I am trying to find the perfect woman for me, I am seeking a committed long term relationship with a fun loving Femdom or a switch. I'm not just Seeking a Woman to live with,I am Seeking the Woman I can't live without.I believe there is someone out there for all of us and what really matters most is how we treat each other I really enjoy a female who can be dominant in the bedroom and yet be an equal in our day to day lives. the perfect woman for me will have curves in all the right places be toned and athletic and have a sense of humor and be be intelligent enough to carry on a conversation deep into the night.
I am easy on the eyes and very secure in myself and my career. I enjoy being the alpha male Dom and sometimes I also like to be submissive. I guess you could call me a Switch but I tend to be more Dom than sub. I want someone who I can be very relaxed around someone who don't care about what other people think. I am looking for a LTR that is part vanilla/ part Bd/Sm lifestyle,we all have to work and deal with family and friend issues. what we do as a couple behind closed doors is our business. My hope is to find a Femdom or Switch that shares some of my kinks and fetishes, and can also expand my interests and knows how to properly control someone by controlling their fetishes.I do believe that all lasting relationships need to begin with being friends first.
While word origin and most historic accounts define the "cuckold husband" or party as being submissive, powerless and/or in need of humiliation to receive stimulation, contemporary practice suggests the possibility of something altogether different. Rather than passively acceeding to the infidelity and desires of an errant wife, this "cuckold" is more in keeping with the male partners defined in polyamorous, open, or swinging relationships.
In this manifestation, the cuckold is a consummate voyeur... who derives great pleasure from seeing his "hot wife" or partner being pleasured and serviced by another male (or males...or a female). Although he assumes a submissive role and may even assist during the course of the sex act, the "cuckold husband" may actually be the controlling, dominant party in the relationship. He may invite, encourage, and initiate consideration of the practice with his partner, and may be the one to make arrangements and approve how, when and with whom his wife may have the intended encounter.
Often, the excitement of the encounter with third parties is followed by more, very stimulating sex play between the relationship partners. The encounter becomes an aphrodisiac, helping to initiate and enhance further sex play between them, as visions of the encounter are revisited and replayed during subsequent love making sessions.
