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I'm a 51 year old Master/Dominant in search of a long term relationship with a female slave, a slave wired submissive, or (possibly) a switch. Previous experience on your part is not a requirement. Just a real interest and desire. About Me: I'm educated. I have a BSCS and an MBA. I'm employed - I've spent 25 years with the same organization. I'm unmarried (as in never been married). I have no children. I have no pets. I don't smoke, drink much, or do drugs. Who/what I AM NOT looking for: Anyone here illegally. Anyone with financial problems. Anyone who is not local, or who is not prepared to relocate at their expense. Anyone pregnant, or with young children. (Any children I might have will be Mine by blood.) Anyone currently into drug use, smoking, or excessive drinking. Anyone into scat or blood, or fantasies of being turned into a hucow, pony, dog, or some other silliness. And no interest in littles or (God forbid) diapers. Who/what I AM looking for: Someone looking to serve a Master/Dominant. Ideally full time, long term. Someone looking for a Master/Dominant and House with rules to abide by, protocols to follow, and rituals to share in. Someone who knows the difference or knows that there is a difference between crystal and glass, silverware and stainless, fine china and Pottery Barn. Three tines or four tines? Hock or goblet? Someone who has leather and/or latex in her blood. Someone who reads, and follows world events. It's a lot to look for, I know. But the high heeled boot has to fit someone... If what I seek and offer sounds like it might interest you, let me know. Any questions? Just ask. I will respond to any serious enquiry. Kudos if you know the film the pics are from. Few do, and even fewer have seen it.

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11/20/2023 9:07:54 PM

Purchasing 5 acres of forested land in central Virginia for kink-friendly retirement home. 


8/20/2023 7:35:27 PM

Two years since I retired, a year since I bought my Harley-Davidson Fat Bob. No regrets about either decision. Still looking for a slave, sub, or even a kinky-minded woman with some common interests. Leather, latex, anyone?


8/9/2023 7:50:39 AM

Any women interested in dressing up in fetishwear these days? Or is it all casual or nothing? Very sad.


3/19/2023 4:42:12 PM

Thinking that Uncle Joe may have had it right. To hell with Aunt Sarah. Don't even think about cutting the cake. Just put on the gypsy leathers, fire up the chrome three wheeler, and head off for Fire Lake.


1/18/2023 8:33:14 AM

I had a "sub" try and engage me in a discussion regarding her "daughters" yesterday. Nothing in my profile even hints at an interest in such illegal, immoral subjaspects. I ignored the "bait". I found it interesting that the profile suddenly went invisible, and today it is gone. Law enforcement with too much time on their hands? Wouldn't be the first time. I've seen such attempts before. And having worked for law enforcement, yes, it does happen. Don't think for a moment that it doesn't. So if your interests extend to illegal areas, you've been warned...


12/24/2022 7:52:57 AM

A Merry Christmas / Happy Holidays to all who celebrate.


11/20/2022 6:36:05 AM

Looks like leather weather it here again. Time to break out the jackets, hats, gloves, and boots. 


8/29/2022 9:09:41 PM

Picked up a Harley-Davidson Fat Bob recently. Any would-be leather biker bitches looking for a ride? HD doesn't seem to sell them...


7/24/2022 8:07:25 PM

Still looking for a sub or switch interested in being dressed in fine fetish wear, for pleasures (or a slave looking to be ordered to do so). Ideally looking for something leading to a ltr, but I'm flexible.


4/5/2022 8:54:37 PM

Six months retired. Don't miss work. Seldom think about it. Only talk with one former staffer. Confirms I was right to pull the plug. Only took OPM four months to get me squared away. Have yet to establish or settle into a routine. Perhaps in time. Perhaps not. Never was big on such. Monthly CIVITAN flea market is back, after two years! Always fun to see what there is. Usually some leather to be had, among other things. Found a vintage black leather trench coat, two nice fountain pens, a typewriter, and a vintage full size Zero Haliburtan case.


2/10/2022 8:11:47 PM

I guess that after two years of WFH, no one cares to dress up anymore. Sweats or pj's. Sad. Never thought I'd see stylish leather backburnered, or just not generate any interest at all. Oh well...


11/2/2021 8:50:21 AM

The journal is back. After years.

What to say? CS is still here, and still free.

I retired a month ago. Looking (ideally) for a full time slave or submissive. Might consider a switch if she's into leather and/or latex. Same goes for FWB.

Just set up my JUKI industrial walking foot seewing machine. Made a red leather hood over the past week, as a first project. Didn't turn out too bad. Learned quite a bit about working with the machine, and leather.

