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Punishing is serious business. And good and effectful domestic punishment should be executed with care, a sharp for ritual and most of all, carefully planned and timed to create optimal effect. Classic domestic discipline can be dedived in five - equally important - phases that all contribute to the total punishment in their own way.
1. Confession and judgement
2. Awaiting punishment
3. Presentation for punishment
4. The punishment itself
5. Finalizing
In is important that we both explore and exploit each phase to the max - make sure attention is given to every detail and also make sure that every phase is exetuted to its full capacity. Not only will this make the punishment session a very long and intens one - it will also make sure it is a punishment she is not likely to forget quickly. A sharp eye for detail as well as ritual is what has an impact and leaves a deeper impression than the actual punishment itself. Confession and judgement Shame, embarrassement, humilation, discomfort and fear are all factors that are just as important as the actual pain itself. In fact they will have a mental influence on the pain-perception (i.e. make it more intens) and largely contribute to the effect of the punishment as a whole. An experienced disciplinarian will enjoy every phase of the disciplining process, but will probably find most of his joy in the initial, first phase - in the tears, the fears, the blushing and the nervousness.
In this first phase you must stand - or kneel - before me, the dominant, and confess your sins, whichever they will be. I prefer the sub standing, since this is a more uncertain position and does not allow her to crawl into her submmission as she is likely to do when being allowed to kneel down.
Dont accept whispering or stammering. You must confess your sins out load - verbalize them clearly and she must feel the full embarrassement and the shame.
I will tell you how disappointed you are, how you have let me down (in fact betrayed me) and do tell you just how disappointed I am having to punish you (again).
Lecturing is a very good idea now. I will make youvstand, feel uneasy, ashamed, humiliated. You are likely to blush and cry. Let the tears flow - you are supposed to feel ashamed, small, worthless and agonized. you know you can only regain a certain dignity though punishment, pain and suffering.
Opinions vary on the question if a sentence should be brought forward now. I prefer to keep you unaware of your fate for a while longer. However, in the event I am planning to be mercyful I may let you off with a mild punishment, but I wont tell you. You may find false hope and false self-assurance in the fact that you are going to get away with a mild punishment this time. Wether you should be dressed or undressed in this phase is also up for debate. But since the idea is to create maximum unease at this point, you want to take that into account
when deciding about which I prefer. |
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