An absolute Master/slave commitment is one in which the Master holds the absolute and total power over his slave. The agreement between both parties must be a consensual one, in which the slave consented to give her Master all of her personal power, when she accepted her Masters collar. Once the slave has consented to give her Master all of her power, absolutely, total and unconditional, then no further consent is required from there on in, as the Master now holds the absolute power and responsibility over his slave. A slave has no rights, other then the privileges granted to her by her Master. A slave has no limits other then the boundaries set for her, by her Master. A slave is her Masters property. A Master may do with his slave as he alone sees fit. Absolute and total means 100% and that entails absolute and total submission, obedience and unconditional surrender on the slaves part. A slave cannot release herself from her Masters collar and service, without the explicit agreement and approval of her Master. A slaves only purpose is to serve and please her Master, as/or defined by her Master.

The Philosophy of slavery

This is a society of sadists and masochists, whether or not those living in it realize this or admit it. Humans pay back-breaking taxes to hire governments to cheat and oppress them, armies of policemen to harass and abuse them, censors to tell them what they may or may not do, and leaders to exploit them. They are not too different from the next person on the street, except for one thing: a slave gives itself to its Master, lock, stock, and barrel. Everything it is or has is in The Master’s hands. Its personality and psyche, as well as its physical being and sex life, are what its Master determines they will be. It could be a big responsibility and one that may make slaves of both parties.

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The Master’s time is precious and His time with the slave may be short. In no case does this fact detract from the standards of excellence expected from the slave. Training may be harsh. This is the fastest way to train and also the method that produces the most effective results. The slave will enthusiastically accept training. The Master may or may not acknowledge when a task is performed properly; however, the slave will sincerely thank The Master for the privilege of performing that task. The Master will take as long as necessary to train the slave as long as the slave is genuinely trying and not malingering. Once a slave has been trained, if it fails in a task, it will be assumed that it is being disobedient and he will be punished.

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The slave’s body becomes The Master’s property; as such, the slave has no right to protest any use The Master chooses to make of it. Rather, it is an honor if The Master deigns to touch, whip, or mark the slave in any fashion He desires.

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It is the slave’s duty to obey any and all commands given by The Master, and to do this without question or hesitation. Thus, in all of its personal activities, the slave surrenders all decisions to The Master.

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The Master may choose to ignore the slave for long, extended periods. The slave will remain silent and chained, at the Master's disgression, for whatever length of time The Master requires.

The slave has agreed to adhere with all his life to the articles in this Book of Laws, or any other rules or regulations The Master may add at a future time. The slave understands that The Master is the sole judge in determining whether an infraction of these Laws has occurred. The Master is also the sole judge in determining the degree of punishment.

The slave has determined that its purpose is to serve and submit to a Master as it's property. To this end, it has offered it's service and submission to The Master, Who has accepted. This document sets forth the conditions of the slave’s service and promulgates the Laws under which it will live during the term of ownership.

From the Law of Slavery (Southern Cross Edition)

Definitions

A. "The Master"

1. The words "Owner" and "Lord" in this Book of Laws shall apply only to the Ownership and Lordship of The Master.

2. The Master shall have complete and absolute authority and power over His slave property, over any existing or future subsidiary property formerly belonging to the slave in its free state; over all income and proceeds from labor of His slave property; over all creations or constructions of His slave property; over all work and productivity of His slave property; over the Law, its amendment, and enforcement; over the behavior and attitude of His slave property; over the types and kinds of disciplines and punishments given to His slave property; over the sexual services and activities of His slave property; over all other services and activities of His slave property; over the body, mind, emotions, and soul of His slave property; over the household in which the slave property is kept; over the dungeon and related training and punishment facilities in which the slave property is trained and disciplined; over all public and private interactions of His slave property; and over all aspects of His slave property’s life and existence, whether specifically codified in this Law or not.

3. The relation of The Master to His slave property will not be other than that of an Owner, Lord, and Master to His slave property, regardless of the context, content, or particular details of any subsidiary aspect of the relationship.

