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"Seduce my mind, and you can have my body...Find my soul and I am forever yours..."

My favorite quote one I think many subs and slaves should learn when looking for a Dom/Domme/master My time on this site is coming close to a end. I am months away from achieving my dream and starting my production company and hopefully will begin filming my first film in March or April depending on the weather. Not sure if i will delete this account all together or just take down my pictures but either way I can not show my face once I achieve my investment. It is a dream come true being this close to achieving my dream but i will admit I have had to give up so much to get this far, I have given up everything in hopes to achieve even more. The sad part is achieving this dream was actually secondary because i was hoping to find that perfect sub/slave/switch before this happen but looks as if that is harder than becoming successful and that has been hard as hell. I still have a few months in hope to find the perfect sub/slave/switch before my deal goes through, this is a serious offer if she is out there. I am 13 yrs experience in the lifestyle and looking for someone serious and willing to stick by my side. I consider myself versitile as far as being a Dom and if I find the right woman or she find me it will make everything I achieve, everything i sacrificed worth it and trust me i have sacrificed alot so far more than I expected.

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10/19/2014 2:24:32 AM
This Halloween will be epic Huge anything goes fetish play party inside the hottest BDSM club in Los Angeles and if anyone would like details email me

9/23/2012 12:55:40 AM

For all the closed minded subs who judge me without knowing me read this and understand what this story means.

 

A black man was walking down the street one morning heading for work, he was happy and in a great mood and the black man sees a white guy walking towards him on the sidewalk, now the black man thinks to himself such a beautiful day I will be polite. As the two men approach each other the black man turns and say “Good morning” only for the white guy to slap the black guy in the face. MMMMMMM
The next day the black guy is once again walking down the street heading to work in a good mood and he thinks to himself about yesterday wondering what did he do wrong, was it his tone maybe he was to aggressive with his greeting and it freaked out the white man. The black man suddenly see a different white man coming his way walking and the black man thinks to himself that this time he will be less aggressive and have an even more friendlier tone. As the two approaches the black guy turns to the white guy and says “Good morning” with a lighter tone and friendlier attitude only for the white guy to turn and slap the black guy in the face. MMMMMM
Day three the Black guy once again walking down the street heading for work in an okay mood this time. The black guy very confused of what has happen to him and thinks to himself that maybe it is his presence that maybe he is being to intimidating and not speaking properly when he talks to the white guys and that has made the white guys slap him in the face. This time the black guy thinks less intimidating and speaks properly and this time it should work. As the two men approaches each other the black guy turns in a much less intimidating manner with proper diction and say “Hello Good morning to you” only to have this new white guy turn to the black guy and slap him in the face. MMMMMM
Day four now this time the black guy is not in a good mood and all he can think is how dare white people judge me for the color of my skin and not for the man I am. The black guy now sees different white guy walking down the street toward him and all the black guy can think is “Not this time, I will not give this white man the chance to slap me in the face” As the two guys approaches each other the black guy looks straight ahead not even making eye contact when suddenly the white guy turns his head toward the white guy and with a smile on his face reaches out his and to the black guy and say “Hello I hope you have a great morning.” The black guy see the white guy raise his hand and quickly covers his face not wanting to be slapped and walks without haste away from the white guy.
Now you would think that this is the end of our story and next comes the morals but there is one more thing that happen during this story now pay attention.
The white guy is now upset “How dare him think only because I am white that I am a racist. I have tons of black friends and my best friend is black but just because I am white I am going to slap him in the face” Angry the white guy approaches the black guy angry accusing the black guy over reverse racism saying to the Black guy. “You are the reason why we can never come together because you judge all white guys as a racist without getting to know him, how dare you to prejudge me without even knowing me. And they both walk away very angry.
 
 

5/8/2011 7:25:27 AM

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY

 

To all, present and future.

 

And for all you so called Male Doms "Call your Mother"


1/1/2009 2:20:09 PM
Punishment story 1.

The week is coming to an end and you have been a very disobedient little girl. You have been pouty, unruly and simply a brat. The weekend is nearing and you walk up to me giving me that sweet innocent look you love to display when you want your way and you ask if we can go out to the club for some dancing and fun. I look at you with no evident of a smile and simply say no and walk away. You continuely beg me to go out promising you will be a good girl if I take you out.

I think to myself "who in the Hell do you think you are saying you will be good only if I take you out dancing." You look at me and say that it was my fault you have been  bad because I never punished you. I stop and think and you are correct and than my mind begin working overtime. You should have been punished and punished you will be. I look at you and smile and tell you Saturday night we will go to the club and dance but if you step out of line even a hair i will punish you in the middle of the club for all to see. You kisses me all excited and run to your room to find something to wear.

It is now saturday and I have been coming up with a punishement that is so humiliating and so degrading that I know you will be a good girl. As we enter the club I inform you that you are not allowed to speak to anyone and if someone speak to you without me around you simply walk away, if you dance you dance alone and will not allow any guy or girl dance with you. You smile and tell me "That's my punishement? Simple." I just smile.

