I will be in Los Angeles this week from 11/15 to 11/17 (Thursday through Saturday). Let me know if you want real life training. Write me ASAP!

Vintage porn: http://tinyurl.com/9fcpazs

It would have been hot, if it wasn't for the fact that I can't stop laughing at how serious the acting is, while performing boring sex acts, and dressed in 90's fashion...

Hmmm...I guess kids will find me dated in 20 years...

Someone wrote me an idiot fanmail, complimenting me and irritating me at the same time:

"your pics are so hot i want to bow down to you.are you real?"

I replied:

No. I'm fake :p

Use your brain for thinking, not to blowing it like snot on first impression. Capisce stupido?

Ask Winged Siren:  Hello all. I hope you are enjoy your weekend...A newbie asked me about the site and I decided to share my (edited) response to you all. I hope it helps.

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Question: "Hi there Wingedsiren, I'd love to learn more about you and perhaps setup a session. I'm new on Collarme and already finding it hard to really connect with anyone here. I'd love to hear back from you..."

My response:

Hi xxx,

All the women that I've interacted on here are probably males pretending to be women or cops. I ask them to go on webcam to show me that they are who they say they are, none have been willing. I've only met ONE female from this site, a prodomme. On the other hand, I've met over 100 real life male submissives or slave. Some of them have become my friend for many years. I'm still waiting to meet another real girl off of this site. That would be girl #2.

I am here for you, if you seek real one-on-one training. If you wish to seek a real relationship with a professional as myself, let me know. Otherwise, go to public parties at the Citadel and hopefully connect with real people.

Last advice: Listen to your gut feeling. Beware of crazy people and fakers.

Here are some websites to connect with real people. Collarme has censored out the some of the weblinks so I cannot tell you of alternative sites:

http://www.bdsm.com/

http://sfthecitadel.tribe.net/

www.bondage.com

Best of luck,

The Winged Siren

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I met someone in real life last week, whom I've met on collarme. He was a very sweet and sincere boy. There are real and serious kinksters on collarme. Don't be discouraged about the site. You'll find someone to meet and play with...

Good luck.

Have you been chastized today? If you haven't been humbled, sweetly berated on how to ask polite questions to a transsexual, you are required by Mistress Siren to watch this video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOjeZnjKlp0

I LOVE vintage photography, especially when it's about BDSM!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=idLBKm5ErAk

I love this article about what real love is. It's also shows how you can come to terms with being different and loving yourself for it.

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/man-admitted-hospital-kidney-stone-discovers-hes-woman-110057308--abc-news-health.html

Jeminijune wrote me a sonnet! You are so sweet, Jeminijune!

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"This is a Sonnet I'm attempting to write,

Mistakes in the past that I just want to fix,

Thoughts of this lady keeps me up through the night,

The most beautiful, divine, dominatrix.

There isn't anything that I wouldn't do,

Massage her back or lay at her feet,

What ever it will takes for a rendezvous,

How can I earn this honor and chance to meet?"

Someone just asked me why I don't have pix of women on my profile, even though I am looking for women to play with. Here's my response:

"I do enjoy women, but they don't approach me as often as men. I'd say for every real woman I've met or chatted with, I've met or chatted with 1,000 men. I've never met a submissive or switchy woman on this site...EVER."

I've received a few emails asking how to become a Professional Dominatrix. There are classes on how to be a professional dominatrix. Here's some links:

http://mistressamanda.com/node/39

http://www.discoverbdsmslavetraining.com/Dominatrix.htm

http://www.bdsmtrainingacademy.com/category/dominatrix-training/

http://www.sm-arts.com/

Hope that helps.

This is why I don't like public humiliation...It's a great idea...but the execution of it is very risky.

http://weirdnews.about.com/od/weirdphotos/ig/Weird-Crime-Mug-Shots/Man-Arrested-for-Sex-With-Car.htm

I will be posting fan mail from now on. I've enjoyed my fan mails immensely and I want to share them with you.

Fan mail# 1:

Working so hard, I'm not even on collarme, except to comminicate with my favorite subs.

I am too busy working hard and playing hard!

Working hard or hardly working:

If it looks like a Domme is not working hard enough, then she's not doing a good a job.