4. The Absolute Ownership, Lordship, Power, and Authority of The Master over His slave property shall take precedence over any other demands of any kind or type on the slave. The Superiority of The Master to His slave property shall be defined as an infinitely higher magnitude of Superiority to that of any of the slave’s other Superiors. The Master’s Authority shall take absolute precedence over all other forms of Authority to which the slave is exposed, whether of a public or private nature, whether of other Superior Males, Men, or of any civil, legal, or other authority.

5. No form of Authority or Power over the slave, other than that of The Master, shall be recognized by the slave without specific prior authorization by The Master, and if any other such authority is recognized, The Master shall, in His Wisdom, set the limits and parameters of such authority.

6. Any failure on the part of the slave to recognize and acknowledge the Authority and Supremacy of The Master’s Will in all matters, or failure to bow and submit to such Absolute Authority, or failure to distinguish between the Supreme Power and Authority of The Master on the one hand, and the lower Order of Power and Authority exercised over it, with His authorization, by any lesser Superior, civil, legal, public, or private Authority, shall be considered a Class III Felony.

B. The slave

1. For the purposes of this Law, "slave" shall be defined as an inferior subhuman animal which exists solely as the property of its Owner, Lord, and Master. By definition, a slave is owned and viewed as the chattel and property of its Master, property that can be taken and used as its Master might see fit, without rights, privileges, or freedoms except those clearly and specifically granted by The Master and can be denied at any time. Slaves exist solely for and at the pleasure of The Master!

2. The nature of the slave is that of a submissive obedient male or female born to serve and obey its Superiors. For the purposes of this Law, "superior" shall be defined as any Male with whom the slave comes into contact, including other slaves, and any other being so defined by The Master.

3. The function of a slave is to eagerly and unquestioningly offer itself for any use its Owner wishes to make of it.

4. The purpose of a slave is to provide its Owner with any comfort, pleasure, need, or desire He may demand of it, to make Him happy in His ownership and use of it, and to please and satisfy Him in any and every way.

5. The duty of a slave is complete unquestioning obedience without exception, to the Will, Law, Orders, and Commands of its Master. The slave will consider all statements, requests, utterances, and verbal issuances of The Master as Orders or Demands.

6. Under the terms of this Law, it shall be a Class II Misdemeanor for the slave to fail in any way to fulfill its legal obligations to its Owner as stated in the above definition of its nature, function, purpose, and duty.

I Don't

I don't make you wait for me, kneeling, to humiliate you. I do it to help you focus on us. I don't pull your hair to hurt you. I do it to guide your face. I don't choke you with my cock to make you pass out. I do it to teach you the limits of your endurance. I don't switch your ass and thighs to punish you. I do it so you may learn right from wrong. I don't tie you up to keep your hands from me. I do it to make you focus on the pleasure I'm giving you. I don't put my hands on your throat to scare you. I do it to show you how to trust. I don't call you a slut because of how you behave. I call you a slut because you're mine....

By Miss Gina Gardiner

Research has shown that only 28 percent of children today are asked to do chores

, a figure that is in sharp contrast to what their parents experienced when they were young (82 percent of that generation were expected to help out at home).

Why is there such a marked decrease? Is this a positive change, or are we doing our children a disservice? Does asking children to help around the house help or hinder their development?

Having worked for more than 30 years with children and their parents, I am absolutely convinced that — approached in the right way — there are lots of benefits to children and their parents in creating a whole-family approach to getting jobs done inside the house and out.

Here are 5 super important life lessons your kids learn from chores:

1. How To Take Care Of Themselves When They’re Older
We hugely underestimate what children are capable of doing. They have the capacity to learn a wide range of skills, but adults need to take time to teach them—with patience. It’s important that children learn skills associated with daily living. (There’s a list of age-appropriate chores at the end of this article.)

Too often children leave home for college unable to look after themselves adequately. They have to rely on junk food or expensive ready-made meals. They store up their laundry until they go home for the holidays because they never learned the intricacies of the washing machine.

Even very young children love to cook. Of course they need lots of supervision, but it’s in the creation of simple things like making jam tarts and vegetable faces that spark a lifelong interest in cooking. What starts out as fun is actually a building block of an irreplaceable life skill: being able to create nourishing tasty foods.

