seek a SERIOUS submissive that is intelligent ...MALEs, FEMALEs, CDs, TSs, those in between of ANY AGE and ANY RACE. ALSO I have opened myself to the possibility of a male Dom friend/partner... not a BOSS or leader. I have always dated dominant type people, just never involved them in my "activities". I have found that most Doms think too much with their dicks.Trying to find the exception to the rule . WhatI crave most is finding others with BALANCE: I mean that I want someone who can BALANCE a vanilla and alt lifestyle over a long-term basis. I have tried keeping a live-in but never again. I have NO need for houseboys who want me to keep them as servants and support them. BALANCE IS THE KEY!
Physically I prefer my subs 5'8"+(male) {no height restrictions on females} and reasonable fit (I understand that no one is "perfect", so I am pretty flexible). Race or gender is NOT IMPORTANT. It is a plus not to be camera-shy... I train /introduce other young curious Dommes. Also open to hearing from Dom(mes)... male or female. Married men are NOT a priority for me... I have no real objection to them, but know that I want someone who will deliver the attention I require when I require it. I am open to varying interests. DON'T BOTHER WRITING IF YOU ARE NOT SINCERE! My goal is to NETWORK, so don't write me to ask if I will meet you at some location for a "session". I can be found on FL as the same name.
**Also don't bother writing hate mail or sloppy email reflecting your frustration with being rejected..all I will do is laugh at it and pass it on to my network of collarspace acquaintances.