Anyone interested in becoming a leather model/mannequin?


2/9/2016 10:27:08 PM
Watching the New Hampshire Primary results tonight, something in Clinton's concession speech struck me. Take a look for yourself: A quote from the movie "The Adjustment Bureau" - 2011: [giving his concession speech in front of his campaign supporters] David Norris: But we had a rule in my neighborhood, when you got in a fight, it wasn?t whether or not you got knocked down. It?s what you do when you get back up. [the crowd cheers] David Norris: And I came here to tell you tonight that I will get back up! And then take a look at a quote from Hillary Clinton's concession speech this evening after losing the New Hampshire Primary to Bernie Sanders - (02/09/2016): "And we've learned it's not whether you get knocked down that matters: It's whether you get back up." So much for originality, Secretary Clinton...

1/2/2016 8:22:18 AM
Cleared out the old email. Amazing, the number of dead and abandoned profiles on here. One might suspect that some were deliberately generated, as done at ashleymadison, except for the fact that most said little or nothing in them, with the exception of the obvious scammers, who continue to cut and paste their same bs.

12/23/2015 7:39:27 PM
Got extra baggage? Pay the airlines to take it, because I sure as hell don't want it, nor do I want to hear about it, let alone belatedly. I know most of us are fucked up in some way, shape, or form, to even be here, but some have a couple steamer trunks in tow. Good God almighty...

12/28/2014 6:26:05 AM
Since when has submission equated to arrogance? When did manners and civility become optional? If you want some respect, show that you deserve it.

11/22/2014 6:33:55 AM
It's a simple question. What do you have to offer me? Sex? It will take more than that. Submission, devotion, loyalty - that will get my attention. At 50, I'm beyond dealing with bullshit, baggage, and immaturity. Are you looking to dip your toe in to test the water? Go elsewhere. With me, you jump in the deep end. And swim.

11/13/2014 5:28:06 PM
Congratulations - thanks for sharing the fact that you have a penis, as does half the population of the world. And now the whole world can know, if they give a crap, which they don't.

10/8/2014 7:03:41 PM
Dominant and dominate - learn the difference. Or look like a complete idiot.

9/2/2014 12:02:35 PM
A naked body is like a blank canvas. If dressing the part to please your Dominant/Master is something that you are unprepared to do, please look elsewhere.

8/3/2014 9:30:09 PM
People's reactions to opera the first time they see it is very dramatic; they either love it or they hate it. If they love it, they will always love it. If they don't, they may learn to appreciate it, but it will never become part of their soul. - "Pretty Woman" - Much the same can be said about the lifestyle, I think.

2/13/2014 7:10:46 PM

Nothing screams classy like a picture of your penis...


11/11/2013 8:43:14 AM
If you are a veteran, thank you. If you know a veteran, thank them. If you knew a veteran, remember them.

6/20/2013 8:23:02 PM

Before you post that pic of your naked body or your mouth full of cock, consider that that pic will be out there FOREVER...


3/24/2013 7:59:39 AM

So, when you wonder why your cheap clothing from Wal-Mart (and those leather outfits and gear you bought that were made in Pakistan) don't fit and don't last,  remember this, if you're old enough:

 

The ILGWU sponsored a contest among its members in the 1970s for an advertising jingle to advocate buying ILGWU-made garments. The winner was Look for the union label. The Union's "Look for the Union Label" song went as follows:

Look for the union label
When you are buying a coat, dress, or blouse,
Remember somewhere our union's sewing,
Our wages going to feed the kids and run the house,
We work hard, but who's complaining?
Thanks to the ILG, we're paying our way,
So always look for the union label,
It says we're able to make it in the USA!

I doubt if the Pakistani or the Chinese laborers have anything similar...


8/3/2012 8:49:45 PM

My profile is a downer. Or so I've been told recently. This from some clown who has nothing in theirs. Rather funny, in a pathetic kind of way. My profile is down to earth, in the hopes of weeding out all the fakes and flakes. The liars and the scammers. The ones claiming to want to get together for a drink, when they live 1000 miles away. As if that's gonna happen anytime soon... You've encountered them too, unless you're one of them. And if you are, don't you have something better to do with your time? Is it really that much fun pretending to be someone/something that you aren't? Leading people on? Most people would consider that pretty shitty behavior.


11/6/2011 7:17:44 PM

Proverbs 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.


10/30/2011 5:29:08 PM

So, this week I was called an old geezer, and I was told that I was very offensive. CM is up to its usual standards...


