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Where to begin? I'm 40, single, never married, no kids. While I'm 420-friendly, but I'm far fr
Male Dominant, 40,  Delaware

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 5' 9"

 145 lbs





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Where to begin? I'm 40, single, never married, no kids. While I'm 420-friendly, but I'm far from some stupid, lazy stoner. Don't get me wrong, I like relaxing and having lazy moments or even weekends, but I'm a veteran and an electrician, so I put my work in. And I don't smoke until AFTER I'm home from work. Either get to know me first or take your ignorant-assed assumptions(for those of you that have them) and pass me by. I'm not going to lose any sleep over it. I would not consider myself to be in the "lifestyle," whatever the hell that means anyway. But my last few relationships HAVE had dynamics of it. I chose dominant because I am NOT submissive. Nor am I a chauvinist that believes women are less than men, and therefore should just bow to my every whim. However, I AM intrigued and aroused by women that are submissive in nature and WANT relinquish control. I also am turned on by the thought of TPE, or having a slave, but I'm not sure I want it to be 24/7. I have age-play, race-play, daddy/daughter fantasies as well as "blackmail" and "rape" fantasies, or taking another man's wife or girlfriend, but I want to "take" you WITH your consent. I'm a little bit sadistic, but I don't want to beat the shit out of any woman. I don't want to bruise you up, DEFINITELY don't want to draw blood, I'm not trying to put anyone in the hospital. Forcefully putting you into the position I want, or tying you down to the bed, hair-pulling, ass-spanking(occasionally a belt or paddle), light-choking, intense and passionate with some light humiliation and degradation sprinkled in. Essentially, all things that enhance and maximize YOUR orgasms. Oddly enough, I'm not looking for a quick fuck or one-night stand, I want more substance than that. But I'm not looking to rush into anything either. Maybe an on-going FWB or sessions and then see what evolves from there. Regardless, open, HONEST communication from BOTH of us is the key. I don't know if it's because I'm a man or not but I do, at times, get off on the idea of having a plethora of women to have my way with, but I don't want a bunch of women living with me, nor is it something I want all the time either. I think what would be most ideal for me is a bit of the cuckqueen dynamic, as I ultimately want to share my life with one woman. One woman to love, honor and protect and grow old with. But one whom is just as turned on as I am with occasionally bringing home another woman to play with. Another woman that SHE chooses. But this isn't a requirement. I'm down for a good concert(especially Pearl Jam) or dinner & a movie or just chilling snuggled up on the couch. Camping in Cherokee, NC though, is my sanctuary. I'm basically a big ol' softy who likes things a bit kinky. I'm NOT into anything that would land us in jail, or you in the hospital. I'm not into golden showers or scat or blood. And I sure as shit am not into changing diapers on a grown-ass woman(like what YOU like, but that shit ain't me.), nothing erotic about that too me. Even my age-play fantasies do NOT go anywhere near THAT young. Not into electrical, or needles, not into wearing leather. I don't have a dungeon or a secret room or cages, but I do have a slightly ominous basement if that's your thing. See, a lot of this depends on you too, I'm a Sagittarius so I'm adaptable. Well, that's enough for now. Anything else you want to know, just ask.

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