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	I have been on this site for a very long time. Actually, I have had some success over the years in meeting people and that usually ended up in being a long-term relationship. I believe in control and if this does not turn you off and if you are masochist will enjoy my sadist than this is the one ad which you actually should feel you have to answer. It is not necessary to go into all the details. Suffice it to say that I own and use all the equipment from straitjackets and hoods, to sleep sacks and straps. I own a large variety of whips, paddles and my favorite (at the moment) the Canadian Prison Strap. I am at a time in life where I can afford to relocate someone, and I also understand that this lifestyle requires both leisure time as well as money for equipment, travel, and even dressing your slave to look as she should. If you do reply you will get an answer but please, do be REAL!

Well, well, well, it looks as if the old collar me his back as collar space. I wonder if all the old problems will remain but it remains to be seen if that will be true.

I had this in my profile, but perhaps it belongs here. I am married. However, I don't and never cheat on her or a slave. She knows who I see and often becomes friends with them too. If you need or want more details just ask

Monogamy + Master = an oxymoron

This observation may startle many, after all so many women say they want a monogamous Master to call their own. However, is a Master truly a domineering, controlling personality if they do not remain true to themselves. If we go back into our past and look at it then it becomes plain that men throughout history have had multiple women while women, historically, were expected to be faithful and have only one man.

These roles were biological imperatives and they remain as true today as they did in yesteryears. Testosterone which most men are poisoned with requires wanderlust and a sense of adventure. To deny this an attempt to rein it in should be an impossibility and if it is not then you need to question who is in charge.

However while realizing the inevitability of men having a roving eye and a need for conquest the smart and good Master must realize that in order to keep and have a "slave" she must have a sense of security and know that her place is firm in her Owners heart and mind.

This is only possible if both parties are totally and completely committed not only one to the other but also to the Master/slave continuum. They cannot view this as "play" but rather as their mutual destiny. If you and yours want to proceed with a discussion of this please simply write to me and I will be glad to elucidate further.

I tend to come to this site every six months or so and I find differences each time. For example, there seem to be many more people who are posting photos that are obviously not of themselves. Why would anyone do that? Now I have pictures of my other slaves on my profile but they were mine and are put there as an example of what I am looking for.

I guess I will follow my usual pattern, which did work out ever so well three years ago, and write a whole bunch of letters with the hope and a prayer that the right one will get one of these letters and that things will work out as well for me now as I have in the past. If you have any questions about my past please feel free to ask

Do you believe in serendipity? Today I had an example of how that really can work. I have not been here for quite some time and when I turned my computer on and wandered over to the site I found a letter of appreciation! It is nice that there are the occasional people who will take the time to pen a note just to say something nice.

While I am on the subject there are of course many people who are complete phonies here. I am not sure what they get out of writing the letters (since I enjoy "relationships" or) but they are here and they are entitled to do as they wish.

My Take On Finding Someone Here

When it comes to meeting a person in the normal world it takes time, but here most of us are interested in "unusual" things. My attitude is that finding a good slave, a compatible slave, and a good and true companion is difficult. If I write 1000 letters, and I get only one good and true slave that I am most certainly the richest of all men. Of course they will be rebuffs rudeness and such but to become discouraged is to not be in control of life and is also not compatible with the title that I give myself of MASTER.

It has been a long time since I have been active on this site. The last time I was here (over 18 months ago) it seemed as if almost all of the people here were phonies. Either that, or they were seeking hot letters but not meetings.

Websites seem to go through phases. Right now it appears that this site has changed. Like the site, I to find that as time goes on I change. I won't bother to change my profile but hope that if you read the profile you will read this short missive. The purpose of this is to inform any and all that while I am a sadist I also am a teacher and as such realize that patience and fortitude are major requirements when meeting with someone. I realize that almost all people I meet with will not have years of experience which I do and I am more than willing to help you and yours discover your level of comfort.

TESTING?