10/23/2011 5:37:21 PM
Sunday rant... If you call yourself 'lady'whatever, try acting like one, instead of some piece of trailer trash. And if you're 6 feet tall or weigh in excess of 200 pounds, I'm sorry, but having 'little' in your name doesn't really work.

10/18/2011 6:46:53 PM

Concubine or Courtesan, anyone?


10/15/2011 11:44:04 AM
Words convey a lot. Perhaps more than they should, or more than the writer realizes. Case in point - profiles that state someone is currently collared, or owned. Why say currently? Planning on being uncollared or unowned at some point? Sure, it may happen, but why say it? Currently married? Currently living? Doubtful anyone says so...

10/2/2011 6:13:43 PM

'Heaven has decreed that it is your part to endure these sufferings, just as it is my part to inflict them.' - Marquis de Sade - 'Justine'


9/27/2011 6:43:40 AM

I need someone to be a living dress form to model some custom leather corsets under construction. Sewing experience would be a plus.


9/11/2011 6:28:48 PM

Gotta love scammer-speak. From one of the latest profiles: "please i arent want any games!!!" Nigerian English seems to be a bit off...


9/11/2011 6:08:55 AM

10 years since 9/11. We got caught with our collective pants down on that day. We had grown complacent and unprepared, and we paid the price. And to some extent, those who would destroy us continue to win, having transformed our society into one where we fear everything, our freedoms have been curtailed, and the power of our government to intrude into our lives has been greatly enhanced. We would do well to remember the Benjamin Franklin quote:

 

“Those who desire to give up freedom in order to gain security will not have, nor do they deserve, either one.”

9/4/2011 10:35:16 PM

Home tonight. MsC is over for Me. I have to skip the last day. But it was good, overall. Saw some old friends. Made some new ones. Saw a beautiful pair of armpit length black leather gloves on a young lady, and complimented her on them. Sat in on some interesting sessions. Got to show some of My leather collection to a very appreciative lady. Attended a de-collaring ceremony that a friend and fellow Master had for a former slave of his (she was not in attendance). Pretty powerful stuff. Burned her collar, in a rather moving ceremony. I hope that he finally finds closure and is able to move on. I felt his pain...


9/3/2011 8:59:51 PM

Second day of the Master/slave Conference. Skipped/missed it last year. Going solo this year, but going. Good to see friends who share the lifestyle.


8/29/2011 6:42:01 PM

Master/slave Conference this weekend.


8/26/2011 6:03:43 AM

I had a call from a former sub last night. I had caught her in a lie several years ago, which killed the relationship, although we did continue to talk from time to time, until she went off the deep end and insulted Me last December. So is an appology that is 8 months in coming worth anything? Does it even matter? No, and no, I think. As they say, some things, once said, cannot be taken back. Amazing, the power of words, for both good and bad. I can forgive, if I choose to do so, but I cannot forget.


8/9/2011 7:24:08 AM

47 today. Spent most of yesterday chilling, out on the lake, running a jetski around at 60+ mph. Took the entire week off. Work and the associated bullshit can wait until next week. Had a cousin die last week - puts things in perspective.


8/6/2011 8:41:14 PM

My ex's birthday today. I didn't acknowledge it. I just couldn't see doing it. A year later, looking back, I suppose I should have seen it coming. It's hard to let some things go, to call it quits. But better no one than the wrong one...


8/2/2011 8:02:01 PM

The Zen Mystery series on PBS - a great, if short lived series.


7/30/2011 7:17:16 PM

So who wants to polish My copper bottom Revereware?


7/24/2011 9:54:27 PM

So the one year anniversary of the split with My former significant other approaches, along with our respective birthdays. I don't plan on acknowledging hers, nor do I expect her to acknowledge Mine. A year affords one some time to put such things into perspective. I can't say that I miss much about the relationship at this point.


7/23/2011 8:02:23 PM

Do they teach nothing in school/college these days? The vast majority of the profiles on here (even when excluding the obviously fake ones) read like crap, if they read at all. No wonder this country is in a death spiral. We don't read, we can't write, we've forgotten our own history. The majority of citizens probably couldn't even pass the citizenship test given to immigrants.


7/4/2011 6:14:14 AM

Talk about pathetic: According to a new poll, only 58 percent of Americans know the United States declared its independence in 1776. Twenty-six percent were unsure and 16 percent said another date.


6/16/2011 8:48:23 PM

www tineye com - one of My favorite sites. Think they're a scammer? Run their pic and find out...


6/14/2011 7:39:38 PM

Hotel room for M/sC arranged. Just need that slave now...


6/11/2011 8:05:58 PM

Home at last...


6/10/2011 3:43:44 PM
United Airlines sucks ass! Zero for customer service - literally! Could not find a service rep at LAX!

