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| Hi there! I am Gaijin (pronounced guy jin). It is a Japanese word that basically means outsider. I am also called Papa Bear by my pack and others, because I take care of and am fiercely protective of those who mean the most to me. For my friends, my door is never locked and my phone is never off the hook.
So who am I? I am, for the most part, a Poly, Primal, Dominant, Sadist who is in a Master/slave relationship with sugar, my wife of over 23 years.
I am a very devoted, loving husband, father of 3 grown boys, "PawPaw" to 2 wonderful grandchildren, a practical man who is a "jack of all trades" type and a caring, compassionate friend.
I am one of the "good guys," but I'm no "knight in shining armor." A knight in shining armor is a man whose metal has never truly been tested. Life has certainly tested this knight.
I am playful and fun loving with a good sense of humor. I can laugh at myself as easily as I can at others. I like to pick and play and love someone who can take as well as they give and vice versa.
I am a romantic who loves deeply and unconditionally. I enjoy sex as much as the next nympomaniac (LOL), but I also like cuddling up on the couch or even better...by a campfire. I need physical contact with my partners. To touch and be touched is necessary for me.
I love being outdoors. Hiking, camping (tent & sleeping bag outside type camping) and swimming are some of my favorite things.
I am sadistic. Definitely into the giving end of ropes, chains, whips, floggers, paddles, etc, but more of a sensual sadist, if you will. Not that I don't love to dish out some bruise and welt-raising blows with my implements of ass destruction. I do that for sure, but I also like teasing and toying with various sensations and driving my partner to the edge of madness before granting release...or not.
I like to play for the sake of play with no strings attached. I also like sharing what I have learned with others. I claim no expertise in any particular discipline. My way is certainly not tne "one true way."
I am creative and crafty. I enjoy finding "alternative uses" for common every day items. I also like making my own toys and then using them on people. If you see something I have made and would like one for yourself, let me know. I'm sure we can work something out.
I am Primal. There seems to be a beast inside me that wants to come out and play... and play rough. When he slips his bonds, I feel a need to fight, bite, claw, scratch and mark my mate while wrestling for dominance over her. Eager submission is not what I need when in primal mode. To be bitten and clawed in the ensuing struggle only excites me and feeds the fury that burns inside. I want to take down and physically dominate my mate and then take what is mine.
I am Polyamorous. I firmly believe it is possible to love more than one person at a time. I think when we put limits on the love we allow ourselves to give, we also limit the amount of love we can receive. No, I don't claim it is easy. It takes hard work and continuous, open and honest communication from everyone in the relationship. Yes you also open yourself up to more potential heartbreak, but, to me, the potential gains outweigh the risks.
I admire and try to emulate the values of the Leather culture. Honesty, Integrity and Service to the community are important to me. I hold those who demonstrate these values in high esteem.
What am I looking for? I am looking for friends, play partners, events and the chance to continue to learn and grow in this lifestyle. I would eventually love to find a kinky, primal, masochist female for a long term, poly relationship. Someone with a bit of a dominant / sadistic streak who would enjoy being alpha female over a cuckquean.
I love meeting new people and try to attend as many lifestyle events as my schedule allows. If you are new to the scene and are hesitant about going to a Meet & Greet or Play Party because you don't know anyone, hit me up with a private message and let's get to know each other! We can meet up somewhere public and talk over coffee before an event and then I'll be happy to show you around and introduce you to some of the coolest people you'll ever meet. No strings attached! Ropes and handcuffs, maybe, but no strings. LOL ...just kidding...(maybe?)
Like most people you will meet at a play party, I don't mind showing my toys and demonstrating how they feel. If you are curious about something - ask! Like I said above, I like using my toys on others.
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