We walk through the club and we gossip about people, a hot guy walk by and i ask your opinion and you tell me he is yummy but you know you will not be allowed to flirt tonight because you have been bad. Another guy walks by over weight and not hot and you tell me that he does have a cute face and you bet he would be hot if he tired. As we continue to walk around you dance a few times by yourself as guys are checking you out undressing you with their eyes while you are on the dance floor and you can feel it. You beg me to flirt promising you will be a good girl and all you want is to tease a guy so e can go home and get wild. I just smile and nod my head no. Than he walk by the perfect spiecment I have been looking for, extremely overweight, sloppy, as if he does not care. i point him out to you and you look in disgust and say Yew he is disgusting and i simply smile look at you and command you to go dance with him. You stop and look at me to see wondering if I am serious, i only give you a stern look and you go up to him and ask him to dance. So there you are the hottest, the most slutty girl in the club dancing with the most disgusting guy in the club, you are not looking happy and I pull you off the floor and tell you that for the rest of the night you will act as if he is the sexiest guy in the club, you will enjoy your time with him, you will freak on him tease him and the works.

You do as I command as people continue to stare at the two of you and this guy is enjoying it. As hot guys walk by doing a double take trying to wonder why you two are together you ignore them. The disgusting guy leaves to buy you a drink and guys apparach you but by my command you turn them down and tell each hot guy that you are enjoying your time with the hottest guy in the club.

Back on the dance floor he is feeling you up, grabbing your ass with his pudgy fingers his heavy whizzing breathing on your neck and is groping you every chance that he gets. It is almost time to go and you have spent the whole night with this guy treating him like a Brad Pitt. He goes to give you his number and you look over toward me and i nod to tell you to take his number.

You take the number and come back to me begging to go home and I agree but you can not leave your date just like that so you go back give him a hug and you begin to rub your hand over his crotch making him horny as you is grinding hard on your crotch.

We leave and go home and you ask if you can take a shower and i say yes, i take his number and before you jump in the shower I tell you that if you act up one time next week, do one bad thing, refuse to listen to any of my orders i will personally call the guy and make you have sex with him with the lights on and allow him to do whatever he wants.

next week you are such a good girl knowing what will happen now if you act up.

12/24/2008 12:14:10 PM
HAPPY YULE,

MERRY CHRISTMAS,

HAPPY KWANZA,


HAPPY HANUKKAH


HAPPY HOLIDAYS
No matter your Religous belief this is a time for family and friends, to reflect on the ones you love, of the ones that can not be here with us. Remember a Christmas tree, gift given, gift recieving, Santa Claus, Frosty the the snowman, Reindeers that fly, milk and cookies, and mistletoe none of these symbols have anything to do with any religous worship just love and togetherness, for grown ups and children.

So no matter what your Religous might be or might not be or even if you are not Religous at all just remember that Dec 25th can be so many other things than religous, so many important traditions, so many other way to say thank you for being in my life.

BLESSED BE!




12/11/2008 11:57:20 PM


R.I.P
BETTIE PAGE


1950s pinup model Bettie Page dies at 85

LOS ANGELES (AP) — Bettie Page, the 1950s secretary-turned-model whose controverisal photographs in skimpy attire or none at all helped set the stage for the 1960s sexual revolution, died Thursday. She was 85.

Page was placed on life support last week after suffering a heart attack in Los Angeles and never regained consciousness, said her agent, Mark Roesler. He said he and Page's family agreed to remove life support. Before the heart attack, Page had been hospitalized for three weeks with pneumonia.


"She captured the imagination of a generation of men and women with her free spirit and unabashed sensuality," Roesler said. "She is the embodiment of beauty.
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Page, who was also known as Betty, attracted national attention with magazine photographs of her sensuous figure in bikinis and see-through lingerie that were quickly tacked up on walls in military barracks, garages and elsewhere, where they remained for years.


Her photos included a centerfold in the January 1955 issue of then-fledgling Playboy magazine, as well as controversial sadomasochistic poses.


"I think that she was a remarkable lady, an iconic figure in pop culture who influenced sexuality, taste in fashion, someone who had a tremendous impact on our society," Playboy founder Hugh Hefner told The Associated Press on Thursday. "She was a very dear person.
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Page mysteriously disappeared from the public eye for decades, during which time she battled mental illness and became a born-again Christian.


After resurfacing in the 1990s, she occasionally granted interviews but refused to allow her picture to be taken.


"I don't want to be photographed in my old age," she told an interviewer in 1998. "I feel the same way with old movie stars. ... It makes me sad. We want to remember them when they were young.
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The 21st century indeed had people remembering her just as she was. She became the subject of songs, biographies, websites, comic books, movies and documentaries. A new generation of fans bought thousands of copies of her photos, and some feminists hailed her as a pioneer of women's liberation.