6/7/2011 5:10:43 AM

Off to LA.


6/6/2011 8:58:35 PM

A hypothetical, ignoring fate or free will considerations:

 

Imagine you've split with someone. One morning, you wake up to find yourself with that same person, a year or so in the past, knowing what had happened (or would perhaps happen) that lead up to the split. What would you do? Would you:

 

Let things play out as they had before?

 

Try and change things?

 

End things sooner this time?


6/6/2011 8:20:50 PM

Another wave a scammers, fakes, and "God knows what the hell they're thinking" on here. Stupid profiles that say nothing, or less. Why even bother? Go read a book or something... If I had My way, all internet scammers would be declared economic terrorists and subject to execution. Killing a few of these fuckers might just put the fear of God in the rest of them. And wouldn't that be a terrible thing...


6/5/2011 1:12:51 PM

I told someone who was complaining about the trolls on here that their profile seemed reasonable to Me. A compliment, I thought. Apparently not. Instead, I'm told that I had "judged" their profile. Well fuck Me, if some people don't have a stick up their ass... All I can say is good luck, because you'll need it with an attitude like that.


6/1/2011 7:13:39 PM

Registered for M/sC. All I need now is a companion...


5/31/2011 7:31:58 PM

Good weekend. Jetskis at 40+ mph = great fun. Machine gun firing was most impressive. Made going back to work all the more painful...


5/21/2011 5:11:55 PM

Went and saw "Hesher". Funny, sad, outrageous, moving, touching. Redeemed itself in the last few minutes. Anyone who's ever dealt with death will ultimately relate, I think.


5/13/2011 10:07:55 PM

New phone today - Motorola ATRIX - I liked my NOKIA, but this thing is scary, with all it seems to have...


5/12/2011 6:13:15 PM

The Bernina 330 finally arrived.


5/10/2011 9:48:48 PM

Serendipity... Three weeks ago, I'm walking around Manhattan with some co-workers. This evening, I'm watching "The Adjustment Bureau", only to watch a scene filmed in the same downtown park that I sat in. Pretty strange...


5/8/2011 8:13:54 AM

A happy Mother's Day to those who are or those who have.


5/8/2011 8:07:56 AM

A good laugh this morning: I saw a photo of a supposed sub or slave in NY, but there was one minor problem. she was standing next to a European style electrical outlet...


5/6/2011 7:59:06 PM

Flea market in Arlington tomorrow! Junk city!


5/3/2011 9:55:17 PM

Need to register for the Master/slave Conference this month. If I only had a slave... Sigh...


5/2/2011 5:53:20 PM

So Osama got himself a Soprano sendoff and funeral. Tapped in the head, and now sleeping with the fish. My response to any Muslim who complains about his burial at sea: Tell it to thousands of innocents who were burned to death on 9/11/2001. They deserved something more than a funeral pyre.


4/30/2011 6:02:39 AM

Back from NY. Good to be home. My low expectations on this site continue to be met. Talk really is cheap, when it comes to the lifestyle, it seems.


4/16/2011 7:37:16 PM

A new alternator for the Continental today. An all day affair. I got to take Metro home late last night after it "refused to proceed", in the words of Rolls Royce. The trip home reminded Me of Don Henley's "Sunset Grill":

 

Let's go down to the Sunset Grill

We can watch the working girls go by

Watch the basket people walk around and mumble

And stare out at the auburn sky

 

Some interesting characters were seen, for sure...


4/16/2011 7:26:28 PM

Drove by the ex's place last night after dinner with a good friend. Hadn't been in the area for months. The ghosts were quiet.


4/12/2011 9:36:22 PM

Another wave of fakes on here. Do your part by reporting these pieces of shit when you see them. And what's with the ones on here who claim to be looking, and who have dozens or hundreds of friends, but no takers. I counted over 500 on one profile. Must be expecting a prize for the greatest number of friends.


4/10/2011 10:07:37 AM

livingsocial - pretty amazing site. Bought a new Bernina 330 for less than half the list price thanks to them and the local dealer.


4/9/2011 7:01:48 AM

I got a reply to a note I sent someone almost a month ago. Why even bother with a reply after so long, unless you really have something to say?


4/3/2011 1:24:59 PM

I mourn the death of proper English. 90% of the profiles on here would get a failing grade in any English class. Is it simply too hard to string a few sentences together in a coherent manner?


4/2/2011 7:43:06 PM

The flea market was pretty good today. Some cool finds.


3/30/2011 7:33:02 PM

slave wanted. No games. No bullshit. No drama. No fakes. No flakes. Apply here. (If only it were so easy...)


