2022:

So I'm no longer fairly new to this.  I do have my likes and dislikes but there is still plenty of things to try.

Previously:

Im fairly new to this and do not want to have preconceived notions about things I have not tried, so the hard and soft limits cannot clearly be defined but also promise to have an open mind. Im not looking for a FinDom at all. I view this could be a huge plus to the right Mistress. She gets to train me in how she sees fit, doesnt have to overcome or alter what someone else has done. I am a greenfield or a clean slate for her to use as she sees fit. In many ways, I do not want to know what my Mistress likes or what she has planned. I will trust her in that while she derives great pleasure in what she does to me, it is her responsibility for her to protect me from harm under her care, guidance and wisdom in this lifestyle. So for anyone that just wants to beat men up, no need to apply, you are not the Mistress for me. I expect to be abused, but in a meaningful way for my betterment by you, not because you just want to beat someone up for your own reasons only.

Im not expecting to meet you after one or two message exchanges but I also dont want to have to wait weeks either. My Mistress either has time for sub or she does not. Submitting to you means that you are in control, so you do need to be there. Im open to either meeting at your place, my place or neutral ground. If you are my Mistress, I will submit to you and then either the Mistress will then dictate what happens from now on or from when it will start.



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Things Ive experienced

Impact play Paddles, canes, crops, whips, dragon tails, a car antenna, hockey stick, a bat and floggers.

Servitude

Foot worship

Objecification

Bondage Rope, leather, bondage bag

Blindfolds



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