2. Improved Self-Esteem And Accountability
Doing kid-appropriate chores can give your children a great sense of self-esteem. This doesn’t happen automatically, though. The process needs to be carefully managed and requires parents to be consistent in setting their expectations and in holding their child accountable. It’s in the structured approach that great success lies, as children have a great need for certainty.

Be very clear about what you want the child to do. Always state it in the positive “I’d like you to lay the table now please.” Changing behaviors works best when you give lots of praise and encouragement when the job is done.
3. The Importance Of Being Responsible
Helping around the house gives children a great sense of responsibility. Of course we want children to enjoy their childhood, but it’s been my experience that all too often we expect people to suddenly discover a sense of responsibility simply because they have turned 18 and then are disappointed and surprised when they appear to lack it.

Learning to “be responsible ” is a process that comes with having experience of taking responsibility. Learning to be responsible for things and to take the credit when successful—and to understand the consequences when they aren’t—is an incredibly important part of maturing.

Children who have had the opportunity to take responsibility in a measured way are better prepared for future relationships and find it easier to adjust to adult life.

4. That They Have A Lot To Contribute In The World
Helping around the house on a regular basis demonstrates the importance of fairness and contribution to the family unit. It’s been my experience that children can have a very well developed sense of what is fair.

Helping around the house and making a contribution is a great way of teaching children that they have a valuable contribution to make to the family.

There is a paradox in society at the moment. Far fewer children are expected to help around the house and yet many parents are overburdened trying to juggle long working hours, child care, being a taxi service to take their children to their many activities, running a house and being a parent and partner.

Many parents I believe are suffering from the. “It’s quicker, easier and less hassle to do if yourself syndrome.” Of course if takes time to teach children how to do chores and a real commitment to motivate children to do the chores and understand why it’s important—but it is well worth the investment. Not only will you be able to spend more quality time with the family without being frazzled, but your children will be learning the skills for successful adulthood.

5. There Are Consequences (And Rewards) That Come With Their Choices
Getting your children involved in doing chores is an ideal way of teaching your child the principle that everything we do in life is a choice. Everything we do and say, the way in which we do it, the timing and the approach is a choice. Even not choosing is a choice. Every choice we make has consequences.

When we set expectations it is important to share the consequences when they are done and when they are not.

When a child helps they need to know that their efforts are appreciated and that it makes a real difference. It works well when children are young for them to see that when they help out there is more time for family activities.

As children get older it works really well to offer a clear connection between their making a contribution to helping around the house with achieving certain privileges.

Parents often use money as the motivator, but I believe this has several disadvantages. It can become ever more expensive, but more importantly the young person fails to see that they are making a contribution and will often set up a belief that they shouldn’t do anything unless they are paid for it.

Don’t know what chores to give your kids? Here are some age appropriate activities:

Under age 5
• Help to put their toys and books away
• Play housework or gardening with you
• Help you when you are cooking—mixing, being given a bit of pastry to roll out

Ages 5 to 7
• Make their bed (parents to change the bedding for laundering)
• Put their toys and books away
• Help set the table — great way to help them count, learn left and right
• Help clear the table
• Help you cook
• Help put shopping away (unbreakables)
• Put paper in the recycle bin

Ages 8 to 11
• Help empty the dishwasher
• Put all dirty washing in designated basket or by the washing machine
• Help with cooking at the weekend and during the holidays

Ages 12 to 15
• Change their bedding and make their own beds
• Pour their own beverages
• Help cook on a regular basis learning how to prepare fruit and veg, make simple snacks, etc
• Load the dishwasher and empty it
• Help with dusting
• Put laundry in designated place
• Help hang out washing
• Mow the lawn
• Sort out the recyclables

Ages 15 and up
• Make the family meal at least once a month
• Know how to use the washing machine
• Know how to iron
• Help with general housework or gardening when not actively involved in studying

Gina Gardiner is a YourTango Expert and life coach. Find her at genuinelygina.co.uk.

You might even go so far as to say the above could easily apply to some submissives and slaves.
So many are so spoilt and unknowing of so many of the basic necessary skills required to live in today's world, that I can't help to wonder what their lives will be like in the years to come.

Self-Pity

I never saw a wild thing

sorry for itself.

