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Have you ever wondered what you have been doing here on collarme all this time?

Well maybe to find my profile, things dont just happen! Things happen just

My name is Bram, i am Dutch but live between Spain and Holland. *November 2021, Now also available in Florida*

There are so many brave woman on here who want to make their first steps in this beautifull world called BDSM. Sometimes it took them years to be alble to do that. For social or family reasons or just because they were just to young.

Bottomline is that what ever the reason, you have been living for years with feelings you couldnt explain and were affraid to talk about. You know what i am saying here dont you?!

And then you come here, tip your feet in, and right away its been bit off by all theseself pronouncedalpha male wolves.

Something you have been longing for so long, right away has a bad taste. You are treaded like dirt, a whore. Obviously this is not a true reflection of BDSM! Keep that in mind!

Subs and slaves are no bitches or whores, they are VERY BRAVE WOMEN who dare to accept their true selves! Brave because most woman are submissive, but most of them wont accept it or make the step you made right now, comming here.

You are one of these brave womenand i am going to tell you to have patience here, you will find him in the end. Whatever you are looking for!

But let me explain you something. Like in normal lovelife, it wontbe the first one! Thats normal, because like in normal lovelife you dont know yet what you are looking for. Thats because you are not experienced in this world.

An another thing is that most Masters (here) are looking for a certain type of slave slave. Because the lack of experience you dont know if you are that certain slave.

You could try obviously, but chances are that you will have to break off because he want more of you than you are comfortable with, or he wants it to quick.

So....you ask yourself...what the F**** am i doing here then? Thats where i come in.

I am not looking for anything but i am always looking around!

The ones who want to be found will be found by me. Yes you read it right..i said...the ones (plural)! That is because i am not looking for a relationship or owning my own slave. Been there, done that. But i consider my experience to valiable to waste. I am a Trainer!



I train women according to there own wishlist and speed to become the sub or slave they want to become! Once trained and experienced you can go out there and negociate your position.

Simply because now you know who you really are and what you really are looking for.

Now why is my name Traininholiday? Simple, i train you during a holiday in sunny Spain. So even if you cant talk about anyone about your feelings, they wont look disturbed if you tell them you are going on a holiday or short city break -)

Bram
7/6/2022 1:17:42 AM

Mainly living and active in Holland nowadays.  But still open to meet or do training holidays in Spain and Florida. Just takes a little more planning as I dont go there so often as before. 

11/19/2021 7:11:55 AM

Now living between Holland, Spain and Florida. Able to do training holidays in all 3 locations when planned well.

11/18/2021 1:40:17 AM

Is the journal working again?

11/5/2017 10:24:45 PM
Cant seem to send messages anymore...
10/3/2017 1:07:54 AM
Today i decided to look for that one special slave for me to keep!
6/22/2017 11:18:17 PM
I did a test this morning. Selected the UK, submissives and last on. Wrote a nice but short message to about 40 women that came online. About 95% of them were already offline again when I hit sent. By the time they will reappear on line, the message will be snowed under by hundreds of others. Then I tried messaging them with only Hi... Nice and quick. Those who reacted mainly told me that a short message is not going to catch their attention. Catch22
1/13/2017 10:18:56 AM
Life is shorter than you can imagine. Yet many here lose time, the most valuable asset we have, searching for perfection. If you want to live in a sunny place in a big house on the beach...but cant afford that....what do you do? Right...live that way for a few weeks during vacation. So why dont you do the same with your bdsm wishes. While you strive at obtaining perfection...enjoy it during a holiday!
8/26/2013 2:30:16 AM

I see so many women stating that they are looking for their DARKER SIDE.

Please if you think that way continue reading!

 

The life you live now probably, is your darker side. You are told to live vanilla by your parents and society.

 

But is that vanilla life your true feeling? Your true instinct?

 

No its not! Your true feelings are those why you are here now.

 

These feelings aren´t dark...these are your true feelings!

 

STEP INTO THE LIGHT GIRL!

2/22/2012 7:10:24 AM
Ik ben tegenwoordig weer heel geregeld in Nederland. In de omgeving Den Haag wel te verstaan. Ik zou het dan ook leuk vinden om in Nederland weer wat BDSM contacten te hebben.
2/20/2012 5:56:58 AM
"Submission is not about being used; submission is about being of use. Submission is not about what is done to you, submission is about what you do for others " Authors unknown
12/21/2011 8:01:39 AM

I have a re-newed interest in couples ..... specialy cuckcouples.

 

So many good memories.

 

 

5/12/2010 3:08:30 AM

Had a lot of questions of subs who do have experience but need some extra training or just a good holiday...all is possible!

Angelyka
 
 Age: 58
 Toronto, Canada