Gretchen Mol portrayed her in 2005's The Notorious Bettie Page and Paige Richards had the role in 2004's Bettie Page: Dark Angel. Page herself took part in the 1998 documentary Betty Page: Pinup Queen.


Hefner said he last saw Page when he held a screening of The Notorious Bettie Page at the Playboy Mansion. He said she objected to the fact that the film referred to her as "notorious," but "we explained to her that it referred to the troubled times she had and was a good way to sell a movie.
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Page's career began one day in October 1950 when she took a respite from her job as a secretary in a New York office for a walk along the beach at Coney Island. An amateur photographer named Jerry Tibbs admired the 27-year-old's firm, curvy body and asked her to pose.


Looking back on the career that followed, she told Playboy in 1998: "I never thought it was shameful. I felt normal. It's just that it was much better than pounding a typewriter eight hours a day, which gets monotonous.
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Nudity didn't bother her, she said, explaining: "God approves of nudity. Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, they were naked as jaybirds.
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In 1951, Page fell under the influence of a photographer and his sister who specialized in S&M. They cut her hair into the dark bangs that became her signature and posed her in spiked heels and little else. She was photographed with a whip in her hand, and in one session she was spread-eagled between two trees, her feet dangling.


"I thought my arms and legs would come out of their sockets," she said later.


Moralists denounced the photos as perversion, and Sen. Estes Kefauver of Tennessee, Page's home state, launched a congressional investigation.


Page quickly retreated from public view, later saying she was hounded by federal agents who waved her nude photos in her face. She also said she believed that, at age 34, her days as "the girl with the perfect figure" were nearly over.


She moved to Florida in 1957 and married a much younger man, as an early marriage to her high school sweetheart had ended in divorce.


Her second marriage also failed, as did a third, and she suffered a nervous breakdown.


In 1959, she was lying on a sea wall in Key West when she saw a church with a white neon cross on top. She walked inside and became a born-again Christian.


After attending Bible school, she wanted to serve as a missionary but was turned down because she had been divorced. Instead, she worked full-time for evangelist Billy Graham's ministry.


A move to Southern California in 1979 brought more troubles.


She was arrested after an altercation with her landlady, and doctors who examined her determined she had acute schizophrenia. She spent 20 months in a state mental hospital in San Bernardino.


A fight with another landlord resulted in her arrest, but she was found not guilty because of insanity. She was placed under state supervision for eight years.


"She had a very turbulent life," Todd Mueller, a family friend and autograph seller, told The Associated Press on Thursday. "She had a temper to her.
"

Mueller said he first met Page after tracking her down in the 1990s and persuaded her to do an autograph signing event.


He said she was a hit and sold about 3,000 autographs, usually for $200 to $300 each.


"Eleanor Roosevelt, we got $40 to $50. ... Bettie Page outsells them all," he told The AP last week.


Born April 22, 1923, in Nashville, Page said she grew up in a family so poor "we were lucky to get an orange in our Christmas stockings.
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The family included three boys and three girls, and Page said her father molested all of the girls.


After the Pages moved to Houston, her father decided to return to Tennessee and stole a police car for the trip. He was sent to prison, and for a time Betty lived in an orphanage.


In her teens she acted in high school plays, going on to study drama in New York and win a screen test from 20th Century Fox before her modeling career took off.


12/5/2008 3:53:20 PM
My list is complete

First we all know that half of the women on here are fakes with fake pics trying to scam man and women into sending them money.

First for you scammers out there if you are a guy you should learn some basic female fact and about the pics you use.

The main one is Breast size, if you can not answer a simple female question when asked your breast size than you are done before you even start, and figure out the correct breast size of the models picture you are using.

Also thumbnail pictures and professional modeling pictures is another dead give away when you claim you do not have any normal everyday pictures.

Oh my list well I like to mess with the scammers and through it I have been cursed through Voodoo, even an old Hebrew curse, a Gypsy curse and now a Muslim curse I LOVE IT!

It is a shame to since there are a few real women on here looking for a real master but they get buried by so many fakes and scammers that if you are a real woman who is good looking, sexy with sexy pictures your job is harder to prove yourself.

I wonder what other group I can get to curse me and no not the wiccans because a true witch knows the three times fold law and that by cursing me they are cursing themselves three times fold.

11/30/2008 1:06:17 PM
Man can you say tired, Went to the Kress last night in Hollywood and had the best time, first walked Hollywood like always with my two girls and so some hot outfits and I was sad because if I had my little sexy slave/sub I would have had her try it on and bought it for her. We went looking for a good club, well every club was twenty dollars to enter and being a midwest boy not use to Hollywood I was like TWENTY DOLLARS lol. We went to the Kress and the front door man said if we went into the resturant first and eat than enterance to the club was free and no waiting in line with everyone else. The food so so accept for the Asian Carne Asada I bought the atmosphere was spectacular and the women Lets just say any guys in Los Angeles reading this I saw at least 7 group of just women with no guys heck the ratio was 70% women 30% men, Drinks expensive but worth it, we ate and walked down to the club and it was a meat market I had two beautiful women with me but it sucked because neither belonged to me just friends and the women in the club was all about hooking up. I danced my girls danced we all danced with each other and with other people and it was hot.