A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough

without ever having felt sorry for itself.

Why I do what I do.

I don't make you wait for me, kneeling, to humiliate you. I do it to help you focus on us. I don't pull your hair to hurt you. I do it to guide your face. I don't choke you with my cock to make you pass out. I do it to teach you the limits of your endurance. I don't switch your ass and thighs to punish you. I do it so you may learn right from wrong. I don't tie you up to keep your hands from me. I do it to make you focus on the pleasure I'm giving you. I don't put my hands on your throat to scare you. I do it to show you how to trust. I don't call you a slut because of how you behave. I call you a slut because you're mine....

~~Dom Creed~~

Above all else a Dom cherishes Their submissive, in the knowledge that the gift the submissive gives Them is the greatest gift of all

A Dom is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to Them, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift

A Dom is in control of Themselves first and foremost, so that They may control others

As a stern and demanding Dom, They can cause Their submissive to cry real tears

As the consummate lover, They will kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character

In times of trouble, a Dom will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals

A Dom is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality

A Dom would never ask a submissive to put Them before their career, or family, just to satisfy Their own pleasure

To win a submissive's mind, body, spirit, soul and love, a Dom knows They must first win their trust

A Dom will show Their submissive humour, kindness, and warmth

A Dom must always show them that Their guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of their attention, that this is a person they can learn from, and that they can trust Their direction

A Dom is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous, When called upon, They will fight for Their submissive's honor

A Dom proves to Their submissive that They are someone they can lean on, and depend on

When it comes to time to teach Their submissive their lessons of obedience, They are a strong and unyielding professor

A Dom will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from Their student

Never does a Dom use discipline without a good reason, When They do punish Their submissive, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand

A Dom is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear Their submissive's wants and needs

A Dom is patient; taking time to learn Their submissive's limits, and knowing that as their trust of Them grows, so will they

A Dom never has to demand ritual behavior from Their submissive. Their submissive responds to Them out of the want of pleasing Them. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment

A Dom understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to Them

A Dom is secure enough to laugh at Themself and the absurdities of life, Open minded enough to learn new things, Strong enough to grow

A Dom's tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love

A Dom understands that E/each partner gains most from pleasuring the O/other

And B/both of T/them know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold

What is my definition of love? I think its making yourself vulnerable. Its like saying "I trust you to never hurt me so I don't mind letting my guard down to you". Love is a comfortable place where you can exist and just be yourself without fear.

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Seems to happen quite often.....

Although I am logged into CM, that doesn't mean I'm sitting at the keyboard.

So much "chaff" to sift through in the attempt to find the "wheat".

I think I need to invest in a thrashing machine to do it for me.

Demons run when good men go to war

The easiest way to expose a relocation scammer is to tell them you will come and pick them up in person.

Then listen to all their excuses of why that's not possible before they disappear.

Sometimes God doesn't give you what you think you want. It's not because you don't deserve it, but because you deserve more.

It's Late

You say you love me
And I hardly know your name
And if I say I love you in the candlelight
There's no one but myself to blame
But there's something inside
That's turning my mind away
Oh how I could love you
If I could let you stay

It's late - but I'm bleeding deep inside
It's late - is it just my sickly pride?
Too late - even now the feeling seems to steal away
So late - though I'm crying I can't help but hear you say
It's late it's late it's late
But not too late

The way you love me
Is the sweetest love around
But after all this time
The more I'm trying
The more I seem to let you down
Now you tell me you're leaving
And I just can't believe it's true
Oh you know that I can love you
Though I know I can't be true
Oh you made me love you
Don't tell me that we're through

It's late - but it's driving me so mad
It's late - yes I know but don't try to tell me that it's
Too late - save our love you can't turn out the lights
So late - I've been wrong but I'll learn to be right
It's late it's late it's late
But not too late

- I've been so long
- You've been so long
- We've been so long tryin' to work it out
- I ain't got long
- You ain't got long
- We gotta know what this life is all about

Too late much too late
You're staring at me
With suspicion in your eye
You say what game are you playing?
What's this that you're saying?
I know that I can't reply
If I take you tonight
Is it making my life a lie?
Oh you make me wonder
Did I live my life alright?