I've met a man who has been see many Mistresses for 15 years. He has never experience power exchange nor anal orgasms...until 15 years later...with me.

On Dominating Men...

Here's what I think dominating a man is like:

Think of it this way. Imagine a bull and bullfighter. The time it takes to bring down the bull is arduous and draining to both. I am the bullfighter and you are the bull. To breakdown a man into submission and turn him into a slave is very, very, very hard work. Emotionally, physically, and psychically.

I'm small and petite and most men are bigger than me. Often they are twice my weight and sometimes a foot or more taller. The size and ratio is similar to that of the bull to the bullfighter.

Men are bred to be dominant by today's society, which is mainly patriarchal, to defend the home, to bring home livelihood, to go to war, to be a leader, and to set an example. Being brought up this way, the boy does not have a chance to cry, surrender, and be submissive. It's not part of the social training.

To help a man become a submissive or a slave is very hardwork, indeed. I think more so than when a man dominates a woman. He has the advantage of cultural influence that imprints that man is in charge, man rules, man must be obeyed...

To change a man, I must change and reverse culturally imprinted behavior and teachings. I must break that in myself and in him and reverse the role. That is where power exchange is created, like smashing an atom, this energy is created when our minds transcend to a new level of awareness and being. I am the dominant and he the submissive.

Perhaps that's why there are so few women who become a femdomme...It's hard to do. It takes a rebellious, independent, curious, and will woman to do this. I've heard of men turning their girlfriends and wives onto this. I've heard of dumb and moronic women who can do this. I've heard of female victims, who learn to empower themselves and become this.

It's not necessarily true that a woman needs to have good ethics, intelligence or be dominant to be a domme. However, I do think having judicious ethics, intelligence and being naturally dominant makes a domme stand out from other dommes. This makes her Alpha domme as compare to Beta dommes.

~WS~

Addendum:

A man asked me a very good question.

He asked in his own words, do I get a rush out of forcing a submissive/slave into submission or do I take it forcefully.

Here is my reply:

Great questions! In regards to the power trip and rush, I allow it only between a willing and able man who is ready to submit. It's kind of like gardening. The farmer cultivates the plants. The goal is to cultivate thriving, lush flowers, fruit and vegetables. Both the farmer and the plant must do it's part well to get the best end result.

Submission is like plucking a fruit or flower. You only do that when it is ready for the plucking and harvest. Most of the time, people are not ready for it. That is why most people who play in real life are in they're late 20's and on. BDSM is about dominance and submission. Kids don't really grasp that until older. 

I cannot take what's not given to me, which is his or her submission. I only do this when the person's submission is ready for the picking. I'm sure I can force it out of them and many want that, but I don't. I believe in good karma, force of that nature eventually earns you a lot of bad karmic points. I've heard of many tales of "dominants gone bad". Some are ostracized by the community. Others turn cold and bitter from the lack of morals. And some get jail sentences when their sub or slave file charges against them.

Anyone can be dominated and turned into a slave or victim. Look at Guantanemo or the brutal third world, where genital mutilation, burqas, sharia law, forced marriages, genocide, and war rapes occur. One can manufacture these. It's a social role. It can be done with loving care and kindness as I do, or it can be forced like into that role through harsh means.

Again, submissiveness and slavishness is a role. It is a dynamic part of everyone, like the north and south of a magnet. Everyone has it. That's why it takes mature players to understand how to play. Another requirement is that in consensual kinky play, I require a sub or slave to allow me to dominate him or her. Otherwise, I feel like a brutal dictator. I'm not really into that, only sometimes and only when the boy or girl begs me to be ;)

Winged Siren's news commentary:

Ummm...I've heard of people donating their spare kidney or part of their liver, but this article said that an anonymous woman donated her face, hands, and other tissues to this mauled victim. Any comments?

@_@

See link:  http://health.yahoo.net/news/s/nm/us_usa_transplant_face

One of collarme submissive wrote this in response to my post:

I know i have my donor card with me and if someone could use my fugly mug after i am dead more power to then use any part those organs go bad faster than warm milk... and my children are aware of my wishes and would allow it no hesitation..

My Happy Boys....

