Collarspace

I've been involved in the lifestyle, either publicly or privately, for over 25 years. Publicly with submissives - and a true slave - early on in my experience. Later, privately, in dating and marriage, and then as an outlet for the creativity I needed to express. My background in military and government made me intimately familiar with the concepts of personal honor, duty, and loyalty. But I drifted from what I knew was right, and stopped looking for the one-on-one D/s relationship I knew would sustain me. All that needed to be re-ropes and torment) but am always learning new things. I have an extensive collection of toys, restraints, devices, and other conversation pieces. I love rope - and have a couple thousand feet of it. Mostly natural fibers like jute, hemp, and core-less cotton. I was 21 years in the service, and learned my knots. Shibari/Kinbaku and suspension are two things I'm dedicated to adding to my repertoire in the coming year. And I'll be out at the events that teach and mentor these. As well as all the kinky fun that I can fit in my schedule. So I hope to see you there. I'll be the one across the room smiling at you. But not at all in a creepy way. Interests includes tight bondage, hard positions, predicaments, endurance ties, sensory deprivation, gags, blindfolds, clamps, wax, objectification, humiliation, leather, latex, rubber, all varieties of insertables and making a submissive feel the experience in a whole-body way. Predicaments especially fascinate me, and I'm always processing through a thousand ideas in my head on how best to generate sensation. There's something about watching a beautiful woman struggle in a rope predicament that I've devised that brings me a deep sense of satisfaction, I have to admit. When a scene comes together in an especially beautiful way, I want to commemorate it in photography. Fetish models and photographers are involved in an intimate dynamic that I admire, and want to duplicate in my work. Its all a slow, smoldering tumble towards her surrender...that moment when she realizes that she doesn't have any control and gives in to her frustration. Because a submissive always has control, until she is forced by circumstances to give it up. Finally, I think you would find that the good thing about me is that I understand that submission is offered, not taken. And that dominance is earned, not expected. Once the two parties come together, though, there is no doubt who is in complete control.