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As much as I would like to see the profile that is at the bottom of this happen, I am going through some major life changes as I settle into a my new location and retirement.
Also, I am not looking for someone to fix me. I am a capable and successful woman. That being said, I still love the submissive mindset of being able to give my heart to a strong confident dominant man.
I wish I could be clear on what exactly I am looking for, but I know I dont want to interact with anyone who has to sneak around and keep secrets with regard to me.
Someone who can grab my mind. I really love hypnosis, and love being on the receiving end. There are so many levels of relationships. I would prefer someone who is available, and who understands I have a life outside of this lifestyle. Looking for that one special dominant man that will spark that magical connection.I am looking for that special one who knows how to reach into my heart and knows how to take it and make it his own.
I prefer straight dominant men, who know how to lead without being domineering. Yes, there is a huge difference. I have a submissive heart given the right chemistry. I am not slave, nor do I have any desire to be, although there have been dominant men I have been involved with that would say otherwise. I generally prefer men who are a little younger than me, but not decades younger. I will want to feel some attraction to you physically, and emotionally. I know there are tops on here who like to think that just because a submissive is looking for her Master, that she will accept anyone who comes along. That is not me.
Not into pain or torture. I enjoy sensual and erotic aspects of bdsm play, The deep connection and magic from sharing the energy generated from intense erotic play is what drives me and compels me towards him, and towards the sweet surrender and submission to him. When he is able to get into my head...... and knows how to take my heart. And knowing he is there for me and building with me, that connection into something special for just the two of us.
I tend to enjoy darker play. If you can lead me there, keep me safe, help me to let go, and take us both back into the light, you have extra points. And no, that doesnt mean going into a dark room.
I have greying blonde hair (when I dont color it), blue grey eyes, too curvy. I am introverted and tend to be a little shy till I get to know someone. If we are both introverted that may be a problem. I love laughter and the joyous side of this lifestyle. I love being around animals, the four legged kind, and cant imagine a home without them. I often enjoy cooking, but also love going out sharing a meal.
I have a kind heart, and I tend to be highly sensitive and empathic. I tend to be very sarcastic. That being said, I hold my heart in a safe place until I trust enough. My political leanings are more liberal, but I respect differing opinions.
I am looking to be someones priority, eventually. If you are married, this wont work. I want someone who is free to love me. I want someone who doesnt have to rush home to someone else or who has to hide what we share with his significant other. I appreciate it if you would respect that.
While I enjoy bdsm in various s and degrees, it is about the control and intensity that allows me to let go and embrace parts of me I usually hide.
Challenges I prefer to stay close to home.
Not looking for long distance relationships - I do not want anyone who will have to relocate to be with me. I dont want that responsibility.
I want someone who is close enough so we can share dinner, a movie, events, hugs, intimate kisses, and all those things that lead to a journey of the two of us. I am a straight woman. If you are looking for someone to bring other women to you, just go away.
If you contact me, what can you tell me in your message and profile that will make me want to get to know you. Please understand that there are things I am looking for and not looking for that are not necessarily on my profile. I try to answer to polite messages. If I respond with no thank you or I am not interested, please respect that and be thankful it didnt take us time for me to reach that conclusion.
As a side note, and I dont quite know how to say this without sounding unkind. So often, we get to chatting over messages and emails. It may be awhile before I am able to see what you look like. When I do, I want to feel some attraction, whether in your eyes, the muscles in your arms, your smile... We may enjoy meaningful conversations, and have found things in common, but if that part of the puzzle doesnt fit, things will be awkward as I try to pull away without hurting your feelings. Its ok, if you find the same thing in reverse. I would hope we are able to be honest with one another, wish each other well, and move on.
One last thing that I need to add here for clarification purposes. If you feel you want me to be your teacher, I am not going to be your submissive. Also, I am a hypnotherapist, who gets paid for it. If you are looking for hypnosis sessions, or for me to teach you about hypnosis, please contact me for my rates. Also, hypnosis for fun is very different than hypnosis as hypnotherapy. Hypnotherapy sometimes requires reaching into some very difficult and uncomfortable places within us before we can resolve our issues. If you are looking for professional hypnosis sessions, Please be aware of this before you contact me.
Thank you!
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