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I am 45 years old, SINGLE, solvent, tall, athletic build, attractive, intelligent (university educated), with a good sense of humour, and a boundless (or full) love of the world of BDSM. I am seeking a Lifestyle Mistress who is looking for play and companionship, and preferably a long term relationship. I run my own business in the City and own my own property in South London.
A bit of history - for years I had relationships where I would encourage girlfriends to tie me up and beat me, and sometimes they did, but more to please me than to satisfy any personal dominating desires. In a quest to find a woman who would positively enjoy treating me as a slave, I started to frequent clubs such as The Torture Garden and Submission. My companion in these forays was a friend called Karen, who was also interested in the byways of sexuality. Needless to say we eventually decided to expand our friendship and experiment with each other. To me, she became Mistress Karen.
We started slowly, with simple bondage games, collar and lead, and role-playing. Karen is an actress and a hypnotherapist, so role-playing was quite charged. I became her occasional property, and would clean for her and do household chores, whatever was required to make her happy. And if I didn't perform to standards, she had her own ways of inflicting punishment. I am a fan of CP, and my personal favourite pastime was always to be tightly bound and gagged. In that condition, my will always felt totally abandoned to my Mistress.
Things went on as such for about a year. However, my need for servitude grew very strong. I acquired a CB 2000 so that I could be put in chastity, and Karen enjoyed this, but when I expressed a desire to buy a cage for my confinement, my Mistress became a bit overwhelmed, and decided that we would not be compatible in the long term.
To our credit, we have managed to go back to being friends without fallout. However, after my time with her, I now know that my life is made more whole by a Mistress/slave relationship. Over the years my interests have expanded to include strap-on play, worship, boot licking, gags, masks, electrics, CBT, TT, role play. I have also changed from a sub who enjoyed pain to become a masochist sub, but my primary pleasure is restraint - rope, leather, chains, or any other substance known to (Wo)man.
I very much want to learn devotion, to worship a woman, and have her be, as W.H. Auden said, 'my North, my South, my East and my West.' I would be a loyal slave, and would strive hard to please my Mistress in whatever was required, from doing housework, to pampering her, wearing her collar, or chastity device.
In my personal life I have many interests. I run my own business. I like theatre, I was an actor for many years and used to travel abroad in theatre companies. In fact I still find time with my business to perform in shows occasionally. I did four tours of Canada, which I found to be a beautiful country, with great people. I also write, and have written for TV.
I love film and literature, galleries and museums, music (currently learning piano), wining and dining, sports (watching and playing), walking in the countryside or on the beach, and good conversation.
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