It's late - but it's time to set me free
It's late - yes I know but there's no way it has to be
Too late - so let the fire take our bodies this night
So late - so let the waters take our guilt in the tide
It's late it's late it's late it's late
It's late it's late
It's all too late

If you quit

You're guaranteed to fail.

I recall the time my slave (now exslave) won a free total beauty makeover...

They gave her the works, ...sauna, manicure, pedicure, massage, new hairstyle, even a facial...including a mud pack!

She was absolutely beautiful for three whole days!

Then the mud fell off....

I so enjoy the blog site that lists all the fakes on CM! Makes it so much easier to recognize the real vs fake.

I enjoy writing to many girls to see if they are real and serious or simply players and fakes...It doesnt take but one or two mails to get them to quickly reveal what they truly are.

especially the relocation scammer girls....I particularly enjoy acting naive about their intentions just to laugh at their pathetic excuses to not have me come and get them and relocate them in person.

Then there are always the girls who claim they seek dark forbidden taboo acts, usually of a deviant sexual nature....Those even talk a bit more....until they cum..then they disappear as well.

Girls....Do you really want to play the game?

Or do you wish to prove yourself genuine and sincere in your desires?

Never tell a girl you'll make her fantasies come true!

Cause when you do, they'll run and hide from you!

Your silence speaks volumes about you!

And even more about what you are not!

You know what?

If after talking for

a while thru CM mail

you are unwilling to

verify you are real by

at least a phone call

MOVE ON

DOWN THE ROAD!

Ive no time for you!

If after talking on the phone

a few times you cannot send

a photo of yourself

showing a sign

with my name on it....

MOVE ON

DOWN THE ROAD!

Ive no time for you!

If there is any part of this

that you do NOT understand...

MOVE ON

DOWN THE ROAD!

Ive no time for you!

It's time to clear up a few misconceptions...

Of late I have had a number of girls contact me claiming how they are wanting to be owned and brutalized and savagely beaten.

If that is what you think you want or need then fine, but trust Me when i say you genuinely have some serious issues!

I have also of late had a number of girls contact Me pretending to want to belong to Me.

Yet what they actually are interested in is wasting My time and have no real intentions of pursuing a relationship.

If you believe that you need micromanaged and need to be told at all times even when you can go to the restroom, then I really have little use for you although I'm sure I can find uses for you. But you may not like the uses I find for you.

I need a girl who has intelligence and abilities to know how and when to do the basic things in life.

Sure during play sessions I can see being that tightly controlled but lets be real here..Do you seriously want to have to call Me when I am at work to ask permission to use the restroom? and for that matter if I haven't called you to give you permission to go to the restroom or to call Me and ask to go to the restroom....are you simply going to refrain until I do? Doubtful. It seems that so many of you girls are too busy living in the fantasy to live in the reality.

I'm not wanting a girl to beat the living s**t out of, I'm looking for a girl who enjoys being a submissive or better yet a slave who responds to caring and understanding and being rewarded for obedience and realizes that I care for them and cherish them enough to also punish or discipline them when they misbehave or act up.

A girl who understands that I do not want her to be with Me out of fear but instead desires to be with Me because she is as proud to be with Me as I am proud to own her.

Of course spankings and bondage and floggings or caged or chained and such are going to be involved just as standing naked with nose to the wall in the corner will be. All that is part of the play as well as the special connection shared.

Look deep within yourself and search your soul and ask yourself....are you that girl?

If you honestly think you are that girl then by all means write to Me and let's find out.

Ask yourself this question!

Are you all that I require you to be?

Amended!

It seems that some of the real people I talk to on this site think the below journal entry I posted the other day was in reference to them and took offense,

Let me state clearly and for the record the below journal entry in no way refers to the real people here on CM that I talk to.

It is only in reference to the horrendous amount of fakes, scammers and time wasters that lurk and prey on CM that I have weeded thru in My wanderings along the myriad corridors of this site!

If after reading it you feel like it is directed at or about you in any way...Then perhaps you should seriously take a closer look at yourself.

It always disturbs me and makes me suspicious when I encounter one whose information does not comply with the facts.