So I met with a person who did not believe that I am what I say I. She tried to "test" me and of course found out that I am exactly what I claim to be. If she had done her research just looking my name up on the Internet (Bill Majors) she would know that I really know and am that rarest of things, a real sadist and MASTER!

Things did not work out that well because she really thought that she could top me from the bottom as she has so often done with others. Many people say they want one thing when the reality of their actions show another thing is their true desire.

So, if you should write to me please make sure that you understand that I believe in total and absolute control!

Sometimes you give a slave an assignment, such as, "write what it means to be my slave" and you get back a lovely surprise. I am proud that my property wrote the following:

i know that there is a 'fantasy slave' but from experience, know that there is a 'real slave' and there is a world of difference in those words.

a "real slave' loves her Master beyond herself, only wants what is best for Him, watches out for Him, tries to anticipate His needs and provides them.

a real slave is there 24/7 for Her Master, not just during a scene, not just for sex. it is a profoundly deep relationship, not entered into lightly. sure, Master can advertise for 'slaves only' and then get one for His entertainment for a ferw hours, a day. but is she comitted to Him? is she willing to let go of her needs, is she willing to place her life in His hands?

there needs to be a back and forth communication between Master and slave. each needs to know the other as themselves. that takes time...it doesn't happen overnight. a Master cannot find a 'true slave' thru internet communication and neither can the slave do that. the only way to find each other is thru one on one time for many days, weeks, years. Yes, even i could be a 'true slave' (were that in my nature) to someone for a day, maybe even a week. However that is not the test of time....

Time has told me that i have a Master Who, while fallible, is also a true sadist which satisfies my needs as a masochist. However, that is just a bonus...my needs are not what is important. His needs are. if the slave is not 'in the mood' it is the Master Who dictates that 'yes, this is going to happen'. i believe that a slave trusts her Master more, if she is dominated when she really doesn't feel like it. she learns that this is a Man who indeed, loves her, but also is spending time teaching her, her place.

a slave takes care of her Master in all ways. it's not 24/7 sex! it's making His bed, it's putting on His shoes, it's opening His car door, it's kneeling in public should He so desire. it is fixing meals that He likes, it is putting His clothes in the laundry and generally cleaning up (not so glamorous at times). it is providing Him the comforts that only a loving, intuitive slave can do.

the real test is to live toghether, to comfort Master when He is frustrated or down, to provide support and love if things are not going His 'masterly' way, to listern, to interpret what He is saying and be there for Him. TO LISTEN. The slave takes pleasure from these things. She wants her Master to be always assured of her love, her comittment to Him, her acceptance of Who and What He is, for Himself.

The ability to listen is one of the most valued aspects of slavery, at least in my opinion. To be able to hear the nuances in His voice as He relates His thoughts. To be able to hear when He is very tired, to be able to know that this is a time for comfort, or otoh, a time to slip out and put on a provactaive outfit and stimulate Him.

The slave enjoys being with her Master...that is the key. Yes, the slave enjoys the physical domination, the sex, the 'toys', etc. But to be able to enjoy her Master at all times and have an abiding need to be with Him at all times, good and bad, is the feeling of a 'real slave' rather than an internet slave.

Slavery is entered into too easily on the internet imho. The meaning of a being a slave is deep and i don't believe that most who say they are a 'slave' really understand what it's all about. sometimes i don't even think Master understands what it is when He goes searching and believes He has found a 'true slave'. He may have found a 'true masochist', but a TRUE SLAVE is something completely different.

Sigh, slaves have also accept that about the Master. He may not see the forest for the trees, but a slave will always be there for Him, should things not work out and she will wait patiently until He understands that finding a TRUE slave is a tad more difficult that posting an ad or answering an ad, spending a day or two with someone.

As you may have figured out from this I am far from an easy "Master" since I tend to be impulsive and frequently seek new slaves. However, she seems to understand who and what I am and her protection is never stifling and/or does not come from jealousy.