Too bad the women at the Kess are freaks but not Subs or slaves because they are some hot easy women in there.

Now all I need is a 24/7 sexy slave to dress up and take with me and show off and spoil.

11/27/2008 3:42:47 PM
He HE! This is Aupair456 and I am a switch being trained by zorn456, right now I am being shown what it is like to be a daddy's girl and loving it. I met three other daddy's girl and was told about all the meshief they get into to keep their daddy's in line. So while daddy is finishing Thanksgiving dinner I thought I'll jump on his laptop and get on his profile and say hello. He is very anal and hates stuff like this so I am sure this will annoy him. If there are any other Daddy's girl who can give me ideas please e mail me on my profile aupair456 We are doing this till Sunday and than I get my second Female sub to train on and this time I get her for 3 days and was told she is sexy so that should be fun.

11/24/2008 12:51:24 PM
A few have written me and asked me my likes well in the the vanilla world I love to write, yeah I know my grammar sucks but I love to write screenplays and no I am not one of those who believes he will one day be famous it is just an addiction of mine. I love to create new ideas and concepts, stories, and characters. I am writing two new scripts and would love to have a female sub/slave to discuss my ideas with.

At this time I am mentoring a friend and yes we are just friends she wants to be a switch but she is also not really from here and will be going back to her country soon.


10/19/2008 12:52:02 PM
"Seduce my mind, and you can have my body...Find my soul and I am forever yours"




The sub/slave who truly understand that saying is the one I have been searching for. This saying was giving to me by a very special friend who after knowing me for a few years understood what I have been looking for in a Sub/slave.

I understand some come on here to play games, some to just look and see, some come to brag about either their sub/slave or their master or mistress and than you have that rare few who actually come on here looking.

Some will say you will never find her online and others will say going out to local clubs and dungeons leaves you with limits.

All I know is 2 yrs in southern California and I have ran into more fakes than real, and the real ones have impressed me a lot.

2 yrs and I miss spoiling a sub, being proud that she is by my side, I miss spoiling a slave knowing that her mind and her body belongs to me and she is happy.

I miss waking up knowing soon my sub will be here for my pleasure, or waking up to my Slave kneeling beside my bed ready to serve me.

I miss giving my sub rewards for being good, taking her shopping, doing her favortie play time game, I miss my slave being such a good girl spoiling her taking her to the clubs giving her free reign to play and have fun to laugh as i sit back and see her smile.

SMILE! thats it, no matter how many times you cane your sub/slave no matter how many times you bind and gag them, whip them and flog them, treat them like a slut, or a princess, a daddys girl being spank, it's the smile, the smile that she gives you to show that as a Dom you are doing your job right that you are keeping her not only in her place but happy. that smile tells you she will never want to leave your side and she is yours forever.

you search for that smile you pray for that smile and when you have that smile than you know you are a real Dom and you are doing things right

10/8/2008 11:21:21 AM

Mental Domination
Most of the people on here like to explore the phyiscal aspect of the BDSM world but not many truly understand the mental aspect of it. Mental Domination is in my opinion the first step to any good sub/slave to dom/master relationship. It is great to have a sexy beautiful sub or slave and her body but with out the mental aspect you just have a shell, but if you have her mind and she is completely yours mentally than options are endless.


1/26/2008 4:32:36 AM
Being that I am also a wiccan I explore other aspects beside BDSM. This is a love making Ritual I created for a couple a while ago and it works. Not everything has to be about being mean, rough, and hard. I hope you enjoy.




LOVEMAKING SEX RITUAL

 

ITEMS

  1. Red candles (4)
  2. Incense
  3. Crystal (clear quartz)
  4. oil or lotion
  5. Music (soft instrumental)
  6. tea (adding either Damiana, or Maca Root)

 

 

When forming and opening the circle remember that the bed itself is the circle, It is where you will concentrate and focus all your energy on.

