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UPDATED March 2024

Im looking for a serious long term Ds relationship that would lead to live-in 247. Ive been in the lifestyle a number of years and started out identifying as submissive. I think this is a benefit to my skills as a Dominant. I would identify as a Erotic Dominant. And, I do have interests in other sexually exploratory arts such as tantra and karma sutra. Im semi-active in the local kink community and like to watch and learn from others safe, sane, consensual ways to inflict sweet delicious sensations - from mild to wild.

I am extremely open minded and adventurous! Although I do have some limits and boundaries that may be flexible over time and trust is built. It's all about adventure, exploration and DISCOVERY! I'm 100 percent authentic, genuine, raw and incredibly kind. Until I'm NOT!

I am open to chatting and talking with most everyone - as online or real life friends. However, I feel I need to clarify that I am currently looking for natural born accomplished submissive men for partnership. I have relaitonships with many different people and dont see that changing. I know I'm more open relationship minded. I am exploring poly.

Life goals:
* global travel
* BDSM events and parties
* Living the dynamic 247 - as lead by myself, with considered input from my partner(s).

If you're a Dominant man and interested in me? I require that you be open minded to bottoming with me if the chemistry is there. Bottom line with that dynamic is mutual RESPECT. I am not interested in being a puppet to your design. I am a strong, confident, self actualized woman and I love who I am.

Ultimately any man I choose to be with should ADORE me as is. I realize I'm not perfect and I have things to work on too.

I enjoy receiving chivalrous acts from a man. I also think pleasantries are a nice way to interact and touch base. I enjoy a man with character - his own views of the world and a backbone to get what he needswants. Wed get along in a myriad of ways, not only related to BDSM.

I am a laid back person by nature and semi-private with a few close friends. Most of my family has passed away and the ones left that I care about do know I'm kinky! I am compassionate, free-spirited, kind and honest. I am open minded and a bit taboo curious. Cultivating a deep meaningful connection is paramount. I dont have a lot of immediate protocol, but I do see boundaries and rules being developed over time and getting to know one another. I do want someone that has his own life - his own means of support and able to support me in my endevors, but is looking to enhance his life with someone special. Someone open to love - giving and receiving. Someone looking to explore internally just as much as externally.

NOW is the TIME! I have sacraficed enough time devoting my life to family and work. I currently have support to travel anywhere to meet anyone that is serious and willing and able to do that with your help! I hope to connect with someone that is genuine about their search. Please, when inquiring be thoughtful in your approach to engage conversation and show you are more than just a hello. These one liners do not bode well with me!

I update my journal regularly and there are many of my thoughts there. An ongoing evolution and engaging with many different people there's no lack of stimulation and ideas!

Please attach a PHOTO OF YOURSELF when contacting me, thank you in advance. And Thank You for taking the time to read my profile. I do hope everyone finds what they're looking for and I do activly educate and try to influence other women about FLR! I can't be everything to everyone!

Update. Selling my house. Massively downsizing for easier mobility. What are you prepared to do to make your dreams a reality?

Hey Ya'll Updates that affect my direction. Summing up 2024? I tried some new things. Much of it failed, but not without the invaluable golden nuggets of lessons about something new and doing a little Frontline research. Which when I plan it? It's adventures and served feeding my inner adventure spirit.   Focuses have shifted back to being career focused. And I'm fierce about it. When I'm on this frame of mind I seek other fierce driven humanitarian driven spirits to come together and build something extraordinary and gives a global nod of job well done. People that aren't afraid of answering to family, friends, or the world that being kink aware and having alternative relationships that work because it fills us can be healing and cathartic to our selves. I know it's taken me beyond my imagination! Side note: I do understand and honor not wanting to be outted intentionally. I'm just at place the people I cared about have passed. And I'm of an age my give a damn is busted. I'm done watching. I have a thing or two to say. And mostly come at life with great curiosity. Of course I have my I can live without confidence of having to do that very thing. Live without really isn't acceptable way to live. Eden it comes to what drives sexuality. Funny how life is it's own bitch. We have no idea what someone's dealing with on the other side of the screene. I do try to connect. But I don't want to feel like I'm the only one trying. Time is precious. And how I soend mine matters to me. I think the days of men sweeping women of their feet are gone. We've gotten pretty far away from the time we understand what that meant. Men in love and doing stupid crazy things. Our meeting people that connect on such a cosmic level new worlds discovered. ISO Mind blowing.

Secure in your masculinity? Hot!

Raindrops on roses and wiskers on kittens. Hot wife. Tantra. Kama sutra. Nudism. Race play. Mmf. Community. Kink vanilla Dinner parties. Nuru massage. Yoni massage. Lingam massage Massage in general. Sensation play. Light bondage. Almost getting caught. yoga. Sex museums. Bdsm clubs. Leather. Latex. Lingerie. Heels. These are a few of my favorite things

Quality. Some might wonder what that looks like from me. Here's some thoughts.   I value things like engaging conversations. I half expect emotional intelligence, relational awareness, brutal honesty, respect, striving for healthy body, mind, & soul. Usually comes from place of curiosity vs judgement. I am not one for intellectual discourse. I prefer to create spaces that nurture great comfort to be 100 percent authentic of ourselves and have meaningful exchanges that connect vs divide. Still feeling FLR minded in the sense I am the Mistress and Queen of my castle. Certainly leaning towards working on fulfilling my visions and fantasies. Although, I've learned to have some flexibility otherwise no one will ever fit the bill!   Front of the line Smart Critical thinking Abundance Generosity Authentic Available Self aware Self confidence Sensitive and educated about phycology and mental health aware. I'm non-conforming and varied. Certainly kinky or i wouldn't be here! And highly sexually driven if the right mental stimulation is there. I like men with a little something between their ears. Can have size queen mind blowing sexual fantasies and goals. Open minded. Exploration. Discovery. Growth.   Hope your finding joy this holiday season! Peace

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