Honesty at all times, without it don't approach. I'm very exacting, especially in small things, no P/T kink, only a permanent marriage lifestyle FLM.  Again, if not serious don't approach.  Always request to approach first and be sure to use "MyLady," or you will not get a response.  If you are not looking to be governed in everything, then do not bother to approach me as I will simply ignore you.  I only converse with hetero males.  This is not a game for me and I am 100% real.  Many times the site is on but I am not physically there, it's just a pain logging on and off, however, I do check often so if I don't respond in s timely fashion, I will do so when I see your message.  There are so many scammers/fakes/kink-pleasure seekers on this site that I will no longer entertain.  If you are not real/honest/truthful then please, for the love of God, LEAVE ME ALONE!!!  In 2025 I should not have to now wait for my profile to get updated to add this one line.  It is ridiculous to have to experience minutia, stupidity and ignorance just so someone can get their rocks off, then get angry at me because I catch them, however, I will not let it deter me because the one I seek will materialize because he is out there and knows he will be mine.