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I am a born again / Spirit filled Christian. My conversion occurred when I was 14 years old and I have fervently followed and served Jesus Christ since that time.
About three years ago I began to see through translation of Greek and Hebrew there are a great number of passages in the bible that extol and celebrate sex (Within the bonds of Marriage) Passages in the bible speak possitively of Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Dildos, Nipple Rings, Pundenda Rings, Aphodisiacs, Deep Fullfilling Sex for Hours.
I also see Domestic Discipline and BDSM as defined in "Screw the Roses as not unscriptural.
God invented Sex not the devil -- it was only after the fall of the early church when the apostollic fathers lost their way that an ideaology arose that taught sex is sin, sex is evil, sex is perverse, sex is dirty. And many but not all followed these corrupt teachings put forth by Tertullian, Jerome, and codified by Augustine -- which was later carried into the protestant revival by Augustine's disciple John Calvin.
Just to read 1 Corinthains chapter 7 shows that Jesus Christ and the Apostles held no such beliefs that sex within the bounds of marriage was evil sinful unclean or perverse.
I have been a member of BDSM Christians for almost a year, and will admit that I am am a new comer to BDSM.
I have had some experience fairly recently as a dom in a "Long Distance" relationship and have found it to be very insightful and instructive as a beleiver into why so many christian marriage in this day fail.
In BDSM Non beleivers obey the spirit of what is written in Ephesians 5 concerning submission and the power relationship between a husband and wife that is supposed to reflect the power relationship of Jesus Christ and the Church.
One eye opening thing in my long distance relationship with an experienced sub was when she sinned greatly against me, she wept and called me repeatedly and asked for forgiveness (Never have I seen a beleiver so humble themselves.) I forgave her at the first and told her so but she did not feel my words of forgiveness were enough and repented again and again afterwards. I then saw something spiritually and I asked her if she felt my forgiveness was not enough and wanted to be disciplined -- She answered in a small trembling voice "Yes Sir"
To me this was a profound profound moment that caused me to see something in the rebuke and chastisement of God that I have never seem, not only behavioral modification but disclipline is also an emotional need, that always one to accept more deeply into their psyche Love, Forgiveness, Mercy, when it is dispensed.
I know there are other christians on this website and invite those for contact, friendship, and of course I am looking for a special sub for a long term relationship
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