AHaven

Ok, I thought I'd pop on quality to share an interesting experience I had over the weekend. I participate in a Japanese street fashion called lol_ita (edited for the filter) and over the weekend I attended a community event. For those who aren't familiar it's based largely off of Victorian and Rococo juvenile clothing. It's for some merely a fashion for others, a lifestyle. Part of the group discussion addressed how many view the fashion as a fetish, namely age play, even the name itself is often linked to the Vladimir Nabokov novel. I found it particularly interesting since one of my interests is actually age play and it killed me to not chime in a little so I'll vent my thoughts a bit now lol.  Perhaps I was a bit naive but I have never had a negative reaction from anyone while dressed in loli gear however I have read the novel and that's not lost on me. While I do dress loli I see nothing sexual about it, I'm modestly covered, can you imagine how hard it is to get it on in tights, bloomers and a petticoat???! My god! And I see age play as mutually exclusive. I don't associate one with the other and I could never engage in a sexual act while in loli mode, one of the brands is called innocent world for a reason. In loli I can honestly say the transformation is definitely different for me, I feel innocent, more cofident, beautiful and cute. That is the reason why I gravitate toward sweet loli. When I age play, I do feel sexual and I guess that's the difference for me.  If there are any other submissive lolis on here I would actually love to start a dialogue about this. Do you struggle with this? What are your thoughts? Or even Doms with thoughts on the subject. I would love to know.