 

Ritual preparation

  1. Place the candles on each corner of the bed representing the four corners of the four directions.
  2. Place the Crystal in the middle of the bed, the crystal will represent the focal point of the energy you and your lover is rising. Storing most of the energy in the crystal.
  3. Prepare the incense placing it as close to the bed as you can. The best place is to place the incense at the head of the bed so the smell flows down toward you during the act of love making. Sometimes it is best to have two incense prepared and ready in case you need to light another.
  4. Oil is issued to rub one yourself and lover, and you can also replace the incense for Aromatherapy type oils for a stronger and more potent spell. The lotion should also be placed on the bed since it will be later used to rub on each other. The energy of the opening of the circle will also find its way inside the lotion.
  5. Classical music is always a good choice if you can not find pagan music. Never use a more up to date music or anything to hard or fast.
  6. The tea is used during the Ritual and is optional depending if you have the correct herbs to make the tea. The tea is optional but if used will heighten the sexual experience.
  7. The most important step is to make sure there is nothing around to distract you. No phones no anything. Must be a please you both feel comfortable and at peace in. Quiet with the only sound you hear is the music that is playing.

  

 

 

THE RITUAL

Before the Ritual begins you start the music makes sure the CD is at least 3 hours long if not more.

 

 

 

The male stands at the head of the bed and the woman stands at the foot of the bed. You both close your eyes and meditate on the evening and vision how it will happen from the beginning to the end.

 

FIRST CANDLE: as the male lights the first candle. “I call upon the Earth to stabilize our energies to ground us as we begin this new adventure.

SECOND CANDLE: The Female lights it. “I call upon water to purify our minds, our bodies, and our soul.”

THIRD CANDLE: The female lights “I call upon Air as it Moves us with every motion that we take. To Guide us in this Ritual.

FOURTH CANDLE The male “I call upon Fire to empower us both with with the energies of the pleasures we wish to experience.”

 

As the candles burns feel the heat that they give of watch as the energy of the Opening of the ritual goes into the Clear quartz that is laying in the middle of the bed.

 

Optional: If you prepared to the tea before entering the circle both of you drink from the tea. Use a shot class or an espresso cup to pour the tea in. Before the ritual even begin get together and drink a cup of the tea to get you use to the taste so you are not shocked with the taste. Also if you drink the tea an hour before the ritual begins it will give it time for the aphrodisiac of the tea to take place. The drinking of the tea during the ritual is more symbolic use.

 

After meditating of the purpose of the ritual both of you enter the circle. On your knees, while looking at each other while positioning yourselves in the middle of the crystal. Claps your hands together and while staring in each other eyes meditate on the crystal feeling the flow of the energy between you.

 

MALE: pick up the crystal and have the woman lay on her back flat in the middle of the circle. Move the crystal up and down her body. Start at the head and work your way down making sure that you hit every spot including the breast and her other private areas. Do not actually have the crystal touch her, have it just close enough to her so she can feel the energy.

 

MALE: Turn the woman on her stomach and grab the lotion or oil and gently massage it on her body. Do not kneed it but caress her body as you massage it into her. Start from her neck, massaging her arms, fingers, her legs, thighs, her inner thighs, and even her foot.

 

 

During the massage remember this massage is more erotic then to get out kinks. As you massage your partner kiss areas of her back inner thigh, and even fingers lightly and smoothly, this direct contact helps with the simulation needed and helps bring more of your energies inside her.

 

FEMALE: Optional to reciprocate the massage is optional and the order might be in reverse. If the intent of the ritual is pointed toward only the woman then only the male will give the massage. If the woman is performing the ritual in order to concentrate on her man then everything is reverse and only the woman will give the massage. If this is a mutual ritual then the woman in turn will give the male a massage in return.

 

After the massage is complete, it is time for the pledge. The pledge is not to be written out or to be memorized. The pledge should be something that comes from your heart at that very moment. It can consist of pledging your everlasting love toward your partner, or pledging to give this evening your all and to freely give your body to your partner for this ritual.

 

After the pledge comes the actual act of lovemaking. The male will grab the Crystal and as he lay the woman on her back to begin he will place the crystal in her hand as she holds the crystal. You can also use a string to make a necklace with the crystal and place it around her neck.

 

Now for the male remember one thing, this is an act of lovemaking not just sex. So you want to keep your movement slow and deep, not fast and hard. It is time to lose the ego and think you have something to prove, it is time to bring both of the bodies together as one. So with slow but deep strokes is the way to go in this ritual. Also do not forget about a little foreplay before actual having sex, oral giving and receiving. Different positions is also a very good idea in this process and also remember for the male, while making love to the woman watch her body and her facial expressions. Through this it will help you determine what she likes best and you use that to give her the pleasure she is looking for. If you noticed something you do has given her more pleasure then continue that and even go back to it later on in the process.

 

Once the act of love making is complete, lie together and once again explore each others body gently caressing each other staring in each other eyes, looking back at everything that has just transpired.

 

Close the circle by thank each element and the goddess for the strength and for her blessings.

 

BOTH: WE THANK YOU GODDESS AS WE CLOSE THIS CIRCLE, BUT WE WILL ALWAYS KEEP THE FEELINGS AND PLEASURES WE EXPERIENCE TODAY CLOSE TO OUR HEARTS, AS WE KEEP YOU CLOSE TO OUR HEARTS.