So often I see profiles that state someone lives in one state yet upon conversing with them, they slip and state a different locale. Often they list one locale yet their phone area code shows a totally different state.

So often a profile states how a submissive or slave seeks ownership or hunger to find their One...

Yet their profiles are years old.

Do they seek an impossible standard for the One?

When you believe you have established a mutual interest and they state they have a desire to take it further, they then up and disappear or simply discontinue communicating.

I strive to be as honest and forthcoming as possible. Why can they not be as well?

I am more than able to prove I am whom I say I am via cam or phone or other ways.

Why are the majority of the submissives and slaves unwilling to do the same?

Webcams cost very little in today's world and yet so many still claim they can't afford them or claim they do not have one. Cell phones now have cameras built in and can send photos around the world, yet so many claim their's do not. Odd when they cruise CollarMe with their Iphone or Ipad which has that capability.

So many state they want a handsome Prince Charming who has loads of money and a castle, yet they themselves are far from the beautiful Princess or the Cinderella they claim to be.

That is the fantasy.

This is the reality.

I am no handsome Prince although in my younger days I was considered quite attractive.

I am not a wealthy man as far as money is concerned yet I am a wealthy man in many other ways.

I am no more perfect than the next person for perfection is an ideal that many strive to attain yet none ever acquire.

We all have our flaws and imperfections.

I need not tell lies for any relationship based on lies is doomed to failure.

Perhaps that is why so many submissives and slaves disappear, for they are based upon lies and deceptions and fear they will be exposed, unknowing or uncaring that they have already exposed themselves

.

The lifestyle was established upon the concept that "Trust and Respect are Everything".

Yet now there is no trust and almost certainly no respect.

Yet many who are without trust or able to be trusted and who are without respect yet believe they themselves deserve respect claim to be true to the lifestyle.

So often I hear the words "respect is earned".

In my belief respect is not earned, it is given until you show that you are unworthy of my respect or of any respect.

I refuse to pursue or chase a submissive or slave who has no real desire to be captured or enslaved.

And I definitely refuse to pursue a submissive or slave who can not be openly honest and truthful and communicative.

A few of the submissives and slaves have words on their profile about how the best women are like the supposed best apples high in the apple tree that men are supposedly too lazy to climb up to pick, while the less desirable apples and women fall to the ground and are easily picked up by the men and thus labeled easy or less than desirable.

The truth of the matter is the fact that the fully ripened and best apples fall from the tree naturally for that is how nature intends it to be and thus the best are actually on the ground and the unripened less flavorful apples remain on the tree and often fail to ripen and instead wither and die on the branch, forgotten and never picked or wanted.

Ugly Kid Joe....Everything About You! (And no this is nothing towards you.)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=byEGjLU2egA&ob=av2e

The Stranger

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iygyYFvCHQg&feature=fvst

Well, we all have a face that we hide away forever

And we take them out and show ourselves when everyone is gone.

some are satin, some are steel,

Some are silk and some are leather.

They're the faces of a stranger,

But we'd love to try them on.

Well we all fall in love,

But we disregard the danger,

Though we share so many secrets,

There are some we never tell.

Why were you so surprised that you never saw the stranger?

did you ever let your lover see the stranger in yourself?

Don't be afraid to try again.

Everyone goes south every now and then.

You've done it.

Why can't someone else?

You should know by now.

You've been there yourself.

Once I used to believe I was such a great romancer.

Then I came home to a woman that I could not recognize.

When I pressed her for a reason,

She refused to even answer.

It was then I felt the stranger kick me right between the eyes.

Well we all fall in love

But we disregard the danger

Though we share so many secrets

There are some we never tell.

why were you so surpised that you never saw the stranger

Did you ever let your lover see the stranger in yourself?

Don't be afraid to try again.

Everyone goes south every now and then.

You've done it.

Why can't someone else?

You should know by now.

You've been there yourself.

You may never know how the stranger is inspired.

But he isn't always evil and he is not always wrong.

Though you drown in good intentions,

You will never quench the fire.

You'll give in to y our desire when the stranger comes along.

Master Jack

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3tVjVV7hAA0

Fool for a pretty face

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74f0_NgFlAw&feature=related

Girls

It would be smarter of you to try to play

The younger guys rather than us older guys.

