I am, safe, sane and consensual. I believe in negotiated situations. I am NOT a passive sort of man. I am very mater of fact and dislike repeating myself. I can be aggressive. But, NO is always, no. Do not say it if you don't mean it. I am affectionate within the confines of this lifestyle. I am NOT a "boyfriend". I am strict and demanding, yet fair. At my age I am not going to suffer fools and flakes. I am real and have lived my entire adult life in this lifestyle. Be true to yourself and be forthcoming in honesty. Ask questions, if you need straight answers.

I am well known and respected in the lifestyle.

I have Fostered and Mentored, many.

If you're curious...

DON'T just sit there and wonder..