 

Remember never blow out the candles and when you are done with the crystal put it in a special place, for it now stores the sexual energies of the both of you together.

 


1/13/2008 12:49:29 PM
This is a rant about southern cali, and my time on collarme. First do not get me wrong but I love being on here and made some great long distance friends so to speak, my problem is all of the fakes on here saying they are looking for one thing but find out they are either a bot or looking not for a Dom but a quick buck.

I moved to southern cali and noticed the same thing. In northern cali the women was about finding a real Dom a real man who will keep his word and is true to it. Who can supply them the release they have been looking for.

Here in Southern cali I have gone to the clubs, and the dungeoons and notice some beautiful subs and also noticed it is mainly about the money. When I see them with their Dom and the guy knows nothing about the lifestyle but can buy all of the equipment because he has a lot of money it makes me sad.

Yes i have money, yes I have a house a car and all of that, but I wanted a sub who is true to the lifestyle and not one looking for money, cause money can not buy loyalty only short term.

I am now done with my rant and sorry but I speak what I see and what I have observed, I know many will be upset but remember one thing about me, I do not preach through ignorance i preach through knowledge.

I spent a year here just observing just like I did in Northern cali and observation shows what I just say.

If there are any true subs out there hit me up, not to hook up just to chat I want to find out more whats is in your head, and what you really believe the lifestyle is about.

thank you.

10/28/2007 1:32:01 AM

                            PROPERTY


A common word used in the lifestyle a lot, when referring to ones slave and even sub alot of Doms refer them as their property. Then I see Doms disrespect their slaves and subs and then say they are your property and does not deserve your respect.

Well lets look deep into this subject.
One day someone offers you for free your dream car. it might be one of those italian $100,000 numbers built for speed, so of course you are going to take it out, push it to its limit on the freeway when traffic is not bad. The car was built for that, but you are not going to swerve in and out of traffic with the possability of causing a wreck and damage your prize piece of machine. When you get home you are going to inspect it making sure it is still shinning, take out that rag and wipe down certain areas making sure it looks good.
On weekends you break out the hose and give it a nice long wash making sure it is spick and span, give it a nice coat of wax, and not that cheap stuff the expensive wax. You make sure it gets its tune up and when it comes to oil you do not want the cheap stuff you ask for the highest quality oil cause your car is worth it, getting gas you use to buy the regular unleaded cheap gas for your old car but not this one, you want the $4.00 stuff (trust me in Cali it will hit $4.00.

Now remember this car is owned by you, it is your property and you are going to worship and cherish it as such. Its a sports car so you are not going to take it off roading through mud and bumps through the forest. You won't do that.

Now a Sadist who loves pain wants a maschocist who loves giving pain, and if you owned a heavy duty truck made for off roading of course you will take it off roading but when you get home what is the first thing you do. A. Kiss your wife hello, B. go inside and take a nap or C. wash your truck. Most folks will say C. wash your baby, your property, you are not disrespecting it most trucks need a little off roading.

Now lets try something else like the family pet, Your dog that you have had now for 5 years, that you got ever since he or she was a puppy, You are going to take her her/him for walks, buy her/him the best brand of dog food for longer lasting life, Play with her/him every day when it is bed time most owners have their dogs sleep on the bed with them for night night, you will take her/him to the Vet get their shots and when the Vet say your dog needs a $500 operation or he/she will die you find the money starve for a few days and get that surgery. A member of the family but you still own that dog and the dog is still your property. A real man is not going to take it dog fighting, not feed it for days, or beat on the dog just because you had a rough day, you are going to cherish your property, treat it almost as if its one of your kids.

If you own your own house you are going to keep it up, make sure it looks good on the inside and outside, You want the best cell phone on the market or the one with the best features for yourself, and when you get it you are not going to drop it every day or not use the features, you get a 60 inch flat monitor T.V. you are going to dust it every day get the best surround sound system invites your firends over and show of your beautiful piece of property. You are not going to throw food at it or let others do so, you are going to but a Xbox 360 and play Halo 3 in all its HD 60 inch beauty.

Everything I mention the other aspect is you are going to be so proud of it you want it to look so good so you can show it off to firends, people have those house warming parties to show off their new house. You are going to try and impress other women with your new car and make other guys jealous, some might let guys sit in it and feel the splendor.

So their you have it, when you call a slave or sub your property think about how you treat your other piece of property How well you keep up with it.

You want a hot slave/sub to show off and be proud of as guys gawk over her just like that $100,000 dollar car.

you want others to ask you where did you meet such an elegant creature like when you play with your cell phones feature and have everyone stare and be in awe like the new I phone.

You want people to stop and ask Whjat kind of dog is she/he and how beautiful and well behave he/she is. Asking if she is having a littter or if he can be a stud. like you want people to admire how well behave your slave/sub is and wanting to know if she has any female slave/sub friends.

If she is into pain give her pain, if she like public humilation humilate her, but of she is not it is not for you to make her into something she is not.