3/29/2011 6:51:20 PM

First flea market of the season this weekend.


3/25/2011 7:42:15 PM

Back from Philly... Like Shakespeare said: "The first thing we do, let's kill all the lawyers."


3/23/2011 8:07:51 PM

The radiator is in. F'n Ford Engineers. If there's a simple way to do something, they won't do it. Have to pull the radiator out from under the Continental! Which means you've got to jack the car up! And deal with all the road grime! And of course, nobody uses a welded brass or copper radiator anymore. Nope. Gotta use a cheap (to make) aluminum core unit with plastic crimped on end caps. Which leak over time, as in My case. VW had a heater core made like so that had a nasty tendency to fail under pressure, providing a nice 220 degree steam bath to unwary/unlucky drivers. So after topping up the coolant after I got the air out of the system, she runs nice and cool. Which is good, because work is too far to walk to.


3/19/2011 1:50:35 PM

It's said that there's no honor among thieves. I wonder at times if the same can be said of the majority of the online lifestyle followers. Flakes and fakes... Whatever happened to freaks who were passionate about their kinks?


3/18/2011 3:22:24 PM

The last BR event at The Crucible tomorrow night (at the current location). May go, just to watch. Who knows? Maybe some leather clad babe will be abandoned...


3/12/2011 5:02:28 PM

The leather flea market at The Crucible in DC was good today. (Picture of My purchase is among My profile pics.) The last one to be held there before The Crucible moves, I was told. They've been there 11 years... Makes Me feel old. I bumped into a few friends there that I hadn't seen in a while. I didn't stay for the play - that's something you need a partner for, even  if you're just watching, I think. One of these days, perhaps...


2/25/2011 5:44:57 PM

The 2011 Master/slave Conference has been announced. Want to see what the lifestyle is really about? Attend.


2/24/2011 8:30:15 PM

I'm told that My brutal truth is too much at times. In a world full of lies and liars, perhaps the truth does come across as brutal to some. I personally find nothing brutal about the truth though. As a matter of fact, I find it refreshing when I meet someone else who believes in it. Because it's going to come out in the end anyway, so why not be upfront about it?


2/20/2011 4:07:12 PM

Funeral of a friends mother today. Car accident. Death sucks.


2/17/2011 8:51:45 PM

A profile built on a lie (or a multitude of lies' for that matter) probably isn't the best way to try and find the "One", in My experience. Honesty is still the only policy, if one is serious. Anything else/less is just a waste of time.


1/26/2011 5:54:58 PM

Snowstorm from hell this evening. 4 hours to get home. Usually takes 25 minutes, tops.


1/24/2011 6:39:18 PM

Found a Centennial Edition Singer model 15-91 over the weekend. In need of some service, but built like a tank (as are most older Singers).


1/7/2011 7:59:45 PM

Gerry Rafferty died this past week. Music of my youth...


1/3/2011 6:41:25 AM

"Trust: Firm reliance on the integrity, ability, or character of a person or thing." An interesting word, trust. It seems to be misunderstood, and certainly misused. But by its very definition, it's exclusive, or binary. You trust, or you don't. You don't trust a little, or a bit. You trust. Period. Completely. Until proven otherwise, perhaps, but until then, you either do or you don't. And if you don't, or you can't, or you won't, for whatever reason(s), so be it. But trust is like life. There's risk associated with it. It requires some faith. But nothing ventured, nothing gained...


1/2/2011 6:52:36 PM

Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans. - John Lennon


1/1/2011 6:29:40 AM

A new year! All things are possible. As the Arabs say, nothing is written.


12/1/2010 1:29:33 PM
A lot of claims on here. slave. submissive. No limits. The reality is that talk has always been, is, and always will be cheap. And sadly, many on here can't even talk (or write). Excluding the scammers, who provide daily amusement, I'm sure it's a slave's/submissive's market here. Plenty of choices. Just make sure you choose wisely. It's the quickest way to end up being beaten and raped (beyond what you might want, or think you want), or to be used and dumped, breaking that heart of yours (if you've got one, and if it hasn't been broken already. The lifestyle is a double edged sword...

11/27/2010 9:51:42 PM

I've come to think that it takes some balls for someone to admit that they're submissive (or slave) material, and to act upon it. one just needs to be careful who one acts upon it with. Unless you truly have no limits (sure), in which case you're a liar or seriously fucked up, with a death wish. Anyone kinky AND sane out there?


11/16/2010 8:00:37 PM

My account took a powder for some reason, but I've re-established it.


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 Age: 37
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