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First of all, I am a fairly shy person who is uncomfortable posting photos on a public bdsm site. If we start a successful conversation I would be happy to provide some pictures ***
I am an independent person who does not want to be part of someone else's dream. I would like to believe that it is possible to engage in this kind of relationship and keep the bedroom separate from everyday life. Some things about my personality. I am curious person who enjoys new experiences and likes to think about why things are the way they are. I love to learn/explore and am always looking for opportunities to expand my list of skills. I try to constantly challenge myself and avoid getting stuck in a rut. I do not fear failure and can handle disappointment. With all of that being said, I really am a relaxed and easygoing individual who knows how to stop and listen. I am happily employed in a field that is interesting (at least to me!) and intellectually challenging. ***
I have never had a bdsm relationship before, but am turned on by the idea of teasing and orgasm denial along with surprise ruined orgasms. I have never tried chastity but am curious and would be willing to give it a shot. I have lurked for years on milovana.com fantasizing about the teases and would like to try it for real. I am looking for a sustained relationship with a real life element. Note:
Although the idea of light cbt excites me, I plan on having children someday and would not want to risk permanent damage.
xoYourBlackQueen