As the saying goes you are not going to drive off the lot with the first car you see, you will test drive them sll see whichs ones feel good in your hands.

I believe in having my own property as a slave/sub but I also believe I should spoil her, dress her up sexy and hot and make her shin.
So now i need a new piece of propert.


8/23/2006 4:40:26 PM
It's funny, I have been recieving so much flack about my statement saying how i will not send a sub money. They call me rude, but it is so funny that I have had 5 subs before then swearing they want to be owned by me but they needed me to send them money for gas, then I have found from over 15 Doms on here that they recieved the same e mail. I am not rude but i am not going to get conned. I know there are some real subs/slaves truly looking to hook up and need help to relocate. well think about it on our end. We say yes and find out we got conned, we trust someone again and get conned. All i am saying is if a woman is looking to be my sub/slave and live with me 24/7. that means i am going to be taking care of you finacially so why can you not pay for the trip yourself. I want someone who is into the lifestyle not someone who is just looking for a way out . Sorry i am not rude just tired of fakes calling me rude.

8/22/2006 11:10:01 PM
I use to own alot of equipmewnt and toys. I use to buy the expensive fancy stuff thinking that is what made me a Dom. My place looked like a true dungeon I thought I was the man. Then I went out and met alot of Doms who also had all of these fun toys, but I noticed they did not know what being a true Dom was. I have had people warn me about alot of others in california saying they are not true Doms they just bought the equipment.

So I made a choice, I got rid of all my equipment and went to thrift stores and other places and bought my own equipment that did not cost thousands of dollars. Its been great I ent back to Basics and I loved it. I finally felt like a true Dom and funny I have been doing this now for years. I found out it is not the equipment that makes me a Dom its the attitude, the mentality, and the creative mind.
 
We are nothing without our subs/slaves and they are lonely without us. Together we become a part of something some does not understand and others admires. so with my new saying.

Heal the world not your ego!

8/22/2006 11:03:33 PM
Who am I? Well let me clear something up for everyone. I like to be different go against the norm. I am not a sadist, I am not Gorean, I am what I call a pleasurist. I know whats a pleasurist? I get pleasure knowing the sub/slaves are enjoying themselves that they are recieving pleasure. I do not get off giving pain to someone but if a Sub/Slave isd a masochist and they enjoy pain then i get pleasure giving them that pain, cause I know for every scream they utter they are enjoying it. I do not get off just Humilating someone, but I had a sub tell me how she gets off on Humilation being degraed how much it makes her wet. So I got off hunilating her knowing she is enjoying it knowing that is what she likes. BDSM is not about hurting someone its should not be about the Dom only, without sub/slaves we would be nothing. If someone enjoys inflicting pain that is good but when they want to inflict pain to a sub/slave that does not enjoy it that is not part of them then i think its sick and wrong. So that is what a pleasurist, every sub that comes to my house we sit and talk outside she is not allowed inside, after i find out her likes and dislikes her taboos then i give her the choice to enter or leave, so far nobody has left and many has come back.

6/7/2006 1:57:16 PM
New rant! I have met some really nice people on this site, mostly Doms and They got me thinking. See some was upset baout what I said about a Slabe/Sub having the power, I never understood why until I did what they told me to do. I went through and read alot of profiles and I thought WOW! are there any true slaves on this site. See I read you must be white, you must be a certain ager, you must be black, you must be a female, you must be a male, you must allow me to do this, you must allow me to do that. What the Heck!
See I went to a slave auction once and they did something totally different, see they gave the slaves 3 hours of freedom able to speak there mind and let me tell you the result. 1 slave said she does not want to be owned by anyone 10 years her elder. well she was 26 and was bought by a 43 yr old. they are still together and happy. 3 slaves wanted only a white master never been around any other race, well 2 was bought by black masters and 1 by an asian master. My favorite one is 1 said she was a lesbian and only wanted a woman well guess what she was bought by a man.
When I look at these profiles and see these list of what they do want and do not want, I noticed it has nothing to do with the BDSM lifestyle but more about he or she must be this age, he or she must be this height, he or she must be this nationailty.
If you are a show pony and you meet someone who has had many show ponies and has everything you want in a master when it comes to show ponies, then screw what color he is how old he is how tall he is, he is what you are looking for. If you are a masochist and a man comes around that is the perfect color, perfect age perfect look but he is not a sadist and does not believe in pain then guess what he is not for you.

Everyone here is more superfiscial and does not understand the true mentality of being a slave.
I am going to qoute a comic book before you laugh really listen to what it is saying.
"With great power comes great responsabilty."
Yes spiderman, but what does that mean simple. Yes you slaves have the power on this site but take the responsiabilty that comes with this power.
If you want to be that picky with looks, age, color, height, and sex, then change your profile from slave to sub.
All I am saying is if there is someone out there who holds all your same interests in the lifestyle if he or she is your perfect match then accept him/she as your master screw all the rest.
Good luck to all the slaves out there who is truly searching for that perfect master and not looking at looks but more with personailty.

