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** Updated August 21, 2018 **
Sensual, Intelligent Dom, who adores and seeks the mental and emotional aspects of Ds above all else. Physically very powerful, mentally quick, often intense, generally kind. At my core I am a natural Dominant man, the one to whom, when there is chaos, fear, or need, people instinctively turn and seek from me protection, comfort, or a solution.
The mental and emotional aspects of Ds are most appealing to me, they the cornerstone of the relationship I seek. Accessories are just that, and in some cases, a poor substitution for lack of skills, or worse, lack of imagination. Id much rather arouse and control you with my voice, my words, a look, a touch of your back, or a whisper, than by force or with restraints.
For me, Ds is a means to and end, and that end being a super-strong, intense, deep relationship with my partner. Ds is the core of how we relate to each other, how we communicate non-verbally. Ds is not ancillary or an accessory of a the sort of relationship I seek. In my sort of Ds interactions, we strip away the clutter of personality and become who we are at our core. This way, we can then bond together, our honest true selves laid bare for the other to embrace.
Not to say that real bondage, or discipline, or any other number of wonderful options do not have a place in my repertoire (evil smirk) they most certainly do! And a handful of hair is an wonderful means of control!
About Me
My labels Father, Soldier, Teacher, Coach, Mentor, Daddy, Builder, Dom, Lover, Knight errand, Compassionate Comforter, and Rock for the one who gives herself to our Ds union ....
I aspire to be Kind, to be a Gentleman, and be a Champion of the weak, poor, forgotten, ignored, and less lucky.
Educating, mentoring, teaching is part of my DNA. Took early retirement from teaching by combining military time and teaching time, got rid of us expensive veteran teachers! This does not mean inactivity I coach a collegiate sports team, am taking various on-line courses, including trying to learn Italian. I work out daily, and, when the weather changes, I need to be outside.
LOVES Gardening (flowers), swimming, the beach, unplanned escapes and adventures, wandering through antique stores, good television, (Babylon Berlin is my current favorite), and told I am a rather good cook.
Like many, I seem to be composed of contradictions I am a risk taker, an extrovert, and very bold, yet, always try to pause and to think before taking the next step. Well-educated and very well read, possibly over-educated, multiple grad degrees, (a wanna-bee polymath??), yet love an honest days sweat, covered in sawdust, a muddy ex-soldier who will happily debate just war theory after a fire fight, or relate how while plowing snow in the most recent blizzard reminded me of a Turner painting.
I am powerfully built, very strong, but prefer to use my mind, learn new things, think, reflect. So if that makes me a sapiosexual, fine with me!
Attractions
Intelligence above all else. A supple, kinky, naughty mind instantly grabs my attention.
A woman with dreams and aspirations of a Ds based relationship
A woman who in the vanilla world wields power, or is the decision-maker, who longs to lay down her burden, surrender and escape.
Voice. I am synesthesic - I see and feel sounds as colors, with texture, etc. So a sexy voice (cant tell you what is is, but often has to do with the honesty behind your voice) is essential.
Sexy shoes and legs are my KRYPTONITE!
Good conversation (plus voice) is essential, with opinion, backed by logic and facts!
Snuggles and good kissing
DISLIKES
Playing games. If we have taken the time to go beyond getting to know each other and having initial meetings, please do not arrive for a first serious get together and play games.
Dual standards. Do not ask for, and get, transparency from me, yet be unwilling to reciprocate.
Ds practice
I have been in and out of Ds and BDSM for over 20 years now. In the past have had a long-term 247 Ds relationship, and a few short-term Ds partners.
My view is that submission is to be earned, as it is a gift, to a man who is intelligent, strong, smart, and patient enough to both win her submission, but then safeguard her and her vulnerabilities.
Likewise, she has to earn the right to be his, to be his Pet, his good-girl, his true love. It is not easily given, she will have to work hard to get her accolades and rewards.
This takes work, and a willingness to communicate, listen, and be willing to surrender up the individual in order to create a strong union.
In order to communicate, it means that BOTH have to be open and be vulnerable. I have my own dark corners, my disappointments, scars. I willing will share them with the one who will do that same with me.
As for my kinks - they vary depending on who I am with, as my single fetish is taking control, and then keeping my submissive enthralled by the new combinations and variations I create for her.
For me, the apex is when she give me that look that shows me all of the unnecessary and unimportant has been stripped away from our relationship, and she is simply a woman, totally consumed by her man.
WHAT I AM SEEKING
Ultimately, I am looking to see if that one particular woman exists or is here. I would be thrilled if she were, but not necessarily expecting to find her, to avoid being disappointed as I have been disappointed in the past.
I am neither jealous nor afraid to be with a woman who takes the spotlight or who is the of desire for others. That she chose me is the foundation of my self-worth, I know, at the end of the day where she comes for love, comfort, and security.
The bottom line is that I seek a relationship that has the potential to grow, ideally, my last relationship, the one to last me the rest of my time on this speck of dust in the cosmos.
I will always chat with people who are polite and who wish to share their knowledge or ask questions. I will NOT assume that if you have looked at my profile, or contacted me, that you necessarily interested in more than simple, polite communication. I am not going to ask that you call me Sir or Master or type in lowercase, that is all non-sense!
If this makes sense to you, drop me a line.
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I'll protect you from the hooded clawKeep the vampires from your door.
I, feels like fire
I'm so in love with you
Dreams are like angels
They keep bad at bay, bad at bay
Love is the light
Scaring darkness away
I'm so in love with you
Purge the soul
Make love your goal
The power of love
A force from above
Cleaning my soul
Flame on burn desire
Love with tongues of fire
Purge the soul
Make love your goal
I'll protect you from the hooded claw
Keep the vampires from your door
When the chips are down
I'll be around with my undying
Death defying love for you
Envy will hurt itself
Let yourself be beautiful
Sparkling love, flowers and pearls and pretty girls
Love is like an energy
Rushin' in, rushin' inside of me
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02/22/2018
If I have added you to my favorites list, that is because I found your profile to be appealing and I wish to reach out to you once I have time to sit and write and intelligent introductory missive. Please be patient. |
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