Looking for a sub , preferably for a long term relationship , but not wanting to just jump into the first opportunity that comes up , want to take the time to make sure the fit is right for both of us .
I have worked with my hands most of my life and have developed a lot of skills along the way that are applicable to this lifestyle ( use your imagination and see if you can guess ) and am a very capable metal worker and occasionaly build devices .
I do not share with other males , and my sub will not be a gangbang slut etc , I do not mind a sub that is bi , and she would be allowed but not expected to play with other girls , and only with permission .
I am overall a gentle and caring Dom , not sadistic by nature and do not use discipline as a means of control , pain is administered only as a stimulation method and only as is required by the wants of my sub . Control is maintained by the force of my will , and by the willing and freely given aquiesence of my sub . Nothing is taken , it is only given , however if it is given , it is expected to be given with 100% total commitment .
My subs will always choose how they wish to serve me , the roles they wish to take on , and they will fulfill those roles to a level they have never before achieved .
I am not into cyber , I'm not here to jerk off , but will happily chat if asked , although I'm really here to find a sub , and aim to meet . I will not give e m a i l , or other contact info out , but when it comes time to organise a meeting , I will supply a phone number . I'm a little bit old school and would like to hear a voice before I make the final decision on meeting .
I don't expect any sub to move halfway around the world to come to me , and as such I am really looking much more at Aussie girls . That doesn't mean that I will totally ignore members from overseas , but unless there is a totally compelling connection and also other reasons for her to be interested in coming here then it's not likely I will invest much time or effort .