wolfinstein on Collarspace

12/9/2005 4:38:04 PM

There is one thing that people do that irritate Me more than anything else in the world. When someone accuses Me of LYING. I was essentially accused of that by someone I considered a prime candidate who possessed the characteristics for which I am looking in a sub, when I contacted her and requested she read my profile. The following is an exact transcript of O/our dialogue (misspelled words and all): ___________________________________ Me: Read My profile. her: thank you but i am not into poly situations and also i am small and a big black dick would be more than would fit comfortably in me. ake care, bee :) Me: Where did you get the idea of a poly situation. I am looking for mono 24/7. As far as BBC, ou really ought try it before you dismiss it. A pic would be nice. her: I got the idea of poly from your profile. You "trained" married women, and in your second-to-last paragraph, you say you are looking for submissive females. Bee Me: Well I will have to change that to A submissuve Female. her: The fact that you ever chose "switch women" as an option shows me you're not a Dominant, but just looking for kinky sex. And that's cool, but don't claim to be Dominant, Hon. ;) Me: Where in the world did you get the idea that I choose switch women. I have scened with switches before and shared My knowledge with them, but never in a relationship. You nust have Me confused with someone else. her: I don't have you confused with anyone else. You state that you want a relationship. You also (in your profile - go take a look) state you want submissive women or switch women. What did you think a switch was going to do with you? You guys' relationship would be you are in charge for one day, then she is. And you know, if that's your thing, more power to you, but I could NEVER be with a man like that. Bee Me: Ok, I took a look at My profile from the edit screen while logged in. There was nothing in there about seeking a switch. I brought up another page and searched for My name as an anonymous user to view it like you would view it and again there was nothing about switch. I don't know what you are looking at but switch is not on My profile. So if you continue seeing erroneous info you might ought to report it to the webmaster. If you wish to talk about something else I am open to conversation with you. her: You're an idiot. You took it out. It was there. I checked before I hit "send." You're a jackass and a man with no honor. I want nothing to do with you. Don't write back because I don't wanna hear it and I won't open your letter anyway. Good luck to you, and think twice about honesty and integrity next time you have a decent slave in your hands. Bee ____________________________________ I could have, maybe even should have but, I did not respond to her last message, but I did not take it well. The thing that I am most upset about is that I was accused of lying. In a D/s relationship, absolutely the MOST important elements are honest and trust. To have no HONESTY means NO relationship. To have no TRUST means the same. And it should be. I have been in this lifestyle for 10 years, and have had several relationships where My subs and I had the most honest and intimate relationships I have ever experienced. None of the relationships I had in the vanilla world came remotely close to the honest intimacies I shared in the D/s world. And I was married twice. I did not have on My profile what she stated. I did not change anything on My profile since I finally added My pic and some narrative and it was approved last week. That was the first and last time I put anything in My profile. I can understand the disappointments a lot of people in here have experienced with the dishonesty and deceit they realized in the people they decided to trust. I just want A/all of you to know: NOT EVERYONE ON THIS SITE LIES. One more thing: I definitely don't lie.