You see us older guys are quick to see the games

since we have seen all the games before.

but some of us just enjoy letting you

hang yourself.

Laughs.

You Other Oldtimers, remember the OLD 1954 TV show "The Millionare?"

SALT LAKE CITY -- A private investigator says he has tracked down a homeless Utah man and delivered some good news: He's inherited a lot of money.

David Lundberg said he found Max Melitzer pushing a shopping cart filled with personal possessions in a Salt Lake City park Saturday afternoon.

Lundberg declined to disclose how much money Melitzer will be receiving, but said the man's brother who died of cancer last year left him a "significant" amount in his will.

"He'll no longer be living on the street or in abandoned storage sheds," he told The Associated Press. "He'll be able to have a normal life, and be able to have a home, provide for himself, and purchase clothing, food and health care."

The story about Lundberg's two-month search for Lundberg has been reported by the Deseret News and KSL of Salt Lake City.


I was homeless for 6 years and lived out of my truck although I was working the entire time. I was never on drugs and I don't drink, since alcohol gives me debilita
ting migraines. To give you an idea of why I was homeless, it was as simple as making a little more than the minimum wage of $5.50/hr, my rent was going up to over $500 a month and I couldn't pull together the first, last and security needed to get me in a different living situation.

One of the things you learn really fast is to NEVER tell anyone you are homeless, especially prospective employers. When I went to a job fair given by the city college (did I mention I was a student as well?) I didn't have a phone and was told I needed to have one because "these people don't want to hire anyone who is homeless". I worked as a cashier where other homeless people would come in to buy coffee and then sit for a while outside. The rude remarks of the customers almost brought me to tears. While helping these customers, many of them told me the homeless should be rounded up and shot so "I" wouldn't have to deal with them. My family knew I was homeless and refused to acknowledge it. I was too proud to ask them for help, especially as I had my vehicle and a safe place to park at night, something many homeless people never have.

The people that treated me the best in terms of giving me support and encouragement were other homeless people and surprisingly, the police were far more likely to be sympathetic towards my situation than my friends. Cops and firefighters know at a glance if someone is homeless and the local ones bent over backwards to make sure I was safe and unmolested at night in my truck - I can't ever thank them enough and I will be forever grateful to them.

Eventually I got a room to rent, then a trailer and although I had to sell it several years ago, I was eventually able to buy a house. I guess the point I'm trying to make is you may never know who is or has been homeless and that we can all run into a patch of bad luck. That doesn't mean homeless people are inferior and that they can be treated like garbage. You don't have to like every person you meet, on the job or on the street, but trust me, a little courtesy goes a long, long way.

Dear Mr. President, I heard you say you will not guarentee SS checks if the debt ceiling isn't raised. Why is the scare always have to do with SS, medicare, and our soldier's pay? Why not stop your own pay or all of Congress to save much more money for our country? Why use the Seniors' and soldiers' as examples? Take the money from those who take no risks and reap the benefits? Repost if you agree

A person who builds themselves a showplace trying to impress others...

only builds a monument to their own arrogance.

Twisted amusements make me laugh...

An awesome imagination is one of the greatest sexual traits a person can have!

Wow it's amazing how once you recognize and note the fake women on this site how few real women there actually are on Collarme.

Shakes my head and just laughs...

The World is full of Kings and Queens

Who blind your eyes and steal your dreams

It's Heaven and Hell

People will find me honest almost to the point of brutality.

I do not suffer fools easily.

I can roleplay with the best of them.

I am not interested in cyber sex.

I have an extremely creative, adaptive, inventive imagination.

Oh and yes I am an older Dominant. Laughs softly...

I have to laugh when I read profiles

from the girls who state they thrive

on pain and abuse..

So I write them a short note

describing some form of

extreme cruel act of sadism.

I think they forget they have

written in their profiles about

how they only want sadistic pain

yet when I write a short theme

about extreme cruelty to them

they draw back in abject horror

thinking I am seriously deranged.

Want to play?

Smiles ominously...

See? Now how many of you are

unable to tell vivid imaginitive writing

from reality?