December 2021

46 year old, experienced Dom with a huge Primal streak. Been single for around 2 years now. Originally from Manchester but based in Newcastle, looking for a local(ish) submissive girl.

Happy to go into more details about both kink and vanilla me, though the two are intertwined. As a starter, I'm an outright sadist. There's nothing more exquisite than having you get off on me hurting and using you. More RACK than SSC, I'm just as comfortable playing at the extreme end of the spectrum, or helping someone new find their feet - it's your response that does it for me!

Love the psychological side of D/s - I want your mind first. In a relationship, the power exchange definitely exists beyond just the bedroom. Enjoy a challenge; despise girls who think they need to be bratty to get attention. Aftercare is a given.

I'm a metal head and music is hugely important to me. I love gigs and festivals. I also enjoy hiking and cycling and I'm looking forward to learning to dive next year. I'm a professional geek, an INTJ with very high-functioning Autism (you probably wouldn't spot it if you didn't already know), and, without distraction, can become a workaholic. Fancy being the distraction I both want and need?

Can travel and/or accommodate.

NB - I used to go by the name of PainControllerUK and still maintain a profile with that name to allow old friends to be able to find me.