New to this site, have tried other bdsm sites, most are full of bullshitters, hope i have better luck here. I have, let's say dabbled but havent found the right connection. I am a submissive seeking both the mental and physical balance that can be found. I am not seeking to find someone who can't get aroused without a whip or chain in his hand.

Looking for a genuine relationship with a likeminded intelligent man who can string more than two sentences together, must have some vanilla elements, how boring would it be otherwise.

Just because i'm a sub does not mean i'm your sub, so if you message me with ridiculous rubbish i will not respond. If you don't have the manners to send me a picture with your message you will be ignored, would you come up to me in a pub with a bin bag over your head and expect me to chat with you? i think not. If you send me a false pic that is 10 yrs old and 10 stone lighter, i will soon find out, i have had all the online BS, i know the signs. On the matter of pictures, i would appreciate if you cleaned up your act, whats with the people on sites that take a pic with all kinds of rubbish on the table and the backgroud, clothes all over the place, milk bottles on tables, for goodness sake get a grip folks.! Stay away outside of the UK ...