Simplicity of soul, dexterity of mind, hunger of sexuality.....
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The MIND is key to a fulfilling SEXUALITY
There are two parts to my profile - the sexual and the non-sexual.
Please Read Both
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Understanding and interests outside of D/s do not lessen my own intrinsic sadism, proclivities, and drives.
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NON-D/S
I choose to live my life simply and fully. I have done well for myself in life, but choose to live simply. I prefer family, friends, and traveling over purchasing "things" ( or even worse - purchasing "people" ).
I want to fill it with wonder and to wander; to experience all that the world, body, and mind has to offer. I want to taste every experience and feel every opportunity. I touch grass or brick just to feel it.
I couldnt live without:
- traveling
- conversation
- the continual pursuit of knowledge
- Dvorak
- the outdoors
I detest:
- snobs
- looking down on others
- judging based on material wealth
- jealousy
Random facts:
- I enjoy any kind of music - including musicals
- I've hiked on 3 continents
- I travel internationally almost every other month and domestically monthly
- I've been involved with charity work in 3 countries and giving back will ALWAYS be important
- I meditate ( well - I'm trying haha )
- I work out 6 days a week and eat healthy
- I am quite successful in my field but dont let it limit or define me
- An intelligent and motivated woman is sexy to me
Silence is often under utilized - stand in silence for 5 minutes and just listen to yourself breath.
Fresh air is a necessary component of productive work.
Follow-through and integrity are vital.
Conversation beyond the inane is required.
Get up early enough once in a while to see the sunrise and stay up to watch the moon set.
I enjoy sensations... I will run my finger tips along a brick wall as I'm walking or fiddle with leaves just to feel them in my fingers. Sensations - mental and physical....
Intelligence can rarely be an over rated quality.
D/S RELATED
AN update to the "MUSTS" section below - if you think that having a conversation is only responding to questions, then please move on. A conversation is like a good dance - its back and forth; its interactive; its non-restrictive. Communication people!
My experience in the D/s scene goes back almost a decade now and my experience is wide and varied.
I dont have any "MUSTS" in terms of what you are into or your experience - rather your maturity ( mentally and emotionally - not age related! ) are a must. Your desire to learn and grow AND have fun are a must. You willingness to explore and to push yourself are a must.
Beyond that, I do enjoy humiliation, posture training, protocol training, furniture use, animal role play, forced or heavy scenes. I am a sadist - emotional, mental, and physical I enjoy inflicting it all. I love seeing and even more so experiencing a woman in pain when I know she wants it.
For longer term play I am interested in more than just the sexual aspect of it. I am confident MOST people know "basically" how to fuck ( though everyone has their nuanced preferences ). However, for long term play I'm just as interested in the mind - how you think, how you react, how you grow and adapt and change and develop.
I do NOT do: blood, children, scat. Other than that - your imagination is the limit.
I am gainfully self employed and travel OFTEN for work - so location is not as much of an issue as intelligence and desire are.
In the past, I've:
- owned and trained ( full time ) a married couple
- had a full time live in slave that I trained and mentored for 3 years
- had 2 sister slaves ( not related ) who coexisted happily for a few years
- switched - so I understand much of what I will put you through
- had just play partners - preferably on a regular basis
- was an interrogator for the military - so I understand how to push you to your limit
but not break you ( unless you want to be.... ;) )
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"The Marquis De Sade said that the most important experiences a man can have are those that take him to the very limit; that is the only way we learn, because it requires all our courage. When a boss humiliates an employee, or a man humiliates his wife, he is merely being cowardly or taking his revenge on life, they are people who have never dared to look into the depths of their soul, never attempted to know the origin of that desire to unleash the wild beast, or to understand that sex, pain and love are all extreme experiences. Only those who know those frontiers know life; everything else is just passing the time, repeating the same tasks, growing old and dying without ever having discovered what we are doing here."
— Paulo Coelho
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