5/22/2006 5:26:19 PM
Today in the chatroom a person asked about love in a master/slave relationship and is it necessary and possible. Well I did alot of thinking about that and what i have experienced in the lifestyle.
Now the word love is the one word with maybe the most meaning ever. you can be in love with someone, or love your brother or sister, or how you love your best friend, or the love of a mother for their child. Even you can love a stranger for what they have done like Martin luther king Jr. so with that i believe the answer is YES! in someway the word love need to be there, just not the typical love most people think. A master i believe need to have some type of love for its slave in order to have her or him. without that love then he or she will just become more abusive and uncaring and go somewhere else and neglate the slave. NO! you do not need to be in love. but love in the form of respect.

I love my car so i wash it every weekend. give it a coat of wax. i am not in love with my car.
But through the love i have i want to make sure my car looks its best.

I love my dog and NO! i am not into beastilaty my dog is like my child i give her baths make sure she has food she sleeps in my bed at night. we go for walks, i take her out to play with her. so that is another form of love i have but like a slave when i call my dog she comes i tell my dog to sit she sits. And sorry if you take offense to using an animal but alot of people treat their animals better then they do humans.

But it is just the point you need love in some form in order to own a slave, on this website a slave does not just jump and get collared to the first Master or Mistress that talks to them, the Slave talkes to all and ppicks the right person to serve. so in that case their is a chance for love in the eyes of a slave.

5/22/2006 4:31:46 PM

What does master and slave truly mean to me in the lifestyle. Well first off I am writing this in the male master female slave point of view only because well I am a male. There are female masters female mistresses and I have no right talking on their point of view me not being a female myself.

 

Now first lets clear one thing up. A majority of people who finds the master slave relationship disgusting and degrading does so because of American history. Yes Salvery. But you must realize this is something totally 100% different and I will touch on that in a minute.

 

In my way of training there are two aspects of the master ad slave relationship. There is the power and then there is the pleasure. So who has the power and who has the pleasure, well really think about that cause the answer is not as obvious as you might think.

The pleasure aspect is of the master why? Cause he receives pleasure from watching his slave perform for him. He receive pleasure when she obeys his orders. I remember the look in the eyes of my first slave whenever I told her she has pleased me. It was not a look of shock, horror, pr pain. It was a look of joy accomplishment, and love. She loved the fact that she pleased me. She loved the fact that I just received pleasure watching her.

 

Now who has the power. Well for all the slaves out there read this carefully. You do the slave has all the power. Why? Simple you decided to be a slave to choose to give your self to your master  he did not force you too it is a lifestyle you decided you wanted. And with out you he would be just some lonely guy who can not get a date. Without the Slave he goes from being the Master to Pathetic.  Out here I have seen guys older, fat, beer belly calling themselves masters with a beautiful slave. They treat them like crap because they want power. I then see the Slave realize he Is not a good master and walk away and now the guy is a lonely slob who must beg to get a date

 

So men Worship your Slave in the way she deserves to be worshiped. If you had a very expensive car a Jag or a Lamborghini you would worship it. Wash it everyday give it a coat of wax to make sure that car look DAMN! Good. You would not let anything happen to that car and you would not let just anyone if any drive her.  That car has power over you because it is what gets you the ladies, without it you would be driving a hooptie.

 

Like Sex the guy is on top he is in charge right he has the power being on top the woman on the bottom nope! Because without her on the bottom you would be just jerking off. And he being on the bottom is giving you pleasure.

 

Now the difference in the term master and slave. I am half Black so please I am not looking for a race debate it will not be tolerated I hate Racism. But see the Blacks was forced into slavery, forced from their land to work in the United States. They werent paid lived in very bad living arrangements. That is the way foks see this but it is not the same cause a Slave must give herself to the master under her own free will She must enjoy working for the master. And the master must give her everything it takes to keep her beautiful and well taken care of.

 

So To wrap it up when I say I am looking for a new slavew to be in my life. I am not looking for Power cause you as my Slave will have that. I am looking for the pleasure.

I have seen guys using BDSM in clubs in order to have sex. I have rented many BDSM videos and not once have I seen anyone have sex in them. And every guy I see doing so is old out of shape.

 

So if I offended anyone OH WELL I am not here to be your friend. If you guys who read this think I am a Jerk GOOD! Then get a life and listen.  If you have a slave who loves Pain and Humilation then you are lucky and if you give that to them then yes you are a good master cause that is what he wants. But if you have a slave only to prove your manhood then you need your manhood cut off YEAH I WENT THERE.

 

Master and slave relationship should be beautiful and consenting by both.

 

Thank you for reading and Bright Blessings.


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MistressRaea
 
 Age: 33
 Philadelphia, Pennsylvania