The boys that I've played with recently wrote a lovely notes to me and I want to share it with you.

Email from boy #1:

just wanted to send a quick note - i did have an orgasm this morning - it was nothing like the one that You gave me - and i honestly felt a little disappointed - but i know that there is nothing that i have felt in the world like what i felt with You - Your are a true gift - i feel like life has, in part, many new meanings and i only hope that it can continue.

Email from boy #2:

Thank you for a memorable evening, Lady Elle. My body is still in euphoria. Hope tonsee you soon.

Email from boy #3:

As far as the session was concerned, I think you executed perfectly. I think I even got an extra benefit from your manipulation of my Qi energy, I noticed my skin was a healthy color afterwards and I slept well last night. I should have been able to take the electro longer, and at a higher level, but I think I experienced some surface burning by forgetting the electro gel. The gel allows the electrostimulation to penetrate deeper into the tissue layers. Yeah I know, now who's the dum, dum! I also wished I remembered that foot worship can include massaging them. I recommend massages with sheer stockings on as you'll be able to feel the massage energy yet I'll have the ideal friction to knead your muscles. Massage oil, only the best for you, on bare skin also works. If it's something you like to experience, let me know as I think I might even impress you ;-)

Email from boy #4:

Thank you for your time, your truly professional demeanor and patience.

Your ball bondage was impressive as was the way you spanked them and your restraint, letting me see only a glimpse of your sexy panties. I hope it was entertaining for you.

I received a message from a lovely person. He wrote me an email in the form of a poem. So sweeeeeet! *big smile*

Such a woman so fair, I shall look I shall stare

Upon her form will I lock my glare, and a few words to add here and there

Though I know not of her face, I am certain it carries the same grace

Of such a woman so fair, yes I will look and I will stare

Not marrying for the money...marrying to be dominated???

I just saw this cute article on Yahoo News and wondered why this cute middle aged man wants to marry an old prune. She's worth about $850 million to $5 billion. She's giving it all away to her children and grandchildren, just so that she can marry her boytoy. He is 24 years her junior and quite cute and she's quite a dog, albiet a regal and dominant-looking one.

See the couple's photo:   http://tinyurl.com/3gtfyg5

Her children and grandchildren do not think Alphonso Diez wants to marry her for love. They think he wants to marry her for money or attention. Well, she's giving $850 million away to her children so what is the reason behind the marriage? The bride, Maria del Rosario Cayetana Alfonsa Victoria Eugenia Francisca Fitz-James Stuart y de Silva, aka the Duchess of Alba of Spain, is marry for love and so is Alphonso Diez.

I think it is because she is a Dominant and he is her submissive. Sometimes love is blind, but it is more intensely so when it is between Dominants and submissives. I've seen plenty of beautiful submissives, collared and owned by BBW's, super BBW's, ancient Dominants, or ugly ones.

Alphonse Diez is NOT marrying her for her money as she won't have any and is NOT marrying her for her looks. That's why I asked myself, "What could he possible see in him/her?". That's why it lead me to suspect that they enjoy a D/s relationship. That's my opinion and it may not be right, but it would explain that he may love her for her dominant nature, more than her looks.

If you truly want to have a lifestyle or D/s relationship, you may find that your dominant may not be the most beautiful person in the world, but rather the most beautifully dominant person to you. This can be the same in reverse, where a dominant falls for submissive, who is not the prettiest or sexiest or smartest submissive.

Here's a detailed article:   http://tinyurl.com/3hxfuyj

Good luck to the happy couple!

Bad Kinky Pick-up Line...

On collarme, you can see who's viewing your profile page. We all enjoy that feature. Atl least I do, bad for .com. They suck because they don't have that feature.

Anyway, a boy and I have been checking each other's profile out, like as if we would at the bar. In a bar, you'd make eye contact and sip, then make eye contact, again. On collarme, you'd check them out and then see if they check you out on the "Who's Viewing Me" page. Well, he decided to write me a pick up line.

It goes like this:

thank You kindly for checking me out, i'm flattered :) What's a beautiful Lady from San Fran doing roaming around in the great city of Angels?

Respectfully Yours,

XXXX

Here's my reply:

Oh, dear...you need a gag in your mouth and leather mits over your hands. That's such an awful kinky pick-up line? In fact, I'm gonna post it on my journal! ^_^

*poke*

~WS~

Addendum:  Here's a response, I made afterwards to another email about this post about bad pick-up lines. The reason why it's so bad is because there is a lack of meaning or sincerity behind the line. OR even worse, that it is truly meant by the "giver" of the pick-up of the line to a "receiver" of the pick-up line they JUST became acquainted with. It makes the person seem horny, desperate, and pathetic.

My cuckhold, chaste boy suffers happily.

Everyday, I receive a report from my overseas boy, reporting to me on how he feels, what he thinks, and what he does during these days of imprisonment. He has been wearing a CB6000 on my cock for 15 days (over two weeks).

Another boy wrote me, saying that my boy may not be fully locked in...I have not had the chance to inspect my boy over webcam, but will do it soon.

Here is my boy's reply, which I hope you'll enjoy reading:

Its mind blowing to know this slaves chastity is serving you pleasure, and that pleasure is passed on to another, while slaves physical pleasure gets further and further away from him.

His pleasure are in denial, this slave feels know he can empathize with the twisted pleasure of cuckolding.

I read your email from you boy Miss, this slave is very much looking forward to presenting your lock to you. Thank you for being transparent, this slave feels an even deeper gratitude towards his position and serving your genuineness.

339439 is excited about the opportunity to be put before you Miss Siren . This slave could not feel what he feels to write what he writes if he were not locked.

Hold Onto Your Eyeballs!

Hold onto your eyeballs as I load up more pix on my profile wall. We don't want it to pop right out of it's sockets and drop onto your lap, now do we?

Hehehehehehehehe!

I'm hot for ass-raping a new boy!

A boy just asked me if I want him to wear a pair of latex pants or jeans so that I can cut it off him and rape his little boy hole.

I was so shocked that he would ask me to ruin latex. So jeans it will be. After the email, I got so hot thinking of the moment when I have that fucker bent over and unable to stop me from raping him. I could just hear the tearing of the jeans. Hmmmm, should I use a knife or pair of scissors. ;)

I'll fuck him so hard, his knuckles are going to go white and jaws clenching from me riding him hard. His little boy hole's will be a glory hole that I can fit my fist in!

~WS~

Over 5 pages of email....

Wow! Thanks to all my collarme fans, I've received over 5 pages of email and it's not midnight yet.

^_^

Can a man not enjoy being forcibly made love to?

1)  Fantasy is cool, but what if you were abused for real.

2)  Ask yourself, if a woman imprison me in real life and forced me to have sex for three straight days, would I press charges?

3) Open link and read.

http://tinyurl.com/5cyby8

4) Let me know what you think.  

My chaste boy...

I want to share with you all that I have a chaste boy, from overseas. I've met and played with this boy a few months back. He has submitted to cock chastity for me. He's an excellent and obedient boy. I'm very proud of him and his suffering. He sends me pictures and email updates everyday. Each day I wake up and sip a cup of coffee, my sweet personal submissive serves to me, and read "chaste boy's" email.

Mmmmmmm....is all I can say as I sip my first coffee, with foamed milk, and read his wonderfully, written email. He writes of his suffering and how intense it feels. He calls his chastity, "bitter sweet". Bitter as he no longer has access to the thing that had been his since he was conceived...Now it is MINE. He is in heaven that I own it, even across an ocean and continent...

His locked cock twitches and squirms in it's cage for me. He is in ecstatic misery, feeling the joy of being owned and yet miserably bitter that he does not get to cum selfishly. All the while he knows I am enjoying myself immensely. He knows that I take pleasure in sharing pix of current kinky adventures. Prison has never felt like such a gilded cage.

Today, my chaste boy is on day 5 of chastity and is now taking to wearing women's panties and peeing like a little girl. His pix is on my profile. Enjoy...

Fanmail

I love fanmail and wanted to share it with you all. See below: 

Ms. Winged Siren,

Hello and good Saturday evening to You!  i sincerely hope that You are well, and, very well-served.

This is simply a message of genuine appreciation and admiration for You.  i have been an admirer of You for a several weeks, and, I simply felt compelled to tell You. Your presence on collarme.com is a pleasant breath of fresh and intelligent air to us! Thank You!

Ms. Winged Siren, i promise You that i am not using flattery to gain Your attention. my sole motivation in writing to You was to share what is on my heart and to brighten Your day (or evening).

i genuinely appreciate Your approach to this lil as if You bring a great deal of class, respect and intelligence to activities often considered dark. i sense that You have creativity, intelligence, and passion for what You do. Thank You!   (Oh to be a fly bound to Your wall as You play with Your slave(s)!  i would be thrilled to be Your slaves' slave...)

This message may seem a bit square, however, i sincerely appreciate what You share with us very, very much.

i served as a House slave for many years beginning on my 18th birthday =), and, i was honored to serve and surrender to a wide range of Dominants.  i have submitted to the great and venerable Dominas and the not-so-great.

i shared that only to let You know that i have real expereience as points of reference when i state the following:

Your persona is such a breath of fresh air!

Please, be patient as i repeat that:
Your persona is such a breath of fresh air!

Thank You very much for reading my missive. i am deeply appreciative of Your time and consideration!

i wish You a wonderful weekend!

Respectfully and genuinely Yours,
slave



Yay! I got to electroplay, today!

I had a great 3-hour session this evening. It's been a long time since I've electroplayed. My submissive is such a darling! He was always taking care of my needs, like opening doors, carrying my bag, taking me out to lunch, getting me drinks, arranged hotel and valet parking for my car, and gave me a TENS unit. I am very blessed to meet such a good boy.

Anyway, the electroplay was intense and he took heavy currents for me. It was exhilarating, painful, and erotic for him. It was powerful, erotic, sadistic, and exciting for me!

See uploaded pix on my profile.

Finally...

What a long weekend! I finally got a chance to set my fanny down this entire weekend. Much accomplished in very little time. I'm very happy, but exhausted.

Guy with girl moves!

http://gawker.com/5816964/chinese-male-cheerleader-brings-it-on-like-you-wouldnt-believe

To dress as a woman doesn't make you feminine...so it really impresses me when a man can exude femininity, such as in the video.

First time...

I'm meeting two boys this week. Boy "A" will be seeing me for the second time. His first time ever was with me. He loved the way I broke his cherry and is back for more! Boy "B", will be seeing a Femdomme, for the first time in his life!

Their cherries are in good hands.

The Ultimate Kinkventure...

I'm thrill that a naughty boy is interested in a 24-hour session, replete with kidnapping, interrogation, sadism, humiliation, and enslavement. The ultimate mindfuck. He's gonna love it. I'm gonna love it.

Talk about curazy, wild fun...

I'm real, folks...

People have been writing me, telling me that they can't believe that it's me and my kinky boys in the pix. Well folks, I'm very much who I say I am and have done all the kinky things I said I've done.

I've met, in real life, about 100 people off of this site alone. Most people that I've met are nice and well-meaning people. I've had a lot of fun meeting people. Some turn out to be liars or flakes. I've forgiven some because they were sorry for their actions. A few get to remain my friends.

I've been flown to exotic destinations, ridden in a Ferrari and Lambourghini, taken shopping, wined and dined, and treated very well. I've met people from all over the world and of all ages.

My advice for those who want to meet real people. Don't be afraid. Carpe diem! Don't send pix and meet right away. Check them out first, through chatting on instant message or chat on the phone first. Meet in a public places, like coffee shops and restaurants. Have a safe call set up. Make sure someone knows where you are.

Be real, be modest, and be nice.

Looking forward to Friday night! Going to have some public play! All dressed up and hot enough to sizzle! ^_^

Recap:  I had an awesome night! I love ass fisting my boy.

I love this photo!

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/object/article?f=/g/a/2011/06/10/dip.DTL&object=%2Fc%2Fpictures%2F2011%2F06%2F10%2Fba-Germany_Wave__0503605636.jpg

Like water into wine...pain into pleasure.

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I am not the Holy Ghost, Trinity, or God...but it sure feels so powerful to make my subjects, my submissives feel it...To work them up to an intensity that they taste my

I am not the Holy Ghost, Trinity, or God...but it sure feels so powerful to make my subjects, my submissives feel it...To work them up to an intensity that they taste my water as fine wine or my inflictions of pain into pleasure. 

Intoxication...exhilaration...submission...abject surrender........

It's very hard to do what I do well because I give my entire love of kink and humanity into it. Freeing a submissive from his or her selfish and usually dominant self is very difficult, like separating the chaff from the wheat. It is an apt metaphor.

We have been are raised to control and fight for their lives, their spouse, their careers, throughout time. We develop hard shells and surmounting expections of achievements. To tease someone from this mantle is an artform. To dominate someone is an artistry that is complex, passionate, labor intensive, and requires tactics, strategy, elements of surprise, and tasteful creativity. Oh and an ardent desire to win, conquer, and subdue at all cost.

Submissives will need those skills as well: tactics, strategy, elements of surprise, and tasteful creativity. Oh and an ardent desire to submit, willingness to surrender, and be subdue at all cost.

It is a double-edged sword. This "double helix" forms a power exchange that is so intoxicating and strong that both the dominant and submissive is consumed in it's fire and become a new element. A unit fused by dominant and submissive/slave.

That is how I am able to turn my water into intoxicating wine and my inflictions of pain into ecstacy.

My new houseboy

My new houseboy came over to clean my house today. He vacuumed pretty thoroughly, scrubbed the bathroom, and install an equipment. I am pleased by his first attempt at being a houseboy. He did the best he could, but there's room for improvement. My instructions and rules must be followed or there will be lot of caning to reinforce it. ^_^

Nothing pleases me more than a hardworking, obedient boy.

I posted his pix on my profile page. Enjoy!

Fee, fi, fo, fum! Flim, phlegm, flew!

Some boys just loooooove to be spat on! It's so grotesquely fun and degrading!

Breaking In A Boy....

I just had a wonderful long session with a boy last week. It was so intimate and sweet. It was also the boy's first session with a real Domme. He wanted me to take him and turn him into a submissive, pull him from the vanila world, through the looking glass, and into the other side, the kinky side.

Although, I was sweet and gentle in tone and manners, I was very pleased that he loved my strict discipline, nipple torture, floggings, spankings, cbt, blindfold, gag and blindfolds, and other things. I giveth, and being such a good boy, he tooketh...

Now on to the next boy cherry...

Dominance and submission. Why some relationships seem fascist. 

A submissive asked me how I feel about D/s and why it seems to some extent fascist.

Here is my comment:

There is a fascist component to it, but it is reined in by reciprocity and mutual respect.
There are people who want to tease, punish, and torture, in a one sided way. I do that too. I tease, punish, and torture. The difference is very much like biological relationships in nature. It can be parasitic or it can be symbiotic. The simple difference is that one is done with care and consideration of the "victim", even though it may be emotionally hurtful, degrading, and painful. Again, "care and consideration" is what makes it different.

If the relationship is destructive to one of both of the Dom/me or submissive, then it must be discontinued. These are the kinds of relationships that make D/s perceived as fascist.

~WS~

Banishment

I am an intelligent Domme, who suffers no fool, and I expect a submissive/slave honor to his/her words. However, I have come across a lot of flaky and weak submissives who panic about their identity. When BDSM conflicts with their lives, they find they cannot deal with both as realities. As a result, they "run away" from the Lifestyle, only to come back again and again.

Today, I have banished a boy forever. He'll always linger in the twilight zone of kinky and vanilla. Always pining and rejecting the Lifestyle.

Learn this lesson. Be who you are or go back to vanilla world. No fence sitting. This game is not for amateurs or men/women with weak constitutions.

Fisting

Oh my! A boy has requested a fisting session with me. What an adventurous boy this one is! It is such an intimidate and amazing experience. It's quite difficult to imagine how this was possible, but it is very possible. It is not for novice that's for sure. The anal slut MUST be in tune with his/her body...

It's not meant to be particularly painful, unless that is what you want. It gives you an intense endorphin rush and if it is deep and long enough, you're body goes into shock. Some have multiple orgasms, while others feel like they want to orgasm, but cannot.

I wonder how old fisting is...I'm sure the Romans did it to each other. If anyone can find ancient reliefs or artifacts